i always fall in love with love... i forever long for that sense of belonging... and I all the time fall into the wrong person. if you read my question last week, you could make out what I am talking about.... I just walked out from a relationship of 4 years coz i found out for the umpteenth time that he was cheating me... after treating him like a king, pampering him like a baby, not asking him money and trying to make do with what I earn and add to this; he is married and his family is back in their country and I was like a fool worshipping him. but this is not the first time. men tend to take advantage of me. I am Asian, mid forties, have grown up kids, had a life before those 3 relationships, and now it makes me feel I should just stop believing there's someone who can love me. I am not bragging but, for my age I can still be mistaken to be on my early 30's... but what's wrong? why does this keep on happening?Is there someone out there for me who is worthy of my love and affection?
2007-03-21 23:40:20 · 5 answers · asked by gemovaperson 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
take your time and really get to know a person, everyone you meet is not going to love you or be "the one" you have to let relationships evolve and go at their own pace and don't give more than what you are getting from the other person so that you wont be taken advantage of, you don't have to stop believing in love but you shouldn't wear your heart on your sleeve and put faith into everyone you date until they have proven themselves worthy to be with you and have all the qualities in a person that you are looking for and are treating you with the respect you deserve.....
2007-03-26 15:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me - did I see a typo in your question? Did you say he was married and you were screwing around with him?Ooops! Now you say he's a cheater. Well, look in the mirror - there's another one!
Of course you know why you fall for the wrong person: you pick someone who's a sleaze - he has to be in order to cheat on his wife. Then you wonder why that sleaze isn't a prince! Oh, sorry, I forgot - you treat him like a KING so that's even better than a prince. You treat a jackass like a king - but he's still a jackass. There's a saying: you can put lipstick on a pig but it's still a pig.
Pig, jackass, sleaze - do you get the impression I don't approve of your man? I don't.
Do I approve of your standards? I don't.
Change one or the other.
2007-03-29 18:18:12 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there is someone worthy, perhaps you are just getting into the relationship too far too quickly.
Give it LOTS of time, date forever, this will allow time for things to be revealed that will help you determine if the person is right for you or not.
Good luck.
2007-03-25 14:04:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww thats so terrible and of course there is someone out there for you just maintain patience and you'll get whatever you want but you've got to give yourself a break or you'll fall apart take an easy..
2007-03-29 16:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by Parachutes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn from your past, never ride on the same mistakes again!
evaluate yourself!!!
2007-03-30 00:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by Pheuls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋