one of my closest sisters is in the worst position ever...her husband has told her that he doesnt love her anymore..and doesnt want to pretend and wants out!! after ten years and 3 kids!! i mean i guess its okay...to say sumting instead of walking out..well The question is ...should i tell my parents....??? && how can i help her??
2007-03-21 19:44:51 · 9 answers · asked by **PrinCess** 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Like you said, at least he was honest about his feelings and didn't just disappear one day without a word. Like others have been saying, your job as her sister is to be there for her and her children as best as you can. Leave the telling of your parents to her since it's not really your place. :)
2007-03-21 19:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way that you can help her is to tell her that everythings going to be ok and tell her to move on. You don't want your sister to fall on a state of depression, so highlight all the great qualities that she has. She might need all the support that you can give, but at the same time, give possitive feedback. Talking about how the ex will be a wate of time. In regard to your parents I thing that you should tell them, but let them wait for her to tell her waht's going on without approaching to her first. I wish you, your sister and your family all the best in the world. This shall also pass. Good luck!
2007-03-21 19:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They love each other in the first place and decided to get married. During the course of their marriage, something wrong slowly build up in between them like thick frozen ice is build up through days.
First of all, friends and family members should talk to each of them separately and have a frank chat. Find out what went wrong in between them and persuade each of them to consider a minor compromising. Last resort is go for counselling i think it will definitely help. However, the decision from husband is due to third party then it will be tough to resolve.... Try it out as it is no harm to try. No venture no gain. good luck
2007-03-21 19:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by hsm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your sister tell your parents. You can help her by listening when she wants to talk and don't ask questions.
2007-03-21 20:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by starflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing is to give your sister your support and understanding and basically just stay out of it as far as telling your parents thats up to her to tell them....
2007-03-21 22:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to be there for your sister... no I don't think u should tell your parents because it's not your place let your sister tell them
2007-03-21 19:48:59 · answer #6 · answered by lisa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be there for her when she needs you and support her emotionally. let her tell your parents as it is her marriage falling apart, not yours. thats about the most you can do.
2007-03-21 19:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by mcfly_lives 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if she is your sister, talk to her before you talk to parents..
2007-03-21 19:48:40 · answer #8 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry. u are the one whom she needs right now .so be with her console her
2007-03-21 22:43:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋