Whem im with my guy alone...and nobody's around then he treats me really good and i feel loved. He is always nice with me BUT when we are around people he is the complete opposite. He becomes aggressive, angry..and wont even bother about me..its like im not even there. Even when were hanging out with his cousins or friends he ignores me to be with them. Sometimes he ambarrases me like he says stuff "i will bust my girlfriends head if she tries going to a club". And i dont even go anywhere. And when he smokes..he just puffs away and reight in front of my face...how rude. What the hell should i do?
2007-03-21 21:09:41 · 14 answers · asked by WHATEVER!!` 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When he is with his friends and he ignore's you, you should completely ignore him and talk heaps to his friends. When he says something don't try to join in, when his friends speak laugh like it was really funny or join in heaps. Then he can see how you feel. When he smokes in your face - cough! Say yuck! that stinks! Then he will see how you feel! If he still doesn't care about you with his friends after you do this to you then decide if you really want to keep going out with a guy who is going to treat you like that. You deserve better though!
Goodluck with everything!
2007-03-21 21:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by ~ Girl ~ Anonymous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Melisha. Have you told him how you feel, if not you certainly should. I think maybe he's putting on a show of "I'M THE BOSS" in front of others or he feels insecure about losing you to someone else. How long have you been with this guy, if not long you need to nip this in the bud before it gets worse. If you have been together a while then still tell him how your feeling. If this makes no difference and you see no improvement then I'm sorry to say hun but you need to find someone that will treat you with the dignity and respect you deserve. Best of luck.
2007-03-22 04:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this guy doesn't deserve a girlfriend like you, he shows, hostility around you in circles of friends and cousins, Shows total disregard for your feelings. I can't believe you haven't got rid of him.Your supposed to be the main priority in his life. Shore guys should b able to go out with their friends but he shouldn't ignore you. Explain how you feel and if he's too immature to deal with it in an appropriate manner dump his a**, You 'll find another boyfriend in no time, Hope it all works out. All the best.
2007-03-22 04:50:27 · answer #3 · answered by nightdreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the nearest exit and take it. Do not look back. This person is not worthy. Anyone who EVER talks about doing you physical harm is to be avoided. He does not respect you. You must respect yourself enough not to allow this in your life.
2007-03-21 21:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by siddoly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump His *** And Call It His Loss
2007-03-21 21:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by Mandie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea I have one of those too, He has problems showing affection in public. You could leave him or just deal with it because it will not stop.
2007-03-21 21:13:58 · answer #6 · answered by bambi21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you want to be friendly who does not show his real self when people are around. Leave him find sone who really cares .
2007-03-21 21:15:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He sounds like an asshole. No offense
2007-03-21 21:13:22 · answer #8 · answered by whiteblaq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk out and go somewhere to enjoy yourself.
2007-03-21 21:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cool im invisible too did u know
2007-03-21 21:13:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋