Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

here is the thing i love my hubby more than anything i know that we were meant to be together, but we cannot get along at all, we did for the first year or so, but now we cant even hardly talk to one another with-out making each-other mad. the first year was like magic, but now its like we r always at each others throats. its a daily thing with us, but at night after the kids r in bed, we lay down down and cuddle and all of r problems seem to go away, until the next day when we get up and then its back to argueing. what should i do, i have thought about leaving him, but we still love each-other very much. he is always showing me how much he loves me, i am very confused. any advice would be greatly appreciated.

2007-03-13 02:53:36 · 15 answers · asked by greengrass 3 in Marriage & Divorce

They come here proclaiming that they are totally independent along with other good qualities ....(yeah whatever)

and yet, they still want to know whether men find them attractive or not ...ain't that funny????

If they're so independent(emotionally, financially, etc)....

why do they still care what other people think of them especially men?

2007-03-13 02:53:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in July, and am finding that my Guest List is growing daily. We are working with a very small budget, and would like to invite everyone that has expressed an interest in attending, but that would be near impossible. The ceremony and reception are at the same venue. How do we decide who gets invited, and who does not? Also, how do we "make it up" to those that didn't "make the cut"? ANY suggestions would be greatly appreciated! Thanks.

2007-03-13 02:52:47 · 8 answers · asked by soon2bmrs 2 in Weddings

i adopted out my son when he was 2 hes now 21 hes living in plymouth but i dont know were the social work dept are helping but it seems to be taking too long i just dont know what to do
can anyone please tell me how i can find him

2007-03-13 02:52:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my dude always wants to "finish" on my face, he says it is good for the skin..is he just makin that up?

2007-03-13 02:52:18 · 19 answers · asked by dancerchicklatina 1 in Singles & Dating

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/;_ylt=AlVBiGVPrYUMIhAuKZQJlSPD7BR.?link=ask&menu=396545604

You see, right now I'm trying to plan what to say to a girl that I've been missing because I've tried to let her go and I'm not really over her, but I ave a feeling that maybe if I try to talk to her for once instead of pretending shes not there, she'll listen. Besides that, I asked the same question here for people to tell me what parts of what I want to say I should change or remove. Not everybody sees everything that needs to be changed. Everytime I ask this question, one prson always says something different needs to be changed. I haven't came across anyone that said the same things needed to be change. I ask this question again because people spot different things they think should be changed.

2007-03-13 02:52:17 · 2 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

Are there any who actually DO get along with theirs?

2007-03-13 02:51:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay girls, boys, whomever replies... I just recently got engaged... the happiest day of my life so far, right?!?! Well now that my fiance and I are planning the wedding... I am running into a few walls... One, my family (whole family that I consider) consists of only 6 people... Mom, brother, Aunt, cousin and Grandpa - 6 counting me. My fiance's family... Good ole' southern one... too many to count. My father left when I was 3 months, my brother and my Grandpa and Uncle (he passed away) have been the only "father" figures I've ever had. Original plan as a little girl, was to have a "Three men and a little lady" wedding... My bro, gramps and uncle were going to walk me down the aisle and give me away... Grandpa is now pushing 90, and although I think he can hold out for another 6-7 months, I think he will be fine, and bro shouldn't have a problem. So that takes two people out of my family and puts them in the wedding... My Aunt doesn't have a daughter, I am as much hers as I am my moms

2007-03-13 02:51:21 · 11 answers · asked by ShyGirl 2 in Weddings

It is my observations that a large amount of men and woman marry for financial comfort first and true love second. Your thoughts?

2007-03-13 02:50:44 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am confused about my ex girlfriend. She ended our relationship 6 wks ago as "her feeling had changed". We were together for 9 mths. At the end of our relationship she admitted she was suffering from clinical depression. She has had it seriously in the past. She also suffers from Chronic Fatigue syndrome. I persuaded her to go to her Dr, he prescribed prozac & counselling. 1 wk later she said she wasn't depressed, didn't need counselling, and our relationship was the cause of her unhapiness.

I gave her some space. She contacted me. We met up for a drink last week. Everything went well, we laughed a lot and had a nice time and said we would see each other again soon. We didn't talk about depression or us.

I rang her a few days later to see how she was & she was totally dismissive of me. I suggested we catch up again soon & she said she didn't have time. I didn't react to this and the conversation ended

I do want see if we try to make things work but know it is complicated??

2007-03-13 02:50:35 · 19 answers · asked by bepositive1976 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do alot of women prefer a handsome and/or rich guy who treats them like crap over a average loking guy who would treat them like a queen?

2007-03-13 02:49:21 · 37 answers · asked by lonewolf2996 2 in Singles & Dating

Separation was caused by breakdown of marriage with no-one else involved although during the past year both me and my husband have found new partners. We have settled everything between ourselves financially so there are no outstanding monies owing to either party. There are no childen involved either and the house belongs to me as I bought my husbands share from him.

2007-03-13 02:49:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to tell your spouse about your fantasies? For example, telling him about the guy at the gym that you often fantasize about. If you can't tell your spouse, then don't you think you should not be fantasizing. After all, if you are doing something and your spouse would disapprove if they knew, isn't that cheating?

2007-03-13 02:48:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Not that I have a problem with them answering, exactly. But when the question is about being 40, married for 15 years, kids, mortgage, careers, stress.....and someone writes:

Oh yeah! My bf and I need time apart too. Like, when I totally have cheerleader practice and his friends wanna play PS2 cuz they r bored, we get some time apart. But we still do homework together!!

Does that grind your gears a little?

I'm not actually suggesting an age limit. But I admit I would like to see people's age posted on their profile.

2007-03-13 02:47:37 · 26 answers · asked by Disco Stu 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 02:47:15 · 8 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Friends

2007-03-13 02:46:48 · 14 answers · asked by sauma d 1 in Friends

2007-03-13 02:46:43 · 10 answers · asked by Q Tip 1 in Singles & Dating

I would really like to have some backdoor action with her...but she is not cooperating....what should I do?

2007-03-13 02:45:45 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 02:43:49 · 4 answers · asked by Sexy P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

more years. Having bedded my wife and her mom is making me feel great. I feel so lucky. My next target is her younger sister. Who's cheering for me?

2007-03-13 02:43:09 · 20 answers · asked by rocky 1 in Singles & Dating

How much do flowers cost?
Bride, 3 bridesmaids, and petals for the flowergirl.
Butioneers(sp)
Groom, 3 groomsmen
tell me or i'll fail

2007-03-13 02:43:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i know a girl who is married off at the age of 17 against her full consent , and her husband who is 10 years elder to her makes constant referance to her age and always mentions about a second marriage .
she is really troubled , but she has decided to do higher education against the wishes of her inlaws . she wants to be a doctor !
sometimes her husband seems really sweet which makes her think of dropping everything and get settled , but sometimes he hurts her terribly with her words . what should she do ?

2007-03-13 02:43:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 02:42:51 · 11 answers · asked by Dia 3 in Singles & Dating

My Ex and I have been broken up for 10 months and have not spoken since. The last time we talked she said she in a serious relationship and got her number changed so I couldnt call her. She called me a week ago to talk She says she still in a serious relationship but likes to see how I'm doing every now and then. I ask if she has someone new why is she still trying to contact me but dosent want to get back in a relationship with me? We broke up before and I told her I couldnt be her friend cause I love her to much. We agreed if we beak up no contact with each other. She's never kept in contact with any other of her ex boyfriends cause she said when she's threw with a guy she's threw with him, why me? We were together for 3 and half years. She said I caused her so much pain so why would she want to talk me if there is a new guy.

2007-03-13 02:42:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 02:41:17 · 25 answers · asked by well_man_hung 1 in Singles & Dating

In high school I was teased by some girls because I was fat, nerdy, and had glasses. However while attending college away I lifted weights, joined boxing, and now dress with the best urban gear. I now am able to get any woman I want and when I came back home I rejected and insulted those girls who teased me in high school that now want me and they was upset and felt bad that I did that to them. Is this great revenge?

2007-03-13 02:40:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Your thoughts on people my age( 40's) getting married and /or having children for the first time.FOR THE RECORD,NEITHER ONE APPLIES TO ME-AT THE MOMENT.

2007-03-13 02:39:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 02:39:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a long a day after school,my bestfriend and i decide to go hang with her man.but something happen.yes we was drinking had a little 2 much.anyway but she went 2 go get some more in his house,and me and her boyfriend started kissing then we hind from her and went 2 have sex.what should i do.i havn't tell her.

2007-03-13 02:39:19 · 8 answers · asked by ~DaNcE pRo~ TaKeN 2 in Friends

and countless other little things ,not mentioning how much better it would be for our kids . as well as having less time to spend nurturing their family.would it be better for moms to stay home instead of working?????

2007-03-13 02:38:43 · 4 answers · asked by raindovewmn41 6 in Other - Family & Relationships