Tuesday, I was not feeling well and work nights. Despite of how I was feeling my bf asked me to go over his way( 30 min.(s) in the rain) and pregnt, so I did, just to not see him there until it was time for me to go to work. When he got there he called me "incosiderate" b/c he claimed he had to beg me to be there so he went to the gym for 3hours. Ignoring my calls I suppose on purpose. Yesterday, I told him I was depressed. So, he bragged to me about how he use to be counselor and went to the gym(lol). Before knowing any more about how I was feeling he says,"well if you want to talk more come over" and remain to call me inconsiderate. Although, on my off days that he is aware of, no matter where I am at, I give him lunch at his job. But he remains ungrateful to me and says, he had to beg me to do it. He does not seem to realize where he goes wrong. I suppose to be pregnt and marrying next mth. Plus, I told him I would have to go see a dr. to make sure without a doubt I am pregnt.
2007-03-21 23:29:24 · 8 answers · asked by Amenity 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From what you say, this guy is an absolute *sshole. You need to tell him that you won't listen to his crap. He should be treating you like a queen, not like garbage. Think about what will happen if you don't tell him? After you get married, it will get MUCH worse.
2007-03-22 00:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you wanna marry that looser, no offense, but if he's that way now it will only get worse, because he only thinks he's right. Try going to therapy, this will turn the tables on him and he can see from someone else's point of view that he is sometimes wrong. IF he laughs at the suggestion and refuses then you've got a problem and should probably leave. good luck
2007-03-22 06:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r pregnt before marriage. do u think this fellow who is so ungreatful to u, will he accept the child.
If tommorrow, he says that this is not his child and is not ready to marry u, then what the hell will u do. Have u ever thought of it ?
2007-03-22 07:20:17 · answer #3 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him?
And do you love him enough to live like that for the next x years?
He's not going to change, you know that don't you...
It sounds that he's only a ballast for you, not a partner who you can rely on when things are tough...
Maybe talk about this with your family and friends since they know him to...
Good luck and make the right decision...
2007-03-22 06:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that you should have a talk with him, tell him he's not being very considerae to you (P.S hope the baby comes through great if u are prgnt)
2007-03-22 06:35:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like the inconsiderate one. Walk away now.
2007-03-22 06:34:03 · answer #6 · answered by Alicia E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an ****** to me.
2007-03-22 06:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by I_am_me___ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lleave this relationship he doesn't love u .........
if he really does he will marry u..........................
and u know if he loved u truely he might have never made u pregnent..............
now if u are pregnent then if he neglets u leave this relationship....................
all the best may god bless u.............
2007-03-22 06:35:13 · answer #8 · answered by *niki loves all god* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋