Women's opinion. Preferably women in their 20s about my situation.?

Question

Is this attractive, not attractive, or doesn't really matter.

I'm 26, when I graduated 3 yrs ago I had one of the hottests corporate jobs someone could get with my degree. However after 1.5 yrs working there I was exhausted, so I left to try out some online business ideas I had. As a result, I gave up my apartment (to move home), gave up buying a new car, & a lot of other things.

1.5 yrs later, I'm low on cash, have developed my business ideas (but have no $ for marketing), and learned a hell of a lot about what I am doing. So I plan to try to find funding (unlikely), and get a job so I can at least throw more $ at it.

So I'm 26, been living w/ parents the past year, have no savings (anymore), and drive a crappy car. It won't be hard to get a job though, and I've never had too much difficulty with women.

However, would you find my situation attractive, unattractive, or doesn't even matter? Just curious because I've lost the will to meet new women during this time. Please be honest.

Answer 1

Well, I'm in my early-mid 20s.. I've started a business myself and I know what you are going through. Although I bought my own condo at 19 and drive a nice car.
Relationships are not about material things, number one. What should be attractive to women is your ambition and desire to do what it takes to get what you want (even if it means taking a few steps back to take huge leaps forward.)

For now, you just need to stop worrying about what women think and remain 100 percent focused on achieving your goal of a successful business.

VERY IMPORTANT!!!
If you do get into a relationship, PLEASE find someone who is supportive of you and your ideas. DO NOT be with someone who cuts you and your dream down. It could actually slow you down or stop you from progress.. it's a mental thing. K? thanks!

Answer 2

ok, in the beginning i'm banking which you're purely generalizing right here. i do no longer see thoughts in a woman as a nasty concern. You stated a good element that ladies human beings have a extra nurturing side. i think of ladies human beings tend to be extra in touch with their extra well-off thoughts than adult males. I additionally believe that ladies individuals are extra empathic than adult males, meaning they have a tendency to appreciate while something is faulty. What I do see as a nasty concern, is while a woman would not talk their thoughts. My ex would get PMS, yet she would not tell me. If she's having a genuine complicated time with something emotionally, i'm no longer likely to think of that it is PMS (too many adult males try this already). when I ask if she's ok, she says "i'm superb". So, being a guy - i'll think of she's superb. that's the super crux, afterward it woudl come out that curiously she wasn't and that i could've probed or asked further. look women, once you tell a guy "you're superb" and you're extremely no longer, do no longer blame him for no longer asking. this is purely manipulative. long tale short, we tried to compromise that if she's having an emotional difficult time of issues and that i ask approximately it, then she desires to enable me understand she has PMS. That way, i'm going to offer her in spite of area she desires (if she desires it), workout extra endurance, and not take a number of the failings she would say to heart. She became uncomfortable with this occasion by way of fact she felt embarassed (which i will understand) so it by no ability extremely worked out. so some distance as a woman co-worker is worried. i do no longer tend to take issues that for the time of my opinion @ artwork besides. If an incident got here approximately, then reckoning on the severity, i'd enable my boss understand (and she or he's a woman). My boss is an fairly point headed woman and that i'd purely carry on with the information of the region.

Answer 3

Most women shy away from men whom they think lack ambition, sticktuitiveness, and stability. Though your situation now is not an ideal dating environment, the reasoning and history behind your decisions would compensate enough for any decent girl to look past. Think of it as an advanced screening process for the shallow people and gold diggers among us. I'm 23, just graduating college, so many of the guys I know are in similar situations. Bottom line, if you were sitting on you butt and living at home in order to mooch because you lack ambition and the ability to hold a job, you're out of luck--your past, goals, and situation, however, set you apart from the slackers.

Answer 4

U are ambitious, that is a good trait to have. Ur methods of getting ahead in life have somewhat failed u, but u are trying.

I admire that. At first glances, seeing u in ur mothers house, crappy car etc could be unappealing, but I'm a women that likes to know details anyway, so i would have found out about ur admirable traits.

U a ruff diamond, don't put down ur worth now(that would be unattractive), strive to achieve that goal of yours!!(attractive)

Answer 5

I believe it is EXTREMELY attractive. You are being courageous enough to give up a great job and go for your dream job. Not a lot of people would do this. Most people need security before doing such a thing. You are willing to give up everything for that one thing we are all hoping will fallin our laps. Our generation believes (as a whole) that some miraculous thing will happen and money will instantly appear. You are making yours (or will be soon) AND doing it your OWN way. Good for you. Best of luck in your new found life!

Answer 6

honestly there are some women out there who beleive that money is not everything.... .if a guy is interesting and charming enough he's sure to attract some girls attention regardless of his situation.confidence is the key.if ur confident in urself then people will be confident in u.u just need an attitude adjustment which is not hard to do.dress well and be sure of urself ok?

Answer 7

In my opinion the situation doesn't matter
What would make me interested is your personality the way you act around me and the way you treated me.
Money doesn't mean much to me, my bf is 26 he only got a good job about 6months ago we do not get through the month but I'm happy, money doesn't make me happy, what makes me happy is being with my bf and touching him

Answer 8

there is notin wrong with livin with ur parents and still in ur 20s.
you need to get urself a HOUSE!!!

Answer 9

I find it unattractive, but if you had your own place then that will be a little different.

Answer 10

it wouldent bother me coz my brother is in a similar situation so I understand it.