2007-03-21 21:00:39 · 9 answers · asked by thesunshineking 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
feck... i wish i could help you... but I am going through a really really dark time myself exactly for this reason... I was unfaithful and my ex left me. Not right away, but eventually. It has now been 5 months (!!!) and the pain has not eased or gotten any lighter... I am still in emotional hell and all is black and hopeless in my mind. I hate my life, I hate my loneliness, I don't want to burden my friends and family anymore with this because it's all I can talk about. The man who left me does not love me, but claims to care about me like a friend. He said he will never come back to me and we will never be a couple again, yet I can not accept this and I keep calling him, and spending time with him, and doing things for him, and it feels like this will never change. I have no will power or strength to stop. I want to forget him. I want to ignore him. I want HIM TO CHASE ME... but he won't. He's moved on, he's very happy, going to parties, meeting new people, laughing and living a care-free new life. WHY CAN'T I? I know my answer might not resolve anything for you, but at least you know there are people out there who feel EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE FEELING RIGHT NOW. Good luck. May we all get over our pain.
2007-03-22 04:08:48 · answer #1 · answered by ozkiska2love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are several things you can do, at least these worked for me:
1. Make yourself busy with your favorite hobby (for example, reading, watching movies etc.)
2. Hang out with friends and/or family as much as possible. The more you are alone, the more you'll pine for your ex.
3. Try something new (for example, if you've always wanted to try bungee jumping, go for it now)
4. Talk about it until you can't talk anymore (sometimes just venting to someone is very fulfilling)
5. Put your feelings in a journal daily ( I guarantee you, even a month from now, you'll be able to see how far you've come when reading entries from just a few weeks before)
These are just a few suggestions you can try. I hope all works out for you. :)
2007-03-21 21:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst element he did to me became for the time of the breakup: a million. He sent a text fabric to his ex asserting that she became eye-catching and what a guy needs in each and every element (specific, in no way strategies how plenty he might tell me she's loopy a not for him... and yet another element, i don't remember him ever calling me eye-catching or especially to declare the least). 2. He suggested he in basic terms stayed with me for 3 entire years out of convenience (we moved in jointly 3 months into our relationship to pass out of our mothers and fathers homestead). That harm, fairly because I gave the impact of a fool as I took the brunt while he became unemployed thrice, and in basic terms time for almost 6 months. i'm so stupid.
2016-11-27 21:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually ii dont know what is best i can tell you coz im also suffering this things as of now but im trying to forget him even though time comes that all memories you shared just flash in your mind unconsciously. Try to share with somebody you trust your feelings atleast it helps to relieve the pain after coz i believe that time will come that you will forget him fully but it takes time. But dont do thing you its bad coz problem will not be resolved with another problem. Gudluck........
2007-03-21 21:33:45 · answer #4 · answered by cheezzee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to distant yourself from anything that will remind you of him, from as simple as pictures to as difficult as the sweetest memories. Pain will always be there, it just takes time to heal. Maybe keeping yourself busy or invovle in other things can help you out. just don't let yourself be too lonely or be alone all the time, then you'll think less! great luck!
2007-03-21 21:28:21 · answer #5 · answered by ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh shoot my friend, those hurt hurt hurt
I mean it, i hate that feeling,
you know how i did? i started dating someone right away and I also slept a lot (by sleeping i don't mean like sleeping with someone, i mean sleeping zzzz going to bed). I went to the gyms, got out with friends, and went ot the river or beach and cried a lot.
After crying you will feel renew, but the best is to date someone right away.
2007-03-21 21:04:39 · answer #6 · answered by Latina_Rica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's easy. The person you broke up with or who broke up with you. Move on.
2007-03-21 21:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by Toodeemo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hire a femal gardner if ur a guy n if ur a gurl hire a male gardner:D:D:D:D
2007-03-21 21:03:25 · answer #8 · answered by Princess Penguin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
masturbate
2007-03-21 21:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by ray_shulslur 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋