Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

Im 18 and i've been with this guy for over a year. When I'm with him I'm fine, I like his company, I'm happy, and everything's ok. He's REALLY caring and romantic. (maybe too much). But when he's not around i dont miss him a single bit, and sometimes I prefer to stay on msn than meet him. What's wrong with me?!

2007-03-21 23:40:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i always fall in love with love... i forever long for that sense of belonging... and I all the time fall into the wrong person. if you read my question last week, you could make out what I am talking about.... I just walked out from a relationship of 4 years coz i found out for the umpteenth time that he was cheating me... after treating him like a king, pampering him like a baby, not asking him money and trying to make do with what I earn and add to this; he is married and his family is back in their country and I was like a fool worshipping him. but this is not the first time. men tend to take advantage of me. I am Asian, mid forties, have grown up kids, had a life before those 3 relationships, and now it makes me feel I should just stop believing there's someone who can love me. I am not bragging but, for my age I can still be mistaken to be on my early 30's... but what's wrong? why does this keep on happening?Is there someone out there for me who is worthy of my love and affection?

2007-03-21 23:40:20 · 5 answers · asked by gemovaperson 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love my boyfriend we have been together since Oct 2005 we have been through so much together and it has made us so much stronger we are planning a family together and we live together we share all our money and love to spend time together whats your advice

2007-03-21 23:40:14 · 23 answers · asked by DEBORAH A 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I love her and I wanna tell her beautiful sentences to show her my love. plz help me.

2007-03-21 23:40:05 · 9 answers · asked by Chester 2 in Friends

2007-03-21 23:39:08 · 8 answers · asked by varun narwade 1 in Friends

How do i trust my Girlfriend? Should it be natural? I have always had trust issues dated from childhood. I want to more than anything because its driving us apart and i dont want to lose her and for my peice of mind. What can i do to help?

2007-03-21 23:38:20 · 16 answers · asked by AJ21 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i often answer questions in this catagory, and two recent ones in particular were from someone in real need of help and i wondered afterwards how they had got on, any one else think further than answering the next question, and wouldnt it be nice to hear some happy endings??

2007-03-21 23:37:29 · 19 answers · asked by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

recently one of my close mates tried to sleep with me at a party while we were both drunk. i managed to get him off me but now he acts like nothing happend. he said sorry but also told me to keep my mouth shut. what do i do?

2007-03-21 23:35:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he broke up with me two month ago from a two year relationship his reason was we grew apart, we agreed to ring each other last night and he kept ringing me but not saying anything, then he rang an was talking to me, we are hanging on saturday with a group of people mostly lads, there is a lad who fancies me an is always touching me i told my ex about it an my ex just went really quiet an i had to say his name to get him to talk this will be the first time we have hung together and he knows that the lad who fancies me will be flirting will this make him jealous another thing he still wears the ring i bought him, does he still like me please help

2007-03-21 23:33:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 23:33:34 · 5 answers · asked by romanticboy 1 in Singles & Dating

If you are a female and got a male friend. Not talking about two lovers but just friendship. (sorry ask again, because of wrong questioning in a wrong place)

2007-03-21 23:32:38 · 6 answers · asked by Aries 1 in Friends

it so happened since we got married my husband does not want me to go to my parents house with the kid he said he is upset with my parents he says once they spoke rude to him and thats why they dont like him it had happened about 9yrs back he says he cant foget please tell me since 5yrs since my son was born i could not take my son to my parents now he says i can go alone to my parents house if i want and that would not stepin that house again eversince i notice it was only once my father was a bit in angry with him but later they had admitted their fault and they keep coming and visiting us why is he like that both family cannot get in good terms although my inlaws always complain about me and my work i did not say a word to my parents and when i ask my husband why that his mother is always complaining about me and i would like to stay separate he shouts at me i am feeling very hurt with his behavoiur please tell me what should i do how to handle this stituations

2007-03-21 23:32:33 · 21 answers · asked by honey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What are your wild weekend plans?

2007-03-21 23:30:06 · 11 answers · asked by tyemetght814 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

teach me flirting or gimme tips guys

2007-03-21 23:30:03 · 12 answers · asked by cute_lil_surfer 2 in Singles & Dating

M 20 yrs old... still virgin.... Do u thnk a married woman will attracts towards me?????

2007-03-21 23:29:44 · 5 answers · asked by MANDY 1 in Singles & Dating

Tuesday, I was not feeling well and work nights. Despite of how I was feeling my bf asked me to go over his way( 30 min.(s) in the rain) and pregnt, so I did, just to not see him there until it was time for me to go to work. When he got there he called me "incosiderate" b/c he claimed he had to beg me to be there so he went to the gym for 3hours. Ignoring my calls I suppose on purpose. Yesterday, I told him I was depressed. So, he bragged to me about how he use to be counselor and went to the gym(lol). Before knowing any more about how I was feeling he says,"well if you want to talk more come over" and remain to call me inconsiderate. Although, on my off days that he is aware of, no matter where I am at, I give him lunch at his job. But he remains ungrateful to me and says, he had to beg me to do it. He does not seem to realize where he goes wrong. I suppose to be pregnt and marrying next mth. Plus, I told him I would have to go see a dr. to make sure without a doubt I am pregnt.

2007-03-21 23:29:24 · 8 answers · asked by Amenity 3 in Singles & Dating

i have always been quite close to my aunt, but she is a bit stuck up and thinks she/her kids are fantastic and everyone else is not, she has often said little nasty things here and there which we let go, but she really let me down on my wedding day by various unnecessary comments, i have told my mum that i longer wish to speak to her, but now am finding that it is probably best to just be polite, i can't speak to her about it cos she is will deny having said things and make out that im at fault, i want her to be nice and want to have a relationship wiht her but cant get over the fact i have been really let down by her. i hope this makes sense, it is quite a long story and i have tried to keep it short and may have left out important things, but the gist of it is there...please advise...

2007-03-21 23:28:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i broke up with my girlfriend cause at first i had a problem with her talking to a "close friend" that she used to sleep with (not one time thing) so she says she did, having told her that she tells me "i cant make that choice" after talking to him she says he tells her to do what makes her happy..."they agreed uopn it" A little while later i see he sends her a bootycall invitation but i did not read it, cause thats not why i was in her email.
I have other people question me about comments she sends and gets in return, saying and i quote "i have been thinking about you so much, and i miss you to my latin lover" end quote, in addition she also leaves comments that would leave anyone questioning their/our relationship. Even now that we are not together she says she would like us to work so is still not talking to her "close friend"... shes talking to her ex... wow.. and she says since we are not with oneanother i dont have to understand whats going on..?
What to do what to do..?

2007-03-21 23:27:20 · 13 answers · asked by micizda1 1 in Singles & Dating

My cousin is with this girl right. I have never done anything to her(never even spoke). She accuses him of affairs with me. Me and my cuz don't even speak . What do you think her problem is . I could understand if something had been done to provoke her thinking this way but nothing has not even words.

2007-03-21 23:26:57 · 9 answers · asked by Robin M 2 in Family

2007-03-21 23:26:26 · 5 answers · asked by seema j 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy have liked each other ever since we were 12, and now he is 21 and I’m 20. We both knew that we liked one another but never said. We first met 8 years ago but it was the fact that we were in two different states that kept us apart. Three years later we meet again and tell each other that we still feel the same, but mind you we are still apart as he went off to university up north and I'm down south, but he tells me he has a girlfriend (he met her at uni). He has now been with her for 3 years but has recently broken up with her saying he didn’t see them having a future, but keeps giving me the vibe that he still has feelings for me. This guy that I have been in love with for 8 years has now graduated and now lives 5 minutes away from me, but I’m now transferring to another state because of uni too! What should I do?

2007-03-21 23:26:04 · 13 answers · asked by Suga 1 in Singles & Dating

Currently pregnant with our 3rd child (2nd pregnancy in less than 2 years-if that's relevant), and feeling very despondent about my marriage. Our 2nd child was born a year ago - we'd talked about getting married before we were pregnant but he wasn't as keen as I was. However, as the pregnancy progressed he changed his views - we decided to marry once baby was born. Here's the thing - he never proposed- some might say that it's not a big deal - we were living together, had 2 children, etc, (I agree) problem is I really struggle with it. He knows how much I wanted and needed him to propose to me - there was ample opportunity, christmas, valentines day, my birthday even the birth of the baby - he knew how much it hurt - I cried many times. The problem now is I find I question my self worth 'does this man really love me like I love him' - I gave up a career that I studied at uni for 6 years for, moved county, etc to be a mother, wife and housewife.

2007-03-21 23:25:54 · 21 answers · asked by Amanda C 3 in Marriage & Divorce

im 18 and i recently started noticing how attractive one of my mates are. recently we all went out as a group for drinks and while a littly tipsy he started this 'game' that we were going out for 3 years and how we have 2 kids together, ect. we ended up going along with it the rest of the night and kept holding hands. it was really cute and now i think i like him but we havnt really spoken properly since then. was it just a game or could there be some hidden message in that?

2007-03-21 23:25:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend has had a friend a girl as a mate foryears they used to fancey each other but things have changed ,she has a boyfriend and me and my boyfriend are loved and looking to get married , i met this gitl and he said they are going out for a quick drink after work . i do trust him but why do i feel like crap? why am i sad he is going? is this normal ? am i silly ? what shall i do ? i cant go as im at work x?

2007-03-21 23:24:56 · 3 answers · asked by clare w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

would that mean war, or would all men's heads explode?

2007-03-21 23:24:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 23:23:43 · 6 answers · asked by Robin M 2 in Singles & Dating

im from south africa...
does anyone know any travel agents with reasonable rates for a honeymoon FROM south africa to an overseas destination (we havent decided yet)..
its gona be in december and usually the rates go up around that time of year...

2007-03-21 23:23:01 · 11 answers · asked by ღ♥eyeღℓash♥ღ 4 in Weddings

2007-03-21 23:21:46 · 10 answers · asked by Robin M 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm so tired of sitting at a dinner table feeling invisible while my husband schmoozes with his shallow co-workers (he's a photographer). The conversations are sometimes frustrating to sit through and I often find myself praying for the night to end quickly. I want to be there to show my support for him, because that's important to me, but does anyone have any suggestions as to how to make those evenings more bearable? We love each other very much but is it normal to feel so disconnected from him in the presence of his coworkers?
Also, do you hate going to these things? If so, why?

2007-03-21 23:17:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Doctors are reporting that many men are having allergic reactions to latex condoms. They say they cause severe swelling.So what's the problem?

2007-03-21 23:15:52 · 5 answers · asked by Shahid M 1 in Singles & Dating