ok, me and my boyfriend (of which i like a TON) haven't been dating for the longest time but a decent length. we've been having serious problems lately. he doesn't really know what to do about "us" and doesn't want to waste time figuring out if i'm right or not. but it also bothers him that i'm a virgin and he's not. is that a big ego thing? i think i might be ready, would it help the relationship a little if we did anything? i'm not saying "i'll have sex if you stay with me" but i'm thinking if we worked things out for the most part that would just be the deal sealer. what should i do?
2007-03-21 19:46:19 · 3 answers · asked by Taylor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Break up with him. If you guys haven't been dating that long, and he doesn't know what he wants, it's just gonna get more confusing for him and it's going to end anyway.
So if you sleep with him, in a few months he might try to pull the same crap saying he doesn't know about "us" and doesn't want to waste time figuring out if you're right for him or not.
2007-03-21 19:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how old are you? sex is never a way to make the relationship better especially if you havent had it yet. yeah it might improve things for awhile, but if hes saying that he doesnt think that your the one and doesnt want to waste the time thinking about it, do you really want to give up your virginity to him? you only have one first, make sure its with the right guy, cuz your apparently not the right girl for him.
sorry wendy, meant to thumbs up your answer and cant change it.
2007-03-22 02:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by mcfly_lives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love him, care for him and u would hurt deeply if things did not work out. you know what flee. He is not the right person 4 you. Run
2007-03-22 02:56:40 · answer #3 · answered by Highbury 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋