Im 18 and i've been with this guy for over a year. When I'm with him I'm fine, I like his company, I'm happy, and everything's ok. He's REALLY caring and romantic. (maybe too much). But when he's not around i dont miss him a single bit, and sometimes I prefer to stay on msn than meet him. What's wrong with me?!
2007-03-21 23:40:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and just like ElieLicious1990 said:
"But I often think that maybe I should break up with him... But then I think of how much it would hurt him...and I just can't do that to him...So I obviously care about him"
2007-03-21 23:58:51 · update #1
i think your just staying with him because of guilt,and in the meantime,you still want your space.i believe you still love him,but it seems that you want to get out and meet new people.being 18 like that,you just dont want to settle down with just 1 man.it seems like you want to go out and mingle with other people,in other word,its getting old for you,to have the same person around all the time.if you dont want him around with you,then its best that you tell him that,and dont leave him hanging around,thinking that hes the only 1 for you,that wouldnt be fair to him and you as well.good luck in what ever road you choose to travel.
2007-03-22 03:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Omfg... I feel the exact same way! And I don't have a clue either ;[ It's tearing me up inside, cause I do truely like him. But I often think that maybe I should break up with him... But then I think of how much it would hurt him...and I just can't do that to him...So I obviously care about him... But love? ;| I don't think I have that feeling anymore...
<3 msn though ;]]
2007-03-22 06:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by ` [ [ E l i e B e a n ] ] ; ; 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are physically attracted towards him but mentally not yet readied yourself to live with him wait for some more time and still the same feeling persists then probably you have to call it off because for any long standing relationship both mind & body should correlate.
2007-03-22 06:45:46 · answer #3 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you love him. It's more like "like" not love because the fact that you don't miss him one bit and the hesitation you have in meeting him sets the boundary in your relationship with him. You don't want to get further than that.
2007-03-22 06:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by Ichigo14 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
coz deep down somewhere u know hez around there somewhere...u dont have to miss him so love him...its perfectly normal... i do tend to feel the same way sometimes...however the question here is do u really love him or not?
2007-03-22 06:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by mona s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that make us 3. but I'm confident that i love him its just that there are times when women needs to be alone. you'll only realize it if his really out of our life. maybe we don't miss them because we're confident that they'll always be there for us.
2007-03-22 06:47:59 · answer #6 · answered by alias 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well is just because of overdose of affection.....well give yourselves a few hours of freedom and see the magic......well every1 needs freedom and i guess thats whats missing in your case..............just talk to him bout this........but clear u dont wanna break up!!!!!!!!!
and as u said if hes being 2 romantic check if hes serious & not just flirting!!!!!!!!
2007-03-22 06:46:13 · answer #7 · answered by sportyisha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
simple not yet deeply involved yet to make a final decision
by the way what the hurry you are still almost underage to decide rather finalize your longterm future
2007-03-22 06:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by Caring 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u don't love him but u like him as a friend / companion. He enjoy being around him but you're not lusting after him. if u love someone... it's a pain not to see them, u always think about them and wish they r around
2007-03-22 06:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by Pink Lotus 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your not serious about him, if your not missing him when he is gone, u really don't love him completely. nothing wrong, he just may not be the right one for u.
2007-03-22 06:45:06 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋