my husband always swear at me when he gets anger and treatened to leave me. Im full time mum to 2 y o son. What shall i do?
2007-03-30 01:52:09 · 10 answers · asked by s1974 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
4 years marriage he always swore everytime even for a small things when we argue or fight even in front of our child. Physical abused 2 times. Treatened to take the child away all the time from me. what shall i do next. Had seen councelling before but never realy help.
2007-03-30 03:12:53 · update #1
swear back at him. don't be scared to answer back.
2007-03-30 03:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not insititute a swear jar? Every time he utters a swear word he has to put a quarter in a jar. If he continues, up the anty and make it a full dollar. Once he starts to see the money add up it will be more of an incentive to stop.
Also remind him that his son will soon start speaking the same way he is. If he doesn't want that to happen he'd better work on some self-control.
2007-03-30 02:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by Thunderman9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He threatens...you should never do that. Right up to the moment you walk out and begin a new life stooping to his level is a waste of time. It takes two to argue. When he tosses it out don't throw it back. Normal voiced statements in reply such as , 'I'm sorry you feel that way" or "I'll remember that" will show him that yelling at his next wife will only get her to silently leave when she has had enough. Make an appointment with a marriage counselor to work on this, your child needs to see his mother treated with respect. Your son does not need this lesson your husband is teaching him. Don't let yourself become totally dependent. Continue your education or go to work in your field on a part time basis. Education can never be taken away.
2007-03-30 02:11:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some day when he is in a good mood sit him down and explain how you fell after he yells and swears at you , also explain the child will start to pickup some of those words he likes to use so often
2007-03-30 01:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by bluelitttt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
explain to him how u would be much better off. and how Sukey his life with no money cause u be getting it all is going to be.how he going to have to share a house with 4 or 5 other losers such as his self. and u be all alone with your lovely son enjoying life
2007-03-30 01:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to Talk to him about it tell him that swearing around a child is not good kids like to repeat things that parents say. and tell him that you do not wont you child to swear. good luck.
2007-03-30 02:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop threating and do you a favor and do it! Who needs someone swearing and threating to go all the time?
2007-03-30 02:45:03 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pack your bags and take your son and leave, your husband is verbally abusing you and you don't have to go through that c r a p
2007-03-30 02:14:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW YOU GOT PROBLEMS!!
tell him if he really loved you he would not say that
2007-03-30 02:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's verbal abuse and abuse is abuse. Show him these responses.
2007-03-30 02:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by Stitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋