this is my first time going on a date i really like her(i dont even know if its a date really) but she asked me to go to the movies with her and her friend and her friends boyfriend. and since im not really taking her out i was wondering if i should pay for her. money isnt a problem for me or anything but i just dont want to sound like im desperate to pay for her. and i have no clue if your supposed to or not
2007-03-21 19:36:40 · 12 answers · asked by john s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here is the rule: from the first date to the grave, you pay for everything. If she ever pays for anything, that means she's getting ready to break up with you. Also, dating can be a serious investment with all of the paying you're going to be doing, so may I suggest right now you get a second job.
2007-03-21 19:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
At least take enough money to be able to offer to pay. It's hard enough for a GIRL to ask the GUY out, so do her a fav.
If you didn't like her I would say, don't pay. You obviously like her, so make a good impression by offering to pay her way. Let her get her own snacks if that makes you feel better.
I think that's the gentlemanly thing to do. Don't pay for everyone though. The other friend's boyfriend should be taking care of them.
2007-03-22 02:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by mycountryfamily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't necessary, but offering to pay would be a nice gesture to get her attention =]. Paying for something as simple as a movie isn't necessarily desperate.
2007-03-22 02:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by MeiXa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually its polite for the one who asks to pay. But if you want to impress her and seem like a gentleman definitely offer to pay for her. She'll be very impressed
2007-03-22 02:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by LawyerBarbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a gentleman rule to always pay for the ladies.. and since this seem like a 'double date', impress her by offering to pay.. she'll be delighted and it wil be a good start to dis 'date'.. on the date, be yourself and enlightened her and her frenz wit wise humour, but dont overdo it.. good luck..
2007-03-22 02:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by fizadora 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, this is tough. It depends on who has more money. If you have more money than her then you should share it if you like her and enjoy her company. If she has more money than you then should pay. If you keep dating then sometimes you should pay and sometimes she should pay.
2007-03-22 02:44:15 · answer #6 · answered by Karen Walker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should pay for her. it shows what a gentlemen u are. but of course some might wonder why u only offered to pay for her and u know might sabotage u by making u pay for everyone's meal...soooo..i don't know. but if i were u, i might pay for everyone to make a good impression.
2007-03-22 02:40:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Desperate you are not, casually offer to pay and if she says "no" then don't pay, at least you offered and you don't look cheap.
2007-03-22 02:40:39 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and pay at least that way she'll owe you something. Then you should at least get a piece later that night. And if not that you know to move on B/C she ain't worth it.
2007-03-22 03:02:57 · answer #9 · answered by josegigglesnort 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a gentleman ALWAYS pays for his date. but its ur decision to pay for the other couple.
2007-03-22 02:41:49 · answer #10 · answered by knerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋