Everyday, he flirts with tons of different girls
im always the one who has to organise things
he forgets when it's our month anniversary, it's 10 tommorow.
He sometimes lies, over silly things though
eg. i can't remember what got on the topic but basically he lies when he says some things like yesterday he said he miss's me too.
This was 4 hours later after we saw each other over text
I love him with all my heart
i mean we are ment to have sex at some stage, but it's our irst time, i'm just scared incase he leaves me afterwards.
I'm always the one who has to make conversation aswell.
Please, tell me if it's me or him
2007-03-30 06:09:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and if i ask him to stop something, like smack me (apparently in a jokey way) he does it at least a few times before he stops.
2007-03-30 06:15:31 · update #1
he always ssays he loves me too.
2007-03-30 06:25:31 · update #2
Open your eyes and get out of this so called relationship.
2007-03-30 06:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't "meant" to do anything together, and why on earth would you want to have sex with someone so flaky?
He lies, he forgets, he flirts with others, you don't trust him, and yet you "love him with all your heart"? I don't think that's love, I think it's a form of unhealthy dependance.
You can do better.
2007-03-30 13:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not the right type of person for you so you really should get out of this now.
You'll find someone who feels the same way as you do and who will respect you.
Good luck...
2007-03-30 13:13:36 · answer #3 · answered by Twinkle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing. You need to leave him. He's not worth losing your virginity to... Does he make YOU feel SPECIAL? It certainly sounds like the answer is NO. I think you know that too, deep in your heart.
I think you already know the answer to your own question my dear. Good Luck.
2007-03-30 13:13:42 · answer #4 · answered by peace_love_granola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like its HIM. I feel if someone wanted to be in a relationship things that are important to you will also be important to your partner. If you have the feeling that once you and he are intimate that he will leave you FOLLOW that feeling because once you are intimate you can not take that back it is something that is forever.
2007-03-30 13:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by Friday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think as fas as he is concerned, Its not love at first sight but lust. So keep an adequate distance with him and slowly retire from this affair and avoid a sudden breakup.
2007-03-30 13:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are analysing his words and actions way too much! Let him be..men are not like us women worrying about anniversaries. He just wants you to be happy with him.
2007-03-30 13:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by Elisa N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your not 100% happy with him, and if thats the case no way should you sleep with him if its your first time, you dont want to regret something like that, you can do alot better
2007-03-30 13:13:22 · answer #8 · answered by Charlotte S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you and hes true he will wait on you till yopu get married to have sex if he dont find some eles who loves you for who you are.
2007-03-30 13:12:44 · answer #9 · answered by early 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's you.
you feel insecure because you already know that what you want to do isn't going to be good for you.
it's you, honey. if you listen to yourself, you wouldn't be worried about all that other junk.
Good luck!
2007-03-30 13:13:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋