Friends, im 17+ and m in a realtionship with a girl last 1.3 yrs for which m thankful to god always!..the things were damn nice before...still it is! My problem is that whenever she's talking to anyone in phone I feel scare that maybe she's talking to a guy! As she use to talk atleast 1/2n hour....but after that she use to talk to me too and i use to irritate her! Use to scold her....and she just use to tall me :"Trust Me! If i've any intension to leave you i would have before" I just cant see her talking to anyone maybe coz im scared and afraid to loose her! if the credit of my phone overs i use to cry coz i do miss her a lot! in 24 hrs i use to recall her name more than 10lacs times..m getting mad!
But i want to get rid of all my stupid ideas and want a fresh love without any erring so that atleast she feels proud of me...okay tell me girls...girls are genuine? often ppal heard in stories that guys always keep on changing girls but girls are always true!
I hope2 get answer!
2007-03-21 20:02:11 · 9 answers · asked by I๓ρєяเãl ãяc° ™ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok man what you are doing her is not putting enough emphosis on what you have accomplished this far. You have been in this relationship for like 1.3 years. You have been able to make her love you by being yourself for 1.3 years. Love requires work, but not unimaginable amounts. If you have gotten this far, I would start working on feeling good about it and start feeling good about yourself. She likes you for you man. I bet that there is no other guy that could come along and "take" her from you because you share something more special, intamacy. Don't let it die, and let her know how you feel and if she does look at other guys show her why she likes you.
2007-03-21 20:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by Michael M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are about to be dumped for nothing. Girls just hate when you accuse them for imaginary stuff; she's got feelings and you don't seem to care, and girls get tired of being falsely accused.
Do not open your mouth unless you see her kissing someone else. Talking over the phone is nothing; that's not cheating. May be you are not ready to be a boyfriend, so take a break or change because what you are doing now will scare away all other girls.
You know what to do; drop the detective game, drop the "who were you talking to?", respect her privacy and do not cross the line.
2007-03-22 03:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should understand her and if you have doubts that she's been talking to another guy on the phone why don't you check her while she's on the phone or if there's a connected phone to your house then find out yourself...and check your telephone bills maybe if there's a clue there... And if you don't have no doubts then try at least to understand her.. And if you don't want to loose her why don't you ask her if she still loves you or not and there's nothing wrong if you ask her that.. and confront her talk to her... just tell her about your feelings.. Do you live together with her already?
2007-03-22 03:17:00 · answer #3 · answered by rhean s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are not always true. If a girl doesn't respect you, in other words, if your too needy and suspicious your relationship is going south and she feels smothered. And yes, if someone that interests her comes along, even if she feels in her mind its friendship, she will not resist. But she will most often hide the fact from you until a better day or situation. The role kind of reverses in a situation like that. Most guys don't want a needy girlfriend whos always questioning, the same goes for girls.
2007-03-22 03:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by cindy h 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust her. there are so many girls who can still be trusted. give your trust to this girl. take the risk. remove your doubts. as a certain saying goes-let her go, if she came back, she is yours, if she doesn't,she was never meant to be. give her your love and your trust. talking to someone doesn't mean she will leave you. personally, i can talk to any guy but my love remains with the one and only. got my point? have confidence in your love. good luck.
2007-03-22 03:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you keep getting scar everytime she talk in the phone, you will have plenty to scare about later in life. I think she is the first love to you, well if she dump you someday it will hurt like hell, you can't sleep, can`t eat, can´t this and that. Loving someone, the feeling should be sweet and loving, if you don´t have that it means there is something in your relationshp.
2007-03-22 03:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in love, but still insecure, trust the girl..if anything goes wrong , she will be the one to tell you..give her a chance to have friends too, you cant keep her locked in her room and suffocate her.. if she said she loves you, just trust her.
2007-03-22 03:10:09 · answer #7 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh? it sounds to me that you have a jealous/possisive side. she hasnt given you any reason not to trust her, so you should trust her. its when you catch her lying to you that you need to be suspicious.
2007-03-22 03:09:34 · answer #8 · answered by mcfly_lives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to learn to trust her ..............i know it it is hard.................but you better try it.........cuz if u dont , and u go on like this u might lose her................
2007-03-22 03:10:41 · answer #9 · answered by night_age_germany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋