i dated this guy that i shall call "christian" for almost 20 months yet broke up with him almost 6 weeks ago. normal story up to here. turns out that my ex has and STD called condyloma and i found out when we were going out after 2 months yet i did not think that it would alter my life-this is the same STD that requires the new vaccine for women and girls called Gardisal. so "christian" and i ended up sleeping together which was the last thing on my agenda and recently as in a couple of months ago it started to worry my family: that i am at the risk of maybe getting cervical cancer. i go to a good gyno and pay lots of money for the services and the shots i get done with Gardisal yet my ex never came up once to my parents to say that he would pay the $100 a shot of the vaccine. he will not give me the phone # to his doctor so i can find out what strand of STD he has and according to him neither he nor his ex before me had it. if so then how did he get it? one of then had to cheat
2007-03-21 20:56:35 · 3 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so if he never cheated and neither did his ex before me, where did he get it from? he is trying to convince me that he got it through cuts and stuff and maybe while working out or w/o knowing it yet i do not believe him and every word that he says is a lie to me. he lied to me before, hid things from me and is a very secretive person which is his main downfall besides being an asshole. i am 22 and he is 24 and at this age i do not even want to think of cervical cancer yet according to him there is a slim chance of me getting it: 1-2%. do you guys think that he cheated or his ex cheated? also, he did not call his ex to tell her what he has and for her to get tested because she might of gotten something while they were together. now i hate, despise and wish that i have never met him.
2007-03-21 21:02:07 · update #1
sounds as if it would have been him who cheated, since he lies a lot anyway.
If you know who the ex is you may want to tell her to get checked.
2007-03-21 23:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a very common std and a lot of people get it with out even noticing. it was a shock when i got it but that is all in the past now. you must keep getting checked because they can come back. they are basicly warts after a while most people become amune to them.
2007-03-22 04:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, when you knew that he had std, what prompt you to
sleep with again,forget about his phone number at least remember his face at least you can warn others of it!
2007-03-22 04:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by cool_honeybabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋