this guy may either be developing a crush on your boyfriend or he is just a great friend. don't fret over it. if you trust your boyfriend enough, you'll know he isn't gonna do anything stupid, but remember, don't mistake trust with being naïve.
2007-03-21 19:59:16
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answered by melloncollieromance 3
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This friend loves you both as a friend, but the only reason he's helping "both of you" at times, is because he's really helping your "boyfriend". Your boyfriend may or may not be gay, but he's wanting a "sugar daddy" (and if it was a woman, it would be wanting a "sugar mama".) This other guy obviously has feelings for your man, and therefore shows his affections through buying you guys things (but really helping him out, even though he just adores you too!). Put a stop to your realtionship with your b/f, or the friend/friend; cause something fishy is going on.
2007-03-21 20:03:25
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answered by Anonymous
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This is how i see it....He is gay so that means to me that....when ur BF is with him, it is like him being with a girl???Nothing at all against gays, dont misunderstand me..I just mean if he is gay than he wants men and ur boyfriend is a man so there u go..I would trust them together as much as i would trust my man being with another woman, so say he says this woman is just a friend and she is buying him things and calls more than you so, now what would u think!!
2007-03-21 20:02:20
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answered by sash 5
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I dont think you have anything against gay people because you'd be thinking the same thing if it was a chick doing this. I'd be suspicious. I know that if someone was calling my man and giving him gifts I'd be wondering what was going on.
2007-03-21 19:59:54
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answered by tiffany d 2
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i think you should just be honest with your bf and let him know that the behaviour is starting to weird you out a little and you want to know wether there is anything more than friendship with this guy, first of all for your bf to be accepting presents from this guy concerns me as he may be taking advantage of this guys feelings for him ( providing they aren't actually doing anything ) Your bf seems to be liking the attention that this other guy is paying him so i think you should ask him straight out if anything is happening and then tell your bf that he is using this other guy for gifts and go from there. If that fails buy him one of those teddy bears that have cameras in them, hey you want to know don't you.
2007-03-21 20:06:28
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answered by jimmy_chick78 4
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that mabey your bf is gay or at the very least bi? its possible. the only way to find out is catch them in the act or talk with your bf and ask him straight up. if he says no and you dont believe him, talk to the friend. mabey he will be more honest and open with you.
2007-03-21 19:57:49
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answered by mcfly_lives 2
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Yes, sounds very likely. You need to check with your man.
2007-03-21 19:57:37
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answered by SGElite 7
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I dought you have anything to worry about. Your probably being paranoid. If he wasn't gay and he did all that you wouldn't think that way.
2007-03-21 19:58:21
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answered by Anonymous
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He is Gay Dump Him that just sounds so Gay God damn thats gay!!!
2007-03-21 20:00:55
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answered by can you anser my question 1
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thinking like that is so.....weird!u must not think like that!cuz gay and girl are totally dissimilar even if gays act like girls cuz gays are still guys so don't think deeply.
2007-03-21 20:10:19
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answered by Trish 1
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