My girlfriend and I had been dating for about 5 months, and I was wondering if I should let her hang out with her ex-boyfriend. She says they're just friends, and whatelse is weird is that they planned on going to the movies, and her ex-boyfriend still likes her? she tells me that she loves me not him, what should i do?
2007-03-21 19:46:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is just too weird for me. I would put the ultimatum to her and tell her it's him or you. That taking advantage of you Dude!
2007-03-21 19:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
i think of that on account which you men are jointly for over 2 years she has been attempting to get the final of the two worlds. a dependable boyfriend and an ex. i'm assuming he dumped her and he or she remains not over it. I mean that is possible for ex's to proceed to be pals yet while it hurts a relationship properly it's time to decrease ties. tell her to % and if she does not comprehend or gets mad ask her how she might sense if the shoe replaced into on the different foot..solid luck..
2016-10-19 07:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a matter of "letting" her do anything, it's a matter of trust. She's told you that they're friends and nothing is going on. That should be enough for you. If it isn't, and you don't believe she can be trusted, then you do not belong together. A relationship can't survive without trust, and it won't survive if one person refuses to believe and trust the other. If she has not given you cause to doubt her, you're just inviting trouble by not believing her when she says it's cool.
2007-03-21 19:51:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jadalina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and talk to her ex-boyfriend... Tell him to stop meeting your girlfriend because you don't want too.. And remind your girlfriend that you still her boyfriend and tell her to stop meeting with that guy anymore... And ask her date so that the guy don't have the chance to be with her> I know this is torturing but do you want to stay there and do nothing? Of course not!!! Tell the girl that if she really loves you then stop meeting with that guy because she's not fair to you... And ask her if what is she still looking for?
2007-03-21 20:06:30 · answer #4 · answered by rhean s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry, but this doesn't sound good. Maybe if you went with them? I don't think her going alone is doing your relationship any good. If they are just friends, then they shouldn't mind. You should be a part of everything if she is committed to you. If she or her ex put up a stink about it, I think you have your answer and should just move on, because she is cheating on you.
2007-03-21 19:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by Twisted Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you could belive her but,how could you when she's running out with another dude.i mean her ex come on now you know there were feelings before.did the relationship end on good terms?or was it bad?She still has feelings for this man and if she truly cared about you and her and your relationship then she wouldn't do this to you or herself.she should be taking this extra time to be with you and to get to know you better not trying to disregard your feelings and look out for hers.if you want to be happy then let her know that she can't do this anymore or else your out.you must do this to protect yourself and allow her to be happy because if she is so happy with you then she would be over this guy aleady right?
2007-03-21 20:09:36 · answer #6 · answered by marcelleaandbryan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What do you call it when a guy takes a girl to the movies?
A date!!!!
Dude, if you don't have a problem with your girlfriend dating her ex-byofriend, somethings wrong.
Tell her if she wants to go out with other guys, go for it. Then tell her that you'll be going out with other girls, cause it's over if she agrees to that.
2007-03-21 19:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by sct442 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask if you can go to the movies too. If there's nothing going on between them then what's the big deal? You should be able to go too right?
2007-03-21 19:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust her! Its been 5 months, just tell her that your concerned and try hard to trust her. and you not in charge of her so don't think you are by asking if you should let her go if she wants to go then she should go. leave her alone
2007-03-21 19:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by THE 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a woman and I wouldn't let my man go out or hang out with an x
2007-03-21 19:51:35 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
it would be really dominating to tell her not to go, and it would seem like you do not trust her if you you badger her about it, but it is something to be concerned about. it is a delicate matter and you'll have to handle it with calm and ease. tell her the truth that you feel a bit uncomfortable, but don't be pushy about it. like i said, it is a delicate and sensitive matter, but it can be dealt with. hopefully she'll put your mind at ease, no matter what she does (that is whether she decides to go with her ex or not).
2007-03-21 19:51:31 · answer #11 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋