Me and this guy have liked each other ever since we were 12, and now he is 21 and I’m 20. We both knew that we liked one another but never said. We first met 8 years ago but it was the fact that we were in two different states that kept us apart. Three years later we meet again and tell each other that we still feel the same, but mind you we are still apart as he went off to university up north and I'm down south, but he tells me he has a girlfriend (he met her at uni). He has now been with her for 3 years but has recently broken up with her saying he didn’t see them having a future, but keeps giving me the vibe that he still has feelings for me. This guy that I have been in love with for 8 years has now graduated and now lives 5 minutes away from me, but I’m now transferring to another state because of uni too! What should I do?
2007-03-21 23:26:04 · 13 answers · asked by Suga 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I love him so much but my dad says I should forget him so should I? Or should I just follow my heart?
2007-03-22 05:30:50 · update #1
You should tell him your feelings for him. Be open and honest so that you have more than a "vibe" to go on. Distance never kept real love apart and if you dont do anything to get him now then that chance of love will pass you by. Rather let this be a part of your life you tried instead of a part in your life you wish you tried.
2007-03-21 23:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion would be, Don;t wait at least now, you have waited long enough for that. Talk to that guy, tell him, I am dead sure he will have the same feeling as you have for him.
And try to get hooked up as it in future also, if this felling remain, it will be difficult for both of you to concentrate on your personal lives individually in case if you both wouldn;t hooked up with each other.
2007-03-22 07:12:00 · answer #2 · answered by Ajeet S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up and ask the guy if he wants to be with you. 8 years is a long freakin time to have a crush on someone w/o ever trying to act on your feelings
2007-03-22 06:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by kevlar1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him! Get yourselves hooked up! That is a very cute story.
2007-03-22 06:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and tell him that you are bessoted with him. before uni stops you tell him exactly what you just told me
before its too late.
2007-03-22 06:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by Fariy_God_Sistah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're made to be together. Don't transfer. Don't let him get away from you.
2007-03-22 06:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to transfer, its FATE, and you two were meant to be, if its not as easy as that, go on a date with him, andtry to get him to move along with u!!!!
Good luck!!!!!
2007-03-22 06:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by my_chem_42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dood..to heck with Uni! That can wait.... Go get your man! ;x so cute ;]
2007-03-22 06:30:36 · answer #8 · answered by ` [ [ E l i e B e a n ] ] ; ; 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call him! Call him NOW!! Let it all out! Pls. do it! Or else u'll hav 2 regret for the rest of ur life!! Please call him! Goodluck! :)
2007-03-22 07:13:30 · answer #9 · answered by doglover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's meant to be, it's meant to be, take your chance, ask him out, i hope you 2 workout good
2007-03-22 06:29:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋