When one has difficulty finding dates, much less a wife...?

Question

How does one turn their "bad luck" streak around? I'm 30 years old and have had only one serious relationship (ever). Women virtually ignore me, or just classify me into the dreaded "safe friend" category. Is being short the problem? Can women sense loneliness or desperation?

Any help would be greatly appreciated! And I would like replies mostly from women if possible. Sorry guys...I really need a female perspective on this issue.

Paul

Answer 1

"I really need a female perspective on this issue"

THAT STATEMENT ALONE IS VERY TROUBLING, and sad to say you have probably actually foolishly taken advice from chicks in the past

Here is advice from a guy:

The fact that you think CHICKS will tell you the truth -really tells us the problem.. Most chicks do not understand what generates "chemistry" for them - other than stating the usual platitudes ("I want a nice sensitve guy etc" which they actually believe but in reality is utter nonsense

What matter is what they respond to, not what they SAY

CONTROLLING, DECEPTIVE, CH EATING BAD BOYs had a big edge in evolutionary survival terms and in turn chicks need and want to mate with them - as chicks are hardwired via their DNA to be drawn to these kinds of males

So drop the sincere, honest, faithful nice guy act -and give chicks a bit of the disrespect they crave - even if you have to fake it

Answer 2

Hi Paul, Let me start by saying that women prefer a man that is self confident, not to say cocky but confident. Looks are part of it, BUT if you have a great personality then that will win out over someone that is good looking and treats women like crap. Your going to be one of those guys that ends up with all the money in the world because you didnt date and spend it all on girls, you know look at Bill Gates, He has no looks to speak of but what he couldnt buy with all that money.. When the time is right you will find a girl that likes you for YOU.. Not money, not looks, just because of your heart and what she sees inside. Stop looking so hard and work on motivating yourself, to show confidence is really alluring...