My on again off again ex-boyfriend broke up again for the second time a month and a half ago (he ended it the first time I ended it the second time). Then he called me out of the blue about a week ago. I ignored his calls and texts. He ended up coming up to where I live and I finally agreed to see him. He told me that he missed me and wanted another chance. He said he wanted us to be together. That he was going through something weird before, but he had thought about it and that he missed talking to me and hanging out with me and that meant to him that he wanted to be with me, but he wasnt very emotional. We talked (sort of), kissed, and he wanted me to go down and party with him and his friends, but I couldn't go. I think I've had enough drama and bulshit, so I don't know if I really want him back again or not, so I just told him that maybe if we took it slow I was willing to see. Its been four days since then and I haven't heard from him. I don't get it. What happened?
2007-03-21 19:53:21 · 9 answers · asked by menau 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*** him,talk to me.....
2007-03-21 19:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by ray_shulslur 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetheart what happened is exactly what you said earlier in your question. The drama and the bullshit is happening again. I would like to think I am a pretty average guy and if I went out of my way to say I wanted you back I would sure as heck be on the phone to you at least once a day so that my actions......not my words were showing you I cared. Your intuition told you that you really didn't want the drama any more and that's why you were hesitant to start again....Always Trust Your Intuition. It will guide you the right direction far more than it won't. And it guided you well again this time...you are right...you don't need this so go find someone that won't have the drama as part of their persona......Good Luck!
2007-03-22 03:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by chcman74 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i think this guy just wants to have someone like u reserved for what we call "a friend w/benefits" until he can find someone he really wants to be with. that might be kinda harsh but chances are its true. he is not satisfied with you but he can't find someone else "yet" to be with so until then, the title still stands "on-again-off-again-bf" and for that there is a reason. he is not really into you. if he was he'd be there worshipping u regardless wether or not he has three jobs. a guy can make ways to contact u or say something to u..it's impossible for him to miss four days. u still don't get it? let me make it simple..either choose him or nothing but if u stick with nothing then stick with it. don't have any second thoughts. stay with it and be firm.
2007-03-22 03:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by jhunzin_2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds as if he wanted anouther girl and that relationship ended so hes crawling back hoping since you took him back once, mabey you'll take him back a second time. if that happens, whats to stop him from assuming that your gonna take him back after every break up? you answered your own question..... "i think i've had enough drama and bulshit" if thats how you see it, thats how it is.... drama and bullshit.
2007-03-22 03:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by mcfly_lives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys don't like being put on hold. he thought that by opening up to you and expressing him feelings meant that all would be forgiven and you would go running back. my advice to you is to trust your instincts and take it slow. that doesn't mean you can't call him or text him but don't give in to everything he wants if its not what you want. if he really is the one for you he will be happy to take it slow rather than not have you at all. good luck.
2007-03-22 03:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by tingel6226 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dudette, screw him. he doesn't miss you, or really want to be with you. sadly, this sounds like he's just use to you. it's not that he needs you, as in loves/likes you, he's just use to you and needs companionship. with a guy like him, you're better off alone. especially since he hasn't done any effort to get back with you (hell he hasn't even contacted you in almost a week). honestly you are beter off without t he guy.
2007-03-22 03:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just a loser. You can try again but, thing will be all the same because people never change.
2007-03-22 03:04:48 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he want to used you as a bootycall he seem to be bad new good luck
2007-03-22 02:58:53 · answer #8 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes bullshiting you !!!! skew him find a nicer guy
2007-03-22 03:05:03 · answer #9 · answered by can you anser my question 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋