there's this guy that my only intention is just to be his friend but then as time goes by i started to fall to him.... but he like someone else.... sometimes he ask some advice to me what he should do to the girl, still i give him some good advice though it hurts.....should i just give him up or fight for it??????? please help me in this...... :'(
2007-03-21 20:02:14 · 13 answers · asked by iAn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Next time he asks for an advice say, "Do this..." then kiss him. After look into his eyes.
2007-03-21 20:05:22 · answer #1 · answered by cashew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's time for you to be straightfroward with him. Next time he asks your advice, tell him that you would prefer it if he stopped seeing her and came to you - using those terms, especially the 'come to me'. Say it honestly, seriously, and look him straight in the eyes when you do. And try to be holding his hand at the time, even if you have to reach for it. Hold it gently and stroke it. He may stumble a bit, not expecting it, so be patient with him. If he stays, he's yours.
If that doesn't work, he isn't yours, and never will be. Accept, walk away, look elsewhere. The hurt will go.
2007-03-22 03:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he like this other girl and doesn't love her. You may have a chance to coral this fellow. Be careful, what makes you think he will fall in love with you. Love doesn't work that way sweet. The both of you will know it. When you find it, nothing on God's green earth will keep the both of you apart.
2007-03-22 03:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get your feelings tied up to this so called lover of yours. IOf you want to countinue having fun for the time being do it. You know very well what kind of relationship this is. if you possibly cant take it anymore just dont talk to him anymore. What is he going to do if you dont talk anymore. I mean nothing. Another thing is why do you tell him things about other girls if it hurts you. Just dont say nothing, hang up. I mean thats really the best advice i can give you. Unless you like to play the game. You know when its time to go. trust me. soeteoper
2007-03-22 03:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you love to give him advice, but he needs to answer a question before you continue to advise. Ask him what do you do if someone loved you deeply, but you were involved with someone else.
2007-03-22 03:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes someone else, just like you said. What are you looking for? Key words that might turn his head your way?
Not gonna happen. Be a friend and just have fun...being a friend will make him see the light
2007-03-22 03:06:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't spend all your time and effort on this guy, expand your horizons and look for new guys to be with. Life is so short so live it. Good luck I hope you make a good choice on what you should do. whenever you have doubts about dating. Remember you only live once. So enjoy yourself
2007-03-22 03:10:28 · answer #7 · answered by AC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell him exactly how you feel and see what he says, you will never know if you never have the guts to tell him. He could like you in return and only asks you so that he can ask you intimate questions and get to know you better. Take the plunge, it could work out in your favour.
2007-03-22 03:11:27 · answer #8 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just tell him how you feel? How do you expect to have a relationship with him if he doesn't even know you like him?
2007-03-22 03:06:10 · answer #9 · answered by Miranda S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to fight for him?tell him what you feel. if he rejects you, accept it and move on. you can still be friends with him even after that. it is actually your choice. but for your peace of mind, tell him what you feel. just be ready with whatever outcome-that is, be accepted or rejected. ok?
2007-03-22 03:07:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋