this is my first time going on a date with a girl (i dont even know if its a date really) but she asked me to go to the movies with her and her friend and her friends boyfriend. and since im not really taking her out i was wondering if i should pay for her. money isnt a problem for me or anything but i just dont want to sound like im desperate to pay for her. and i have no clue if your supposed to or not
2007-03-21 19:35:26 · 13 answers · asked by john s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
offer to pay and if she accepts pay, if not pay for yourself and buy her some popcorn and a drink or her favorite candy
2007-03-21 19:38:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well now days there is no telling. Tradition has it the man always pays no matter what, and that is what i live by. In my personal opinion I will take offense if the woman trys to pay. So yes I would say pay for it all, in less you are going dutch, which is as friends.
2007-03-22 02:42:14 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have the money and its a first date, by all means, pay for her.
However, just make it clear that you're paying for her when you do so that you wouldn't feel obliged to pay for her when you go out with her again.
Just say "Hey, I'll pay for the tickets for today".
That way it gives you the option of saying "Oh, I think we should pay for this...that" the next time you go out with her so you're not taken for granted.
2007-03-22 02:41:30 · answer #3 · answered by michael2003c2003 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's just an outting with a bunch of friends, no.
If it's like... people are paired up as couples then I would if i were you. Just pay attention to the way it's going.. bring extra cash on you just in case.
2007-03-22 02:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would offer to pay but if she REALLY doesn't want you to ask her to at least let you buy her a soda or something just to show your a gentleman. but most likely if she asked you to go with a friend and her boyfriend thats like a double date.
2007-03-22 02:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by THE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ifmyou feel not better on paying her, why not only offer him in a gentlemanship way or be polite enough to pay for her, nothing wrong about it.
2007-03-22 02:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by erickson d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pay for yourself and only her. As for her other friends and boyfriends, let them pay themselves. Money may not be an issue with you but you don't want to be taken for a sucker.
2007-03-22 02:40:18 · answer #7 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay for her. It's not like your buying her a car. If she prefers that you don't pay, don't force it. Some women are wierd about that stuff.
2007-03-22 02:37:50 · answer #8 · answered by wigginsray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just buy the ticket for her, and don't say anything about it, ask if she wants pop corn and junk, if she offers to pay, tell her to pay for your ticket next time.
if the date ends up bad, don't look forward to next time
2007-03-22 02:38:47 · answer #9 · answered by mikedrazenhero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should pay for her. it would be nice. some girls don't like guys to pay for them but they do like it when you offer. if she doesn't want you to pay for her then she will let you know. it is the gentalmen thing to do. hope this helps!!!!
2007-03-22 02:42:54 · answer #10 · answered by Skipper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋