Last we spoke, contacted my ex after 3 months - after this
i decided to just say hi online -
1st he was very nice to me, and then after sometime, he started to act crazy - he started name calling - he said i was crazy - and then said he is in love with a new women - Not the one he was in love with Last year - I gave it back to him, I gave him a piece of my mind - cause he put me through all this....
however I just don't know why he behaved this way, or what i did to deserve this??
today when we saw me, he pointed at me and was talkin 2 a friend while laughing, I went so humiliated...... Gosh!!!~ Help please. Post please...... Thanks
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for other details abt this - like what happened...
Help please help me soooon
thank you
2007-03-30 05:52:34 · 17 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not in contact with him - I have not been in over 2 weeks
2007-03-30 06:06:15 · update #1
WOW...do not talk to him...look t him...call him...go where he goes.......e-mail or IM him ever again.....ignore him .period...he is an immature jerk...........and you...why llower yourself and why check up on him....let him go .....you get yourself happy..learn to love yourself more and fix what you need to about you cause he isn't the only reson your relationship failed..it takes two...so whaytever you did wrong change it so you do not have that in your next relationship...and give your self time to heal...do not get in a relationship until thoes thing are done..........get happe alone.......do not count on a man for your happiness or anything else.......do it alone...then....don't look for a man or you will get another one like your ex...just live...join clubs...go to the library...book stors...join a ski club..hiking club..then you will meet someone who has an interest you have and you won't be looking ..it will just happen for you...thoes are the best relationships...but you have to be HAPPY being alone..self reliant...fixed/changed....over your ex then the sky is the limit..have fun!! Don't be a rebound...take time////////
2007-03-30 06:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretend not to care, even if you do. Then one day, you really won't and it will be a freeing experience. What he wants is a negative reaction from you. Ignoring him is what will be the worst for him. He wants to think you care and are suffering. I don't understand it, but some people are just that nutty and cruel. You are WORTH so much more than that! Have your best revenge by living well and happily. Even Christie Brinkley is doing that, so us regular mortal girls will certainly need to learn it.
2007-03-30 13:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just stay away from him for now online or in life. He is probably still really hurting and the way he is coping with it is by resorting back to a 10 year old boy. Healing takes time even for men.
2007-03-30 13:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not contact him again and I'd move on. It sounds like he's very immature and likes to make others look bad to make him feel good; who needs all that? If he's an ex, make it stay that way. Go out with friends and meet other people, ifyou see him online; ignore him, if he pings you, ignore him, if he's abusive, ignore him and report it online.
2007-03-30 13:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's evidently very imature and childish how old is he anyways? Just do what I do when someone points and talks about me pretend you dont see them that way they look absolutely stupid because his main goal is probly to irritate you if you retaliate then he wins be calm and if he calls you like a moron you should be like '' thats right i am a moron exspecially sense i got married to you'' stuff like that, otherwise just act like you dont hear him..
2007-03-30 13:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by Parachutes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has issues that make him crazy in his head, he projects all of that onto you, that's why it feels as though you are some part of the problem. stay away from him, as you've done before. stay away for a few years. until he has the courage and time to heal, to deal with his own issues. the more you interact with him, the worse it will get. he'd rather focus on hurting you because it takes away from having to focus on his own stuff. take care of yourself.
2007-03-30 13:01:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you keep going back to him? If you allow him to treat you like garbage then that's how he's going to treat you. You need to put your foot down and end all contact with him! Unless you enjoy the name calling and him treating your heart like a yo-yo. Move on!! Screw that guy!
2007-03-30 12:58:05 · answer #7 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem to be letting someone else control your emotions and feelings.
he behaved that way because he is likely immature and stupid....and perhaps bitter over your break up... so he is trying to "get back at you" through humiliation.
stooping to his level isn't going to get you anywhere... no need to speak with him anymore. gather your dignity and move on.
take care !
2007-03-30 13:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to act like a little child then let him, don't show him that you are bothered by him, just ignore him. and don't even talk to him where ever. let him stay out of yourlife. good luck.
2007-03-30 13:07:18 · answer #9 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys dated for 5 months,......move on, it's not like you guys were married or had kids. It's simple don't call him, don't accept his calls and move on.
2007-03-30 12:59:12 · answer #10 · answered by Bassetlover 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋