Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

I hate her and love her at the same time. The first 5 years of our marriage was our golden period - two lovely kids and a loving man&wife and no financial burden and bright future. The first battle was over the debt her parents failed to repay me and she sided with them and soon it escalated into a war. But we never hated each other. I asked her to cut off her relation with her parents with or without money. She began to treat me like a loser like her parents did from the beginning as they did not like me. I , who hated drinking , took to it, twice a week at the beginning to 4 times later, never more than three beers. I risked my money in some ventures to end up broke after 13 years of our marriage. We seperated twice during the period and I always asked her to come back which she did only after a nod from her parents. Now she fell in love with her rich classmate and blames me for her affair while I am picking my pieces working 12 hours. I feel sorry for her but do I deserve this?

2007-03-13 01:49:59 · 6 answers · asked by havah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 21 one years old, all my freinds keep laughing on me cause i have 5 months without any girlfreind. Now i need to built my life so i want to meet a girl, Please girls don't be scrared i'm a good guy and i'm ganna treat you in the right way cause i know how to handle a princess. Please come talk to me and we will know much better about me

2007-03-13 01:48:58 · 5 answers · asked by pce4real 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi readers,I found myself in oqud situation cos for some serious health situation i was a bit low and sawn for a couple
of years as the result my communication skill and contact got to the point i don't have any freinds but now when i'm okey and wants to make new friends and keep those who i've but the attempt is very disappointing,so could u plz help me how to turn thigs around.Thanx !!

2007-03-13 01:48:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do some people consider women in ther 30's to be old and unattractive? I thought this is when we are at our peak and at our sexiest. Not all men but Ive listened to conversations about "I'd never date a 30 year old thats just nasty and there old" I am 34 (just turned) and Ive been told by my fiance and friends I am hotter now then when I actually was in my 20's, I think If a woman takes care of themselves and there appearance we can be just as sexy as the younger girls with alittle more experience. What do some of you guys think of women in there 30"s??

2007-03-13 01:47:53 · 13 answers · asked by lilshedevil 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so heres the story, me and james have been together for a year hings moved pretty fast and we lived together after a few months due to him being in a serious motorcycle accident.

No months on down the line, if you have read my other question you will know that im really insecure, paranoid that hes cheating and basically have low self esteem.

I do everything around the house, i cook, clean, wash, iron, look after our 3 dogs and 2 cats. Theres nothing he wants or needs for. When he comes home from work his dinner is ready and even if he wants a drink from the kitchen i get it for him as he has been at work all day and i dont mind doing things for him.

The thing thats getting me is i dont think he apperciates just how hard i have it doing everything, i want him to apperciate the things i do and to think "hey this girls a real catch", when i do make an effort with my apperance he does comment me but i want more, hopefully one of you ladys out there will know what i mean, ty x

2007-03-13 01:47:21 · 16 answers · asked by MICHELLE T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-13 01:46:52 · 10 answers · asked by mz.bowwow 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was feeling really bad one day because I had just broke up with my gf but then my sister's two friends were feelin low so we all went out 2gether, next thing I know we're havin a threesome, is there anyway I can break this to my sis and if so should I try to date both???

2007-03-13 01:46:06 · 12 answers · asked by Joe F 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you feel when your parents make you sleep with them and let other people like your cousin that you dont particularly like since they like to ask stupid question and touch your thins for no apparent reason take over your room...

2007-03-13 01:45:11 · 3 answers · asked by jaja 1 in Family

2007-03-13 01:43:50 · 13 answers · asked by meriem 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

aint got much money what should i get my mum?

2007-03-13 01:43:01 · 16 answers · asked by Mal S 1 in Family

I know this girl wouldnt want to get rushed into a date so soon, (her friend's advice), so what would be good ways to let her know without putting her on the spot.

2007-03-13 01:42:00 · 11 answers · asked by James W 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 01:41:48 · 2 answers · asked by kimy 1 in Singles & Dating

a "girlfriend" that is married but needs someone like me to have good conversation with?
Write me at aubreytaegan@yahoo.com

2007-03-13 01:41:30 · 3 answers · asked by aubreytaegan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i haven;t seen my boyfriend 4 like 2 weeks because he was working...so he send a message in myspace saying that he was sorri that we couldn't see each other 4 like 2 weeks and that we needed 2 talk wat do you guys think he wants to tell me??

2007-03-13 01:41:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, 2 years ago. in summer, my friends and i went to this summer camp . it was really fun and met this cute guy there.

i really wanna go to a camp this summer.....again.
does anyone know any fun camps (no swimming ones).
i can go too? i am 13 years old.

and by the way the one i went to 2 years ago, was a christian camp.


thnx , ireally need ur help

xo

2007-03-13 01:39:21 · 4 answers · asked by .suicide notes+butterfly kisses. 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 01:38:24 · 1 answers · asked by chris u 1 in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with a boyfriend of over 2 years because he hit me once and I couldn't take that. Our relationship has been very complex, as we are both in love but we didn't treat eachother well. Our break-ups totalled maybe 20 for the whole duration of the relationship, if not more. The way he acted towards me was just plain rude and didn't appreciate me when I was with him.

Around Christmas time (after another one of our breakups), I started chatting up a local boy who seemed very interested from the start. He is incredibly intelligent (attends Princeton University), is very good-looking, fit, drives a Camaro, and was nice to me from the start.

Him and I were supposed to go out on a little date, but it never happened. My boyfriend and I got back together and that just broke the guy's heart. As a result, him and I barely kept in contact for the subsequent months.

Now, my boyfriend and I are totally done and I felt the need to get into contact with the local boy. (cont'd)

2007-03-13 01:37:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 01:37:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

lived with one another for about 2 yrs. during that he went to prision i stuck around & waited. when he returned i told him i got with another out of lonelyness & sadness. i deeply regret it .have since it happend.it dent cure anything just made it worse. when hegot out thing started great i actuly realy feel i love with him. i worried about things he was doing and i voiced my feelings. well it lead to arguements & me feeling unherd and my feeling hurt. i would cry he dident hold me .finally he stoped coming home.he'd tell me every night (almost)that he'd be home so we could talk. no show. her & there he would show & we'd end up in bed. all i wanted is to work out our problems. well its now been 5 months & counting. thing have inproved. but im not sure if im any closer to getting my man back.or am i just a boody call? why/how could any one do that to someone who loves you.when do i finally give up? and let another win my heart.? the thought of being w/another makes me sad. i want him.

2007-03-13 01:37:06 · 6 answers · asked by reggieslife 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm thinking of 'manly' men as the likes of Sean Connery, Steve McQueen and Marlon Brando, etc, all those who exude a strong machismo, power, confidence and sexuality. Or the more sensitive man in the vein of Ewan McGregor and Jake Gyllenhaal etc, the kind, warm, caring and considerate type.

Or do you prefer a hybrid of the two types, those who embody aspects of both archetypes, such as George Clooney or Clive Owen?

Who and why? Just curious.

2007-03-13 01:36:55 · 10 answers · asked by Jack Foley 1 in Singles & Dating

Her weight gain after the children has left me feeling disgusted at the sight of her. The only reason that I have continued to stay with her is that she is a good cook and cleans the house pretty good. What should I do?

2007-03-13 01:36:37 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 01:35:55 · 6 answers · asked by randy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 01:34:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I heard on the radio today that it is a new trend, to have a separate room from your partner because of snoring, so you can get a good night's rest. I think its a good idea. My partner gets up in the middle of the night all the time waking me up. I hate losing sleep like that when I have to work the next morning.

2007-03-13 01:34:49 · 19 answers · asked by hello 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 01:34:11 · 17 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 01:33:56 · 30 answers · asked by sada 1 in Family

How do I get them into bed with me?

2007-03-13 01:31:34 · 13 answers · asked by isuckatphysics 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are becoming more...... inventive you could say, and he suggested role playing. I've never done this, any thoughts at all??

2007-03-13 01:30:49 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I has married to him for 9yr. Divorced for 8 yrs and back together for 8 as my boyfriend. he did drugs & drank. he now has 11 yr old daughter who lives with us. promblem he is belittling, sarcastic, mean to me. he give me 400 a mo for bills. i own the house and pay all bills, buy both them, clothes, gifts, wants and needs, doctors , accountant, problem solver, do improvements to house, ie plumbing, painting, etc and all the house work plus go to dump mow the yard take care of plants, take dogs to vet, give meds to them and more. however he is not loving, or care for me. he loves hugs the dogs, is daughter. not me. he complains about me all the time. he has a mouth and when we argue he gets so that he must MUST have an answer that he wants to hear, even though it is not what happened. His daughter I've been with since she was 3yrs and she is starting to act like her father towards me . i bought an house and going to leave, but i feel so awfully GUILTY. am i crazy

2007-03-13 01:30:39 · 15 answers · asked by MESAMATER 1 in Family

What would you do if you found your 16 year old daughter smoking pot in her bedroom? (more than once?)

2007-03-13 01:30:24 · 27 answers · asked by Zalia 1 in Friends