Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

his wants , big boy toys etc and doesn't consider what is good for the entire family. He still wants to be a kid himself. Can I possibly salvage this? Should I constantly be the one giving in because there is no changing this self centered man? Should I just move on?

2007-03-13 00:34:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 00:34:11 · 5 answers · asked by Roy Keen 2 in Singles & Dating

tried garnishing her wages but only to find she had quit her job and moved back home. She called us about 2 weeks ago saying they took her income tax refund. I was just wondering if anyone knew when we should be receiving the money ? Thanks for your help.

2007-03-13 00:33:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy we will name him Fred who I am in love with. He is everything I want in a guy. He is smart, funny, a bad boy, and totally my type. I ahve liked him for five months. I have never spoken to him in my life. I dont know I am just afraid to talk to him. I really like him, know I should talk to him I have tried telling him he looks ho in sweat pants but I cant. What should I do about my crush.

2007-03-13 00:33:19 · 1 answers · asked by I love You 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend had a misderstanding with her partner,She refused to talk to him.but then again when they talked.my friend asked the girl if he has to give up and move on.But the girl told him not to give up and give her enough time to think about them..What does it mean?

2007-03-13 00:32:49 · 8 answers · asked by britanny 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 00:31:19 · 8 answers · asked by elaine.patton 5 in Singles & Dating

Help please. My 10 year old brother has been smitten with his female classmate and often tries to follow her home. He also often harasses her during class by giving her lots of gifts,stopping her from talking to other boys,following her to the toilet and now the principal has given us a warning. Help please?

2007-03-13 00:28:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

...fall for your professor who's twice your age? he's not even handsome but very intelligent. It seems he's sensitive and romantic, too. Plus he says he likes you. Or is it possible he's just going through what they call 'mid-life crisis' so it's better you pay no mind at all?

2007-03-13 00:28:24 · 5 answers · asked by no-namer 2 in Singles & Dating

Traditional gifts/ gifts you've given that have been well received... etc...

2007-03-13 00:28:12 · 8 answers · asked by tomi27410 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2007-03-13 00:27:49 · 2 answers · asked by neha 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok....where to start,I am a 17 year old girl in the uk.I live with my partner and we have been together since i turned 16 (August 2005). When i moved in with him a year ago my parents did not talk to me but told my partner that i would come crawling home within 3 months,

Anyway i did'nt go crawling back and im still happy I work four days a week for £300 and help his 60 yr old mother at home as she is ill.
Heres the problem,ever since i moved in it seems my mum only wants to talk to me when its a time that some one in the family has to recieve presents ie Xmas b.day easter ect.
last yr we were planning to go to portugal and she signed my passport form then when i got a letter saying i needed a birth certificate of my mums she and my dad laughed in my face and said i was not going untill i was 18!!!(I got round the problem with my fathers birth cert and their wedding certificate,so i g2g to portugal!)
my dads being awful two and there causing me and my partner to row what can i do

2007-03-13 00:27:01 · 7 answers · asked by Candiece D 1 in Family

well last night i sent a text message to a guy i crush on by saying

hey gorgeous, i hope you have sweet dreams :)

then his response was odd..

you too sweetdream.
thank you for your compliment and i am sure we will hang out soon.

what the heck....
isn't it weird?
Whats on his mind?? i don't think he likes me back..
by the way we already hung out once.

2007-03-13 00:26:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My life has neva been "good" since day one...since i was born ...i had that thing where i couldnt breathe at all, and i was at intensive care overnight. My sister had cancer at 3, when i was 5...same time my parents divorced. My dad won custody of both me and my sister, but he played major favoritism for her. He lost custody of her for some aligation, but when he would physically beat me till i was bleeding, the cops did nothing. in fact my dad made me look like the bad guy, and then he disowned me, but he was still regarded as legal custodian until i turned 18. I was sent off to a foster home thingy. no1 liked me in school. I neva been treated fair. I got depression, bipolar, major anxiety. afta leavin da foster home, i got kickd outta college dorm, been homeless, now i gotta 1bdrm apt, but i just got fired from a 2 1/2yr job for discrimanation, losin faith in my form of god, i got high pressure, had a shrink, but lost her cuz i lost medicaid. im usually da blamed 1.

2007-03-13 00:26:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

most times when a man approaches her and starts being friendly toward her that she thinks he's hitting on her? I find that these days I'm beginning to think that I have to preference anything I have to say to them with "I'm not actually hitting on you" Have women become that paranoid that they think men want more than conversation everytime they say something to a strange woman?

2007-03-13 00:26:16 · 1 answers · asked by dirkthesmirk 3 in Singles & Dating

Hi there... I use to live in London and I used to work in a Barclays bank, Compliance department, everything was gorgeous but when my contract finished, I decided to go back home with my mum... I've made the biggest mistake in my life... They-> (my parents) push me down they want me to stay here in my country, but I get used to live by myself, to be responsible about myself… And it is quite difficult to explain what I’m feeling… I am adult but still I’m feeling like a child… And there is no chance to explain them; I tried to shout, scream, no way… I understand that there in UK no one is waiting for me… What should I do?

2007-03-13 00:24:52 · 14 answers · asked by Kate21 1 in Family

2007-03-13 00:24:37 · 3 answers · asked by aaryan 3 in Friends

My husband has been out of work for 7 months. He has been trying really hard to find work. Our only income is my low paying job which can be quite stressfull. I have been trying to find a different or second job, because I cannot support our whole family.
When I get up Im expected to make breakfast, get our daughter ready and dressed, get myself ready and tidy the house. When I get home Im expected to clean, find time to do laundry, cook dinner, give our daughter a bath and story etc.

He does virtually nothing. His sole responsibility is driving me to work which takes about 3 hours total a week. Oh yah and sometimes he takes out trash.

When I was working part time and watching our daughter he expected to come home to a home cooked meal and neat home. While I feel the work load isnt necessarily too much for one person, I resent that I never can just have a day to relax and unwind. He wont even do a load of laundry. I had to wake up at 630 am so id have clothes for work!

2007-03-13 00:24:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im really fat and i cant cantrol my weight i just keep eating please tell me how i can reduce my weight!!!!!!!a friendly advice plzzzz!!!!!

2007-03-13 00:23:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi there... I use to live in London and I used to work in a Barclays bank, Compliance department, everything was gorgeous but when my contract finished, I decided to go back home with my mum... I've made the biggest mistake in my life... They-> (my parents) push me down they want me to stay here in my country, but I get used to live by myself, to be responsible about myself… And it is quite difficult to explain what I’m feeling… I am adult but still I’m feeling like a child… And there is no chance to explain them; I tried to shout, scream, no way… I understand that there in UK no one is waiting for me… What should I do?

2007-03-13 00:23:29 · 8 answers · asked by Kate21 1 in Family

2007-03-13 00:22:47 · 24 answers · asked by bumpie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband used to accuse that am having boyfriends everytime we had some misunderstandings but he has never heard something from me that i have a boyfriend. Or caught me with aboyfriend what do i do to avoid this? I ve tried several times to be a good wife but it seems like he dont trust me.What do i do so that he can believe me that idont do such things?

2007-03-13 00:21:55 · 10 answers · asked by Beaty Ka 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I've been official with the guys for one month, we were dating for about 2 weeks before he asked me out.There's just a list of things I'm kind of weird about;
(1) He hasn't tried to get me into bed at all, but he does get very hard when we make out and fool around
(2) Our first date, he went with me and my gay friend to a gay bar & said he liked it there & offered to go back
(3) He told me that everyone in high school accused him of being gay
(4) He wears hot pink polos
(5) He said he cries during animal cruely commercials
(6) When he tells me some of these things, I'll laugh and he'll go, I swear I'm not gay in a joking way
(7) I stopped things from going to sex once & apologized & he said its ok, I am very attracted to you but I can wait for you
..other than that, he is the sweetest guy ever. We've never faught, he cooks me dinner, helps with my Uni homework, very smart and he can't keep his hands off me. We stay in a lot and watch movies and he's always kissing me & touching me..

2007-03-13 00:20:57 · 22 answers · asked by Fae von Rose 1 in Singles & Dating

we are both in college already..so i am suprise this even happens..

this one girl i just made friends with 3 months ago..at first she was okay then she became really attached to me..She will text me over 20 times..in an hour ..and if i don't answer she will call me like 20 times.. but i am in Class so i don't pay attention to my phone..or i am just annoyed and don't want to pick up..then SHe will call my HOUSE and ask my parents where i am at..who am i with..what am i doing..wearing!! it's seriously scaring me..

she Lies alot..to everyone..about everything..even her as little as her own race..making up stories all the time..she will use my Phone and text people with it..pretending its me..

it's pyscho behavior..i never taught people are actually like this!!

i just don't want to be friends with her anymore..but she already hangs out with the group i always hang out with everyday..and she really has no one else..but I just DO not want to have anything to do with her..

2007-03-13 00:20:43 · 7 answers · asked by moonstar 1 in Friends

2007-03-13 00:20:23 · 7 answers · asked by qwerty 2 in Marriage & Divorce

is there a way for me to trust my gf again and am i over reacting... i love this girl but its not enough... i went out with her in the summer..we rushed things...she left me three days later i find shes with another guy. he leaves her, wants me back, but she ditches me the first time she plans to see me on hallowe'en night and skinny dipped and well..oral..i still take her back, but i told her she has to earn my trust before i can be truly happy...i love her, even after everything i can see myself with her forever just shortly after we started dating she liked my two best friends.then two more guys after that and even told them she liked them and talked to all 4 saying she would like to go out with them (basically not straight forward) she told one guy if me n her broke up shed be with him and now shes moving going to the same school as him, and talks to another guy a lot now she says she doesnt like him or any1 else but me now, but im very worried any ideas to get past this? plz Help

2007-03-13 00:19:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you talk to some lady in the Philippines who says that she loves you, wants to marry you, etc etc, & will do her best to be your good wife, even if your not rich,

Would you try to save & meet? Or meet someone local here? Sometimes I think about local, but that can be hard because, local girls sometimes seem greedy, or strip for money, want expensive rings in the thousands of dollars, nice fancy houses, cars, etc.

I am not saying that a good woman would not be worth all this, but I am saying that it seems like some women just take it for granted, seem to like money more than a good guy.

Get angry, even, if they don't have the most expensive things.
It can be hard either way I guess, but wondering what I should do & what you would do?

Thanks for suggestions!

2007-03-13 00:18:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in another way ..Would You leave your best friends for your girlfriend/boyfriend or vise versa..?? Why??

2007-03-13 00:17:51 · 7 answers · asked by Lans 3 in Singles & Dating

an ex is spreading malicious words about me.....and I feel in a no win situation if I say nothing its like I am guilty if I say something it soundds defensive....he is out there taking the high moral ground over something i did not do. It really is affecting me mentally. the person who is the baddie if you like is scarce.....needless to say so cannot even persuade them to own up by phone or such. Is there anything i can do

2007-03-13 00:15:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What are Women Looking for in a Man.I would like to know.Because it seems I have never had what you want and will never have.So help me out.

2007-03-13 00:14:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is very early days but we get on amazingly and fancy each other like mad,i look much younger than my years you wouldnt tell by looking at us that there was a 10yr gap.I am quite happy about it,yet people are bringing it down just to sex which belittles the connection we made. Is it wrong and can this go nowhere?Advice and/or opinions please!!

2007-03-13 00:13:20 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating