Family & Relationships - 21 March 2007

actually i have friend that i sent wrong sms to her and it was very impolite sms , i do not know what shall i do plz help me

2007-03-21 19:41:40 · 6 answers · asked by morteza d 1 in Friends

2007-03-21 19:40:45 · 5 answers · asked by Christ Love 1 in Family

2007-03-21 19:39:21 · 7 answers · asked by frankcastle083 1 in Singles & Dating

Say I like this girl. But when we hang out in groups, one of my BEST friends is always talking to her. At first it's fine....but after a while I'm thinking " you're supposed to be helping me out but you're actually making it harder." and i actually bring it up a couple times. However, we hang out again and he does it again. We get into an argument and don't talk for several weeks. So I'm trying to patch up the friendship. But then later I find out this friend has been hanging out with the girl a few times. I think this is odd since they were barely friends and also that I wasn't aware that they hung out or talked at all........and its also odd he never invited me along.

So when I ask this friend about it, he doesnt think he did anything wrong and its no big deal. I think that he likes her and is basically trying to hang out with her behind my back and also keep our friendship.

Do you think the friend likes her, and if so , what would you do?

2007-03-21 19:39:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

she have now runing 4 month doc give no madice now
so if u have any idea and what kind of care she take tell me
becouse i m confuse
thanks

2007-03-21 19:38:47 · 12 answers · asked by diku 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So far all ladies that I approached require me to follow one or the other dogmas. My mind could not surrend to B.C.'s philosophy. I am waiting, whatever length of time it may take, to get my match.

I am dependent, educated, and have rewarding job - teaching. My criteria for my match is only three: (1) be honset and speak truth no matter what conditions you are in; (2) be petite (small) (<5ft, 4in) be cause I am petite,; and (3) be an athiest.

Are you there out one for me. Are you ready to take risk? I am ready to take risk with any genuine who will try me, not who plays game. This is open advertisement that msy have risk. However, because there are few atheists out there, I decided to take risk.

One more thing. I was married to religious lady, could not stay in marriage. I hve kids with her. I had a religious girl-friend, I could not stay with her. I have kids with her. Would this deter you? Please do not try me. You have a philosophy of future is always better, try me

2007-03-21 19:38:26 · 5 answers · asked by Soul 1 in Singles & Dating

this is my first time going on a date i really like her(i dont even know if its a date really) but she asked me to go to the movies with her and her friend and her friends boyfriend. and since im not really taking her out i was wondering if i should pay for her. money isnt a problem for me or anything but i just dont want to sound like im desperate to pay for her. and i have no clue if your supposed to or not??

2007-03-21 19:37:21 · 14 answers · asked by john s 1 in Singles & Dating

Should YA have a section just for teenagers? Do they belong in 'singles and dating'? I read the worst crap from them, and they are just babies! I feel BAD they have to try to 'grow' up and deal with SEX and DRUGS and IDIOTS, when their parents should be THERE for them. They seem to be reaching out to ANYBODY... Should we petition YA for it?

2007-03-21 19:37:10 · 12 answers · asked by ravin_lunatic 6 in Singles & Dating

There's a girl I am really, really attracted to; I don't know why, I'm sure she's not model status or whatever, but I'm still really attracted to her. She is a Junior at my school. We've talked a few times in class, but we're not really friends or anything. I don't even know if she has a boyfriend or not. Should I ask her to Senior Prom? I am a little afraid of the fall out if she says no, and it'll be akward if it turns out she has a boyfriend, and I'm not even sure what to do on Prom day, like where to eat, who should pay what, what to wear, etc.

I was thinking to meet her alone by her locker or somewhere, and tell her flat out something like, "I'm really attracted to you [enter a few reasons here], and although we don't know each other really well, I'm hoping you'll put that aside when I ask...'[Her name]....will you go to the prom with me?'"

Your help will be really appreciated, thanks. =]

2007-03-21 19:36:54 · 7 answers · asked by The Riddler 3 in Singles & Dating

this is my first time going on a date i really like her(i dont even know if its a date really) but she asked me to go to the movies with her and her friend and her friends boyfriend. and since im not really taking her out i was wondering if i should pay for her. money isnt a problem for me or anything but i just dont want to sound like im desperate to pay for her. and i have no clue if your supposed to or not

2007-03-21 19:36:40 · 12 answers · asked by john s 1 in Singles & Dating

this is my first time going on a date with a girl (i dont even know if its a date really) but she asked me to go to the movies with her and her friend and her friends boyfriend. and since im not really taking her out i was wondering if i should pay for her. money isnt a problem for me or anything but i just dont want to sound like im desperate to pay for her. and i have no clue if your supposed to or not

2007-03-21 19:35:26 · 13 answers · asked by john s 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 4.5 years, the last two being very difficult.(re-locating, career changes, financial troubles, etc.) My husband and I have only had sex once in the past year. I started having an affair 5 months ago, and just ended it this past week. I am feeling tremendous shame, guilt, and regret about the affair. I feel that my husband knows deep down, but is afraid to ask. There is a slight chance he could find out via phone bills, car mileage, etc.
I love my husband and I want to save my marriage and make it work. We are seeking marriage counselling (for other issues) and I will never go outside our marriage again.
Should I tell him about the affair? If I don't tell him, will the guilt of it slowly eat away at me and destroy any chance of saving our marriage? Or should I end the marriage so he can find someone who will give him the love and respect he rightfully deserves?

2007-03-21 19:35:00 · 33 answers · asked by wawa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He was born underweight and seems to be asthmatic. His mother or her family dosn't smoke but I do and she has said that it could be down to me. I'm 21 and this is my first kid so all this is new to me.

2007-03-21 19:34:26 · 7 answers · asked by Jamie 1 in Family

2007-03-21 19:33:42 · 12 answers · asked by sne h 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend met this man in Vegas when she traveled there for a wedding. She lives in the Northeast, yet they hit it off, and talked everyday and night for months. She made an effort to go see him and they eloped. The thing is he has a son from a previous marriage and has been married twice. He was engaged to someone else before her. Well, the thing is, she found out he had been sleeping with some other girl the whole time. It wasn't just one affair with her. My friend has made an effort to fly down there and see him and he only visited once to meet her family. They still live in apart because of work for the time being. Now, he was sorry and she forgave him, but then after, they argued and said he wanted to give up on the relationship. She went down to get some things, and he was sorry all over again. And now, she is forgave him again and is continuing to leave her life here to be with him. He has a good job, but I feel he is not the man she thinks he is. He lied to her about his 2nd

2007-03-21 19:32:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

5 and a half years ago, I fell madly in love with a woman. I was so sure that she was everything to me. After 5 years, I don't feel anything anymore. I'm really confused as to what to do now! If I leave her, how can I ever trust myself to love again? Won't I just end up, after a few years, hurting someone else? So maybe I should stay with her, because the same would happen if I chose someone else? I'm so confused!

The problem is, I'm not even sure if I want to continue with her, so how can I put forth an honest effort to try to get things going? I'm just so tired of it all.. Sometimes I just wish I could meet someone new, but then again, wouldn't it just be the same after a while? (By the way, as far as I know, there aren't any marriage counselors in my country.)

2007-03-21 19:31:43 · 7 answers · asked by Yes 3 in Singles & Dating

I have friend who had her first baby. I want to get h er something nice. I don't know what to get her.

2007-03-21 19:30:08 · 5 answers · asked by Sabrina K 1 in Friends

I really loved this guy still do but i just wanted to know when the hurting stops...

2007-03-21 19:29:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

HI I just joined(1 month back) a MNC where there are 800 employees in current location.
Here i saw a girl who looked beautiful to me.

I hardly see her as we are in different Departments.But whenever i look at her it seems that
she also looks at me.

I want to talk to her but afraid of how she would react, which can jeopardise my position
in Organisation too.

I have her personal gmail address, extension number(landline).

An idea that came to my mind is to invite her in Google talk as even i have an gmail address.

Some people will say you are so stupid and slow :)
Please tell me am i right or any other suggestions are welcomed

I asked this in Yahoo Answer as i know this is a place to find all real people.

2007-03-21 19:26:29 · 7 answers · asked by CoolestnHotest 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I used to be sweet and loving as if i'm his princess, we had lots of enjoyable time together be it cooking or fishing, watching DVDs etc. Recently our sex life decreased tremendously from 2-3 times a week to once every fortnight.

My question is: Will stress and pressure from work, settling of previous divorce case, financial matters, lost in shares etc. Will all these affect the willingness to get stimulated?

He have been wanting to change his job as he have been holding on to the same job for 10years. His divorce case is in the ending stage where house will soon be sold. He have got car loan, hse loan, renovation loans from his previous hse. He suffered a huge lost in shares for the past few months. His bank account is empty now.

I dont need the best and i dont need him to be rich. I only want him to be himself. I've given him all my savings to cover. I also realised he have been talking to girls from call-in chatlines, is he trying to vent his stress to them?

2007-03-21 19:26:18 · 17 answers · asked by Vally 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Theirs a girl, we are friends i always like her more then this but now i found out she likes me to (through many ppl including a card she made me for my B-day saying she wants to be more then friends) but problem is my sister is dating her brother.......
what do i do?

2007-03-21 19:25:53 · 5 answers · asked by Taun We1 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband told me this when I threatened to leave but he acts like he loves me because he does anything for me and makes sure im happy but this makes me feel like he doesnt love me he just said grow up stop acting like a child we have been married 21 years.

2007-03-21 19:25:53 · 7 answers · asked by acr_lover 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I always hear from my friends that girls get more into sex or more horny after their first time having sex. Is this true or is this a myth and why if this is true?

2007-03-21 19:25:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've liked this girl since we were 15, when we met. We started talking about 1 month before 2006. 4 months into the year (we were both 16) we still talked until I made a mistake. She told me she was falling in love with someone else (she still talks to him but she's never seriously dated him and she's single) assuming I wouldn't say anything and I told a friend assuming he wouldn't say anything because I needed to talk to someone because I fell in love with her. I didn't know not to say anything or I wouldn't have. He said something about it around her and she got mad at me. She ignored me for a week, then when I went to her she talked to me as if uninterested in what I had to say. She never liked me the same way I liked her (she only liked me as a friend) but she doesn't know that I started to fall in love with her. I gave her a month and a half space. When I talked to her, it was normal until I aked if she was still mad at me, then she said no, she just didn't want to talk to me

2007-03-21 19:23:41 · 8 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-21 19:23:39 · 23 answers · asked by pocket aces 1 in Singles & Dating

How does one turn their "bad luck" streak around? I'm 30 years old and have had only one serious relationship (ever). Women virtually ignore me, or just classify me into the dreaded "safe friend" category. Is being short the problem? Can women sense loneliness or desperation?

Any help would be greatly appreciated! And I would like replies mostly from women if possible. Sorry guys...I really need a female perspective on this issue.

Paul

2007-03-21 19:23:37 · 2 answers · asked by dunric 1 in Singles & Dating

say they will change and never do. they keep doing the woman wrong over and over again. why dont they just be a man leave the relationship. plz dont say women do it to or say its cause women let them. i feel they have to have responsiblity for their own actions.

2007-03-21 19:22:45 · 11 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

My boss ended our 5 month affair 3 weeks ago. He says he is still in love with me , but needs to make sure his marriage is really over before he can leave. He says he is in love with me and he loves her as a sister, he wants to make sure he wont fall back in love if he bails. I love him very much....no children involved need advice. He says we cant have sex now but after this is all over. My heart is broken, she knows about me & still wants to fix it.

2007-03-21 19:22:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we still maintain a relationship,but she is very much flirts with men inpower and those who have a lot of money,i assume she doesnt jump into bed with them.this attitude of hers irritates me and she also approaches me when she needs help.is she exploiting me for he benefit.

2007-03-21 19:22:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Since he have a new girlfriend he has not call me during the evening or early in the morning but when h e is at work and he always want to get with me when she is at work just to talk. i have no problem with his girlfriend but why can't he talk to me when she is around?

2007-03-21 19:21:21 · 7 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating