we still maintain a relationship,but she is very much flirts with men inpower and those who have a lot of money,i assume she doesnt jump into bed with them.this attitude of hers irritates me and she also approaches me when she needs help.is she exploiting me for he benefit.
2007-03-21 19:22:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dump her and find some one that can love you for you. do not live your whole life miserable good luck
2007-03-21 19:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by kiss4u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its cool that you still have a relationship, but it sounds like maybe she is stringing you along. She also seems kind of shallow flirting with guys who have money and power. If she is only coming to you when she needs something that sounds and is really bad. If she really liked you she would consider how it makes you feel when she is flirting with other guys. And once again the whole calling you when she needs something, if she talks to you alot even when she doesnt need something then that is good but if she only calls when she needs something then that is pretty bad. Also you said that you dont know for sure if she is jumping into bed with these guys or not. Maybe you should find out for sure and then you will know where you stand. Maybe you should ask her how she feels about you cause it sounds like she is using you. She doesnt sound like the type of woman who knows what she wants, stringing men along could be her style now since her husband died. Just talk to her and be straight forward. If you are looking for someone who you want to be with, then you need to be the main guy and you need to be an important part of that persons life. If you are looking for someone to come into your life, this other woman who is stringing you along could mess things up for you.
2007-03-22 02:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by r_u_m_b2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you were in love with her, was the feeling mutual? Are u still in love with her? Does she know how u feel? If the answer is yes to any of these questions, then she is either looking for a reaction from u or is plain DISRESPECTFUL. Either way, I think u should confront her about how this makes u feel.
2007-03-22 02:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by DJA30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing she might be using you and she probably needs financial help. You can try talking to her by telling her that it bothers you a lot when she does this to you, she may understand and may change her behavior.
hope this helps.
2007-03-22 02:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by haseen_gudiya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and you need to make her understand that it's hurting both of you.
2007-03-22 03:33:06 · answer #5 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋