Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

2007-03-21 21:14:25 · 10 answers · asked by just mee 1 in Singles & Dating

What happens if the reason that he fell out of love with you because you weren't yourself or the person he did fall in love with in the first place. I wasn't myself for the last year (we were living together this year) of a 3 year relationship because of me being scared of losing him. I did extreme measures to make him happy, like being available to him all the time, letting him do what he wants avoiding any serious conflict (basicly losing my independence and identity). The reason why i did this was because he had committment issues in the past with me which made me think that if did everything to make him happy i won't lose him, but then he dumps me teliing me that he wasn't happy in the last couple of months and doesn't feel the same way by doesn't know why. I still love him and I regret in what I have done (in my case in losing myself first and then second, losing him)

2007-03-21 21:13:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So easy to give advice, but to take it, not so easy! I'm terrible at committing but I finally met someone that I really like, and I just know the age difference will become an issue for me - how do I get past this?

2007-03-21 21:12:46 · 9 answers · asked by Bite Me 4 in Singles & Dating

She is 25, and a rock star......and she was a virgin. When we had sex , she saw a lot of blood down there, and freaked out. She ran out of the room, and I never heard from her again. I am kind of mad....I feel like she was just using me, and I think she would not of called me anyway!!! I feel like I should expose her, but I still want her!!!! .......HELP

2007-03-21 21:12:44 · 6 answers · asked by mac-won 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 21:11:37 · 22 answers · asked by Lothario 1 in Marriage & Divorce

At issue; global warming. We are being told it's caused by CO2. This is simply untrue. Atmospheric CO2 is a result, not a cause, of a warmer climate.Ice cores tell us that in the past earth has had 10-20 times as much carbon dioxide and still gone into a cooling trend. Did the ice ages end because mammoths drove SUVs? The US at several times was tropical and had vast inland seas.BEFORE PEOPLE! One strong possibility is deforestation (rainforests). Think about how much cooler the woods are on a summer day versus a parking lot. Also remember trees remove CO2. If it takes 10 trees 1 day to remove X CO2, how long for 1 tree?Rainforests provide 25 % of the earths oxygen. Forests are being slashed and burned at incomprehensible rates.(110 acres per minute) Imagine 10 Montanas being scorched to dirt EACH YEAR.Not to mention animals and plants,etc. Yet we are being told it's our CO2 that is causing global warming . Who's making the money? Why is the deforestation not in the headlines? more--->

2007-03-21 21:10:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whem im with my guy alone...and nobody's around then he treats me really good and i feel loved. He is always nice with me BUT when we are around people he is the complete opposite. He becomes aggressive, angry..and wont even bother about me..its like im not even there. Even when were hanging out with his cousins or friends he ignores me to be with them. Sometimes he ambarrases me like he says stuff "i will bust my girlfriends head if she tries going to a club". And i dont even go anywhere. And when he smokes..he just puffs away and reight in front of my face...how rude. What the hell should i do?

2007-03-21 21:09:41 · 14 answers · asked by WHATEVER!!` 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to spice up mine and my boyfriend of two years' sex life. Any suggestions????

2007-03-21 21:04:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am depressed 'coz of my husband's attitude. I've got a baby of 7 months. My husband has got a tiresome job so whatever time he gets he spends on my baby. While playing with him he doesn't even notice that i am also there. Whenever I ask him for sex he says we'll do next night. But we haven't done since my baby's birth. Before baby's we did a lot of times but not now. I just don't understand why? Whatever time he gets he give to others. Evry night I try and every night I fail. Every night i kiss him once but he doesn't respond or reply. I cry daily a lot but can not seek help from others.I don't wanna live in such a situation. Often I feel jealous of my own baby and feel like I had been just used by him . He did it just to have a baby. I don't want to marry another person 'coz I love him too much.

2007-03-21 21:03:25 · 17 answers · asked by Tina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok...so I like this guy, and he likes me. Except he is one of those "cautious" guys, so I feel like I'm always initiating something, movies/bowling/etc. I'm getting kind of annoyed because I would like him to initiate an activity or the "d" word: dating. Except he is taking FOREVER! Honestly, it has been 3 weeks, and it feels soooo one way. I feel like our only mode of communication is IM...and maybe we should advance to the phone....or something! I called him once, but I thought maybe that was going way over the whole "wearing the pants" so I've been kind of silent since then. How do I get him to be more assertive without coming across as pushy/impatient/control freak. Don't tell me to be patient!
Merci!

2007-03-21 21:03:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this girl and i think she likes me but i dont know, what body language do girls usually use to show that they like a guy and want him to talk to her?

2007-03-21 21:01:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I already have the romantic dinner, the homemade card, and well of course the romantic night in the bedroom, but other than that I want to give him an actual present. Nothing too expensive, and no gift cards. He is turning 25 and we just got married. Any ideas would be helpful. Let me know what you think...

2007-03-21 21:01:25 · 13 answers · asked by Angelina 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey there I just wanted to ask the females of this world a question about a girl.

Today at uni me & a friend were wondering about this very attractive girl in my lecture class. The thing about her is that we've NEVER seen her talking to guys before. She's amazingly beautiful, just imagine, it's hard to explain but trust me, VERY gorgeous. The strange thing is she wears clothes that don't flatter her at all. She wore a boys shirt that was too big for her. And she was sitting alone, but only ever sits with like 2 girls. What does this tell u about the kind of person she is? We couldn't figure it out, we thought uninterested in guys maybe.

secondly, today in my other lecture i was sitting alone cos i got in early, the theatre had barely any1 in it yet and she came right up to the back and sat right next to me. Was this a coincidence or u think something more? The mixture of her hotness, randomness and queer behaviour in other lectures intimidated me. So i didn't talk to her.

2007-03-21 21:01:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, here's my story.

My boyfriend recently broke up with me, over the phone, using some vague reason that led me to believe he either lost interest or founf interest in another girl.

It's been two weeks and I've been sitting around and moping and crying and listening to jazz 70%-ish of the time. I'm going crazy.

Anyway. Here's my question: Do I have the right to mope if I technically haven't done anything to try and get him back? I feel cheated and lied to. But at the same time, nothing's changed -- I still love being around him and I love talking to him. I love it when he smiles and he's still the most amazing person I know.

I know this is pathetic, but if we could put that aside and you could tell me whether or not I'm justified in my moping, that'd be...dandy.

Thanks.

2007-03-21 21:00:54 · 3 answers · asked by K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-21 21:00:39 · 9 answers · asked by thesunshineking 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-21 20:59:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm talking to this girl and she is a virgin and I don't want to get stuck in that friend zone we go out and talk on the phone and stuff what should I do to ensure i dond get stuck in that zone and how will I know she likes me

2007-03-21 20:58:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 20:58:40 · 3 answers · asked by annabel 1 in Weddings

2007-03-21 20:57:14 · 20 answers · asked by september 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 17 and i cant stop drinkin
im into drugs n smoking
i feel that im killing my self
i dont want to
but i want to die
help

2007-03-21 20:57:08 · 3 answers · asked by Princess Penguin 3 in Marriage & Divorce

why god created man ugly and with very high sexual desire to woman
and created woman very beautiful and attractive to the opposite sex but with low sex desire?
is this fair? and isnt that make woman humiliate man and control him because he want her and need her so much but her need and desire to him is very far less?

2007-03-21 20:56:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dated this guy that i shall call "christian" for almost 20 months yet broke up with him almost 6 weeks ago. normal story up to here. turns out that my ex has and STD called condyloma and i found out when we were going out after 2 months yet i did not think that it would alter my life-this is the same STD that requires the new vaccine for women and girls called Gardisal. so "christian" and i ended up sleeping together which was the last thing on my agenda and recently as in a couple of months ago it started to worry my family: that i am at the risk of maybe getting cervical cancer. i go to a good gyno and pay lots of money for the services and the shots i get done with Gardisal yet my ex never came up once to my parents to say that he would pay the $100 a shot of the vaccine. he will not give me the phone # to his doctor so i can find out what strand of STD he has and according to him neither he nor his ex before me had it. if so then how did he get it? one of then had to cheat

2007-03-21 20:56:35 · 3 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Singles & Dating

A girl student told me about her first period and confided with me. She told that her step father makes love with her mother while she is also sleeping in the same room. He perhaps makes deliberate pumps of sighs . It is right? Is there any such experience with others?

2007-03-21 20:55:26 · 2 answers · asked by anita d 2 in Singles & Dating

i dated her for 3 years and we had so many ups and downs. we broke up and she is seeing someone else. she said she doesnt love me anymore. how can i make her love me again. i have promised her that things would get better and she gave me chances but i never fixed it. now i feel stronger than ever about us do i have a shot?

2007-03-21 20:54:29 · 11 answers · asked by Lord_poseidon 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 36 yo female i am trying to figure out how go get my mom's attention and keep it, i am a little slow but not much,my mom think's that if i go out into the real world how should i grab her attention

2007-03-21 20:53:24 · 2 answers · asked by trina 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am soo sad my bf will go on a holiday to sydney for 4 months. if his parents and him like it there they might move to it but we love each other and i will miss him like mad what should i do?

2007-03-21 20:52:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is in need of definite help. Although they are adults and much older than me, I still find myself needing to help this friend. Not because I want to or need to, it is because this friend could be in physical danger. Also there is a one-year-old baby involved. Everyone grows up differently. Those who are less fortunate need some help. In my situation, I will be helping this friend. But I just can’t understand how people can treat one another. I still have a lot to learn in this life. But I definitely know what is right from wrong. Some people just need professional help. I will find these two some professional help. That is the most I can do, because some things I have yet to understand. I don’t feel anger against this situation. I feel fear for my friend and the baby. I’m confused on how my friend got into this situation, because this individual is very intelligent. Is there a number that I should call or someone that can help me? Please, thank you!

2007-03-21 20:52:11 · 8 answers · asked by onelchris 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Finally, after 4 years of marriage my husband has finally agreed to getting circumcised. He agreed to get it done when he turned 30 and May 23 was his 30th birthday. We have consulted with a clinic in the Baton Rouge area that specializes in this and discussed the pros and cons and have set the date for Friday June 30 so he can have the following week off to recover. My ex boyfriend before I married was also not circumcised so this will be something new for the both of us.
Has anyone else been through this and what can we expect? Girls, is it better cut or should we cancel? I'm a little nervous but really think I want this. We are going to take pics before and after and are trying to get in as much sex as possible before cut date to compare the before and after feelings for the both of us. Willing to share results and answer questions later as a man and woman that has experienced both. Hope its worth it because I know it's final.

2007-03-21 20:51:25 · 19 answers · asked by missy k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-21 20:50:11 · 15 answers · asked by ss 1 in Friends

i'm frm a traditional christian indian family and raised in u.s. got married to a man in india after getting to know him for several months over the phone.its 1 year now i thought i knew him but i don't. i adjusted a lot in many ways to make him happy. we have a son (8 mos) now. i'm happy, i love my husband and my son is my world. i do evrything to make husband happy but he is stubborn, does what he wants without even thinking about my feelings. when i try to talk to him calmly about my feelings he says it's my fault and he stops talking and we get into an argument which lasts in silence for days. he doesnt consider my feelings or wants.

2007-03-21 20:50:03 · 6 answers · asked by so dprssd 1 in Marriage & Divorce