ok this guy likes me and i like him but he has a history of cheetin on the gurls he dates and i dont know if i should go out wit him or not because he might cheet on me
do you think i should date him and take the chance of gettin my heart broken or do you think he will change????
2007-03-30 03:30:12 · 19 answers · asked by a firefighters girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't do it!!! just stay friends
2007-03-30 03:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can date him but hold back and play hard to get.
Do not be available all the time and don't do too much for him.
You will have to be nonchalent about dating him.
Don't be too excited even if you are about dating him.
He has probably had girls falling all over him and smothering him , so he gets tired of them fast.
If you try something different you might be pleasantly surprised.
Even if he has a history, does not mean he will cheat on you, you can't pigeon-hole every guy because of past behaviour.
You might just be the one to change that....
Play it cool.....
2007-03-30 10:40:39 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
#1 - People dont change until they want to on their own
#2 - Always take a chance
#3 - Whats the worst that can happen?
#4 - Since you already know he has a history, you have all the information you need in order to make a decision on your own.
2007-03-30 10:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
go out with him, but take it slow. Don't give up the nooky too soon. If he's a player, he'll be gone before you have a chance to get emotionally invested. Just beware, don't put your heart into until you're sure he feels differently about you. Even cheaters can change if they are truly in love, but a cheater's not gonna change for somebody who is willing to put up with their crap, just be strong, don't LET him play you.
2007-03-30 10:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he won't change at all. He is more likely to cheat on you. You already have that felling. Trust your instincts. Why go down a path you already know will bring sorrow and find someone else. Just because he might have an intrest in you might because he could be using you to get to someone else.
2007-03-30 10:34:06 · answer #5 · answered by Alex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should he suddenly change now? Be realistic. If you want to go out and have fun, fine. Just don't expect a long term relationship from this guy.
2007-03-30 10:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him, but be cool. If he really likes you, he'll do his best to show and prove it. But if he doesn't, he'll try to get away as soon as possible. Anyway, you'll find him out. Be HAPPY!!!
2007-03-30 10:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by Mario 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
worth give it a try cos u just can't run from being hurt. no matter how educated u r, u still can b hurt. its an experience
2007-03-30 10:35:03 · answer #8 · answered by anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior.
2007-03-30 10:33:13 · answer #9 · answered by Lotus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He will not change, did you think he would just for you? Just stay clear of him.
2007-03-30 10:34:38 · answer #10 · answered by We Done Yet? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has no reason to change then he will cheat on you --- and he as to decide that he is not going to cheat any more --- i would suggest avoid him -- im sorry --- best wishes
2007-03-30 10:51:40 · answer #11 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋