Ok...so I like this guy, and he likes me. Except he is one of those "cautious" guys, so I feel like I'm always initiating something, movies/bowling/etc. I'm getting kind of annoyed because I would like him to initiate an activity or the "d" word: dating. Except he is taking FOREVER! Honestly, it has been 3 weeks, and it feels soooo one way. I feel like our only mode of communication is IM...and maybe we should advance to the phone....or something! I called him once, but I thought maybe that was going way over the whole "wearing the pants" so I've been kind of silent since then. How do I get him to be more assertive without coming across as pushy/impatient/control freak. Don't tell me to be patient!
Merci!
2007-03-21 21:03:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you want to go out with him.
2007-03-21 21:10:59 · answer #1 · answered by Fab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. Tell him that if he wants a girlfriend, that he's going to have to start "wearing the pants" in your relationship. It is not your job to initiate contact once he knows you like him. If he doesn't know that you like him, that's a completely different story. So if that's the case, make sure he knows that you want him.
2007-03-21 21:20:25 · answer #2 · answered by sexymaylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 21:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That just SOUNDS so hyper it makes my head ache.
Chill out girl, and maybe let him get a word in edgewise.
2007-03-21 21:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by dickdamick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him for a while. if he really likes you then he'll find a way to contact you. otherwise, he sounds like a little bbitch and you should work on finding a real man.
2007-03-21 21:10:41 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ bp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Je ne sais pas.
He likes you but he's SO shy. Take it or leave it
2007-03-21 21:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋