Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

my girlfriends ex invited her to the movies, you know i trust her and everything i just get jealous when she talks to him, plus like i have a feeling that her ex is gonna try to make a move on her at the movies, plus her ex still likes her and she be telling me that she loves me not him, but i just dont know what to do?

2007-03-21 20:05:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i m engaged from last 1 year n now soon getting married. in this stage we r not not getting along well , he is always aggressive and have probls in my every thing , should i break up now or wait 4 the better times. he gets angry fro one thing or another , n suddenly changes n says he loves me. i m confused . the two images of him r too different , i try to b patient but i n scared that wat if he continues this after marrieage . i lov him too but cant ruin my life . pls help me , to come up wid right decesion.

2007-03-21 20:02:50 · 15 answers · asked by vanice 1 in Singles & Dating

there's this guy that my only intention is just to be his friend but then as time goes by i started to fall to him.... but he like someone else.... sometimes he ask some advice to me what he should do to the girl, still i give him some good advice though it hurts.....should i just give him up or fight for it??????? please help me in this...... :'(

2007-03-21 20:02:14 · 13 answers · asked by iAn 1 in Singles & Dating

Friends, im 17+ and m in a realtionship with a girl last 1.3 yrs for which m thankful to god always!..the things were damn nice before...still it is! My problem is that whenever she's talking to anyone in phone I feel scare that maybe she's talking to a guy! As she use to talk atleast 1/2n hour....but after that she use to talk to me too and i use to irritate her! Use to scold her....and she just use to tall me :"Trust Me! If i've any intension to leave you i would have before" I just cant see her talking to anyone maybe coz im scared and afraid to loose her! if the credit of my phone overs i use to cry coz i do miss her a lot! in 24 hrs i use to recall her name more than 10lacs times..m getting mad!

But i want to get rid of all my stupid ideas and want a fresh love without any erring so that atleast she feels proud of me...okay tell me girls...girls are genuine? often ppal heard in stories that guys always keep on changing girls but girls are always true!

I hope2 get answer!

2007-03-21 20:02:11 · 9 answers · asked by I๓ρєяเãl ãяc° ™ 2 in Singles & Dating

What happens if the reason that he fell out of love with you because you weren't yourself or the person he did fall in love with in the first place. I wasn't myself for the last year (we were living together this year) of a 3 year relationship because of me being scared of losing him. I did extreme measures to make him happy, like being available to him all the time, letting him do what he wants avoiding any serious conflict (basicly losing my independence and identity). The reason why i did this was because he had committment issues in the past with me which made me think that if did everything to make him happy i won't lose him, but then he dumps me teliing me that he wasn't happy in the last couple of months and doesn't feel the same way by doesn't know why. I still love him and I regret in what I have done (in my case in losing myself first and then second, losing him)

2007-03-21 20:02:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was so optamisitic about love and what it should be like, until my first love left me to be with someone else. I am a loyal girl...and have high morals about relationships. But all I see and hear now is who's been cheating. Marriages and relationships splitting up left and right. Do you feel that marriages really work anymore, or is sex and cheating become the thing to do now??

2007-03-21 20:01:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he says hes been feeling this way for a long time off and on and doent know what to do with himself anymore. he refuses to tell his mother or girlfriend, for fear that they might try to lock him up in an instatution. i dont even know what to say to him to change his mind.. any suggestions?

2007-03-21 20:00:52 · 5 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Friends

im, 25 but my,My Mom is 68 years old, she devoted her whole life to her sister and doing everything for her 3 sons.. being extra nice to them.. Her sister is a control freak, if you dont do as she tells you she gets very angry... She used to call my Mom every week saying catty and mean things to her, and telling her how shes weird because my father died 3 years ago and she should get a boyfriend and stop whiing,,--stuff like that...
my Mom she stopped doing everything her sister wants,,
Also her sisters 3 sons started bullying my Mom, calling her and asking questions like,, What street do i work on?,,demanding they be invited to our house and slamming the phone when told no..
then my 50 yr old cousins wife left a message for my Mom saying "how dare you cut us off and not cal my husband for his birthday and not invite him to your house, hes hurt, and we dont want a response from you" My mom didnt call back, no one ever contacted us in the family again, do i call them now?

2007-03-21 19:59:39 · 10 answers · asked by tbo 1 in Family

keeps emailing to me after I left a job like he wants to be my friend. He would say things like he's thinking of me, want to see me, go out with me, and said 1X he would name his child after my name. It seems like he's flirting with me and I told him we should stop emailing to each other, but he said he really would like to keep in touch with me still and be my friend. Should I hurt him and stop emailing to him or continue be his friend?

2007-03-21 19:56:37 · 40 answers · asked by . 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And if couples have more than one baby, the baby will be put to sleep.

Seriously, humans are ****** retarded and need to quit breeding.

2007-03-21 19:54:58 · 3 answers · asked by Lothario 1 in Marriage & Divorce

<> well my boyfriend has a gay freind...and hes such a sweetheart ...he helps me and my boyfreind out when we need help with anyhting...but things for me are getting suspicous...when hes at my mans house...my man doesnt pik up the phone...and lately he buys my man alot of things... and calls him way more than i do?? please help.....should i be thinking...that maybe.....i donnu..help..

2007-03-21 19:53:34 · 12 answers · asked by **PrinCess** 2 in Singles & Dating

My on again off again ex-boyfriend broke up again for the second time a month and a half ago (he ended it the first time I ended it the second time). Then he called me out of the blue about a week ago. I ignored his calls and texts. He ended up coming up to where I live and I finally agreed to see him. He told me that he missed me and wanted another chance. He said he wanted us to be together. That he was going through something weird before, but he had thought about it and that he missed talking to me and hanging out with me and that meant to him that he wanted to be with me, but he wasnt very emotional. We talked (sort of), kissed, and he wanted me to go down and party with him and his friends, but I couldn't go. I think I've had enough drama and bulshit, so I don't know if I really want him back again or not, so I just told him that maybe if we took it slow I was willing to see. Its been four days since then and I haven't heard from him. I don't get it. What happened?

2007-03-21 19:53:21 · 9 answers · asked by menau 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 19:52:20 · 19 answers · asked by Lothario 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I`m looking for an American or Canadian girl to find a trust relationship.I believe there is no diference between people unless in goodness and badness.
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2007-03-21 19:51:44 · 2 answers · asked by Khashi 1 in Friends

My Hubby is in the National Guard and has been deployed to Iraq. We keep in touch daily, either by phone or on line. He gets very upset if he calls and I'm not home. He can also reach me on my cell phone. He has never said that he thinks I am seeing someone but he implies it by some of the things he says. Also he panicks if he can't reach me and calls family, friends etc. We have only been marrried a year, it hurts me to even think that he would doubt me being faithful and I want to get really angry but I try to understand that he is so far away and that might enter his mind. He deny's even thinking such a thing but his actions tell me he is. He also repeats over and over "as long as you are there when I get home" I hate that he sits and worries and I want to assure him that I love him and would never do anything to hurt him and I will be here for him when he gets home but evidentally I have failed in trying to do that. Any help on what I can say to ease his mind would be appreciated

2007-03-21 19:50:44 · 19 answers · asked by sash 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-21 19:49:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Usually when you have a crush on someone, you'd make excuses to be with him/her....if a guy doesn't seem to make that effort does it mean he's not interested or just reclusive?

2007-03-21 19:49:47 · 18 answers · asked by Golden Green Leaves 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a close guy friend. he was very nice at the start but lately he's been very irritable and really critical on everything about me for no real reason. i still want him to be my friend but i don't know if it's still good for both of us to be friends.

2007-03-21 19:49:27 · 4 answers · asked by first l 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 19:49:04 · 16 answers · asked by H 2 in Singles & Dating

Is this attractive, not attractive, or doesn't really matter.

I'm 26, when I graduated 3 yrs ago I had one of the hottests corporate jobs someone could get with my degree. However after 1.5 yrs working there I was exhausted, so I left to try out some online business ideas I had. As a result, I gave up my apartment (to move home), gave up buying a new car, & a lot of other things.

1.5 yrs later, I'm low on cash, have developed my business ideas (but have no $ for marketing), and learned a hell of a lot about what I am doing. So I plan to try to find funding (unlikely), and get a job so I can at least throw more $ at it.

So I'm 26, been living w/ parents the past year, have no savings (anymore), and drive a crappy car. It won't be hard to get a job though, and I've never had too much difficulty with women.

However, would you find my situation attractive, unattractive, or doesn't even matter? Just curious because I've lost the will to meet new women during this time. Please be honest.

2007-03-21 19:48:31 · 10 answers · asked by Skytide 3 in Singles & Dating

Can a Christian marry 2 wife without divorce each other ?

2007-03-21 19:46:35 · 31 answers · asked by hisahito 5 in Weddings

ok, me and my boyfriend (of which i like a TON) haven't been dating for the longest time but a decent length. we've been having serious problems lately. he doesn't really know what to do about "us" and doesn't want to waste time figuring out if i'm right or not. but it also bothers him that i'm a virgin and he's not. is that a big ego thing? i think i might be ready, would it help the relationship a little if we did anything? i'm not saying "i'll have sex if you stay with me" but i'm thinking if we worked things out for the most part that would just be the deal sealer. what should i do?

2007-03-21 19:46:19 · 3 answers · asked by Taylor 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I had been dating for about 5 months, and I was wondering if I should let her hang out with her ex-boyfriend. She says they're just friends, and whatelse is weird is that they planned on going to the movies, and her ex-boyfriend still likes her? she tells me that she loves me not him, what should i do?

2007-03-21 19:46:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi! I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend, who is only Spanish speaking, is 24. I am bilingual, and I love him with all of my heart. We have been best friends for a year now and have been dating for a month and a half. We spend almost every night together, since we both work and I am in school, that is the only time we have together. My family and friends hate that I am dating him, and they told me to just drop him. He has been nothing short of wonderful to me, yet they can't stand the fact that he only speaks Spanish and also has a child from when he was very young. I feel empty without him in my life, and they don't understand this. They make snide comments and told me that they will NEVER approve of him, and they haven't even met him because of this. I am lost as to what to do. I understand that there are many obstacles in our relationship, but he's too important in my life to just give up on it. Any advice? What should I do?!

2007-03-21 19:45:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My younger sister will be my maid of honor, she's 15 now and will be 16 shortly before the wedding. I know she's going to want to help, but i don't think she is quite old enough for all of the maid of honor duties. I also have a matron of honor. I was wondering what i could give my little sister to do to help, without making her feel like i'm treating her like a little kid, but still not giving her full responability for extrememly important things.

2007-03-21 19:45:02 · 7 answers · asked by hempfairie 2 in Weddings

one of my closest sisters is in the worst position ever...her husband has told her that he doesnt love her anymore..and doesnt want to pretend and wants out!! after ten years and 3 kids!! i mean i guess its okay...to say sumting instead of walking out..well The question is ...should i tell my parents....??? && how can i help her??

2007-03-21 19:44:51 · 9 answers · asked by **PrinCess** 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-21 19:44:46 · 6 answers · asked by yurrose 2 in Singles & Dating

He's a bit of a softie, kind of like a mama's boy, but kind with a big heart, and he's really nice.

Anyway, we had good convo and flirted a bit, I asked him out but didnt follow through with it - and expected him to say yes when we met up again 6 weeks later.

He said no, he has a gf - but damn! This boy is on my mind. What do I do? Seems like I'm not attracted to anyone else, and when I date others - I cant give all of myself to them because I think about HIM!!

2007-03-21 19:44:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got back home after being out of town for a month and a half. I wanted to spend the night with a close friend with whom I've slept a few times. We've never called each other gf/bf because we both know our age difference and being at different places in life would keep us from ever having anything long-term. We've even talked about this before and I've been very honest. Yet, we're still close and attracted. Anyway, she wanted to take me out to eat when I got back, but I told her that if we met, I knew I'd want to sleep with her. She has the same strong feelings, yet when I was blunt with her about my desires she was turned off. It was like she would rather me have gone on with the dinner invite and then we end up in bed together without planning on that happening. We both knew what would happen, yet my saying it out loud that I wanted to sleep with her turned her off.

2007-03-21 19:42:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is a good boy?

2007-03-21 19:42:02 · 7 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating