Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

I just moved into an appartment last week, my first place out of my moms. The reason I chose the appartments was because they said that they were a very quiet neighborhood and they do not tolerate lout music whether it be from cars or other appartments. I like this idea because I need a quite place to study. Now that I moved in my neighbors are extremely noisey. They party till 3 in the morning and are constantly fighting all day long. They also have a baby in the house. I guess the babies crib is against the wall because I constantly hear a banging on my bedroom wall all night and day, I guess the poor thing wants attention. Should I say something to the landlord, I dont want to seem like a nucence since I jsut moved in. When they party they dont play loud music I can just hear them all in there with lots of people yelling. They are the last appartment so I am the only one theat shares a wall with them so no one else has the problem. Any sugggestions on what I should do?

2007-03-13 03:20:54 · 7 answers · asked by Megan G 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-13 03:20:35 · 8 answers · asked by spice 1 in Family

my two daughter dont talk to each other. 24 and 17 years-old. since earlier age they never had good reations . the older jealous at the young and young was suffering her abuse. we tried to settle things together told them how important this relations are, but it looks like they are afraid of taking the first step. cause the other may reject her.

2007-03-13 03:19:54 · 8 answers · asked by limeline 1 in Family

A work colleague that I am normally very friendly with has started being very nasty and hurtful towards me. I know he has some stress with his personal life but I feel he should leave that out of the office. I have been a very good and supportive friend to him in the past but am tired of him taking his problems out on me. He has occasionally apologised for his behaviour but I'm tired of it. Anyway, his car has broken down and I am the only one who lives remotely near him. We havent spoken for days now. Should I offer him a lift, or should I wait until he asks me? I know he is so stubborn that he will probably pay a taxi rather than swallow his pride and ask. Also, I going on holidays for a week on Thursday - under normal circumstances I'd have given him the loan of my car but again - should I offer, or should I wait and see if he asks. I always give in but I feel this time he needs to learn I will not be treated like a doormat.

What would you do in my situation?

2007-03-13 03:19:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Yea I know i'm young and I have my whole life ahead of me. Im just looking for more. Im tired of the young immature boys in school that dont care about their future. I want to be with someone who has a future ahead of them. Right now I'm pretty busy with work and school so it's hard for me to do alot. I love to travel and am willing to go the distance. I just need to find someone to do the same. If there is anyone out there who feels the same (guys) please feel free to email me at plastksweetie07@yahoo.com I would love to talk and get to know you. I am also on yahoo messenger right now. Im 18 and from Virginia.

2007-03-13 03:19:23 · 10 answers · asked by plastksweetie07 1 in Singles & Dating

but I was drinking and did the stupid thing...I slept with him. He hasnt called, but he told a mutual friend (the girl who set us up) to make plans for next wknd. Im not sure what to think. was I a one night stand....or is he just one of those guys who "forget" how to use a phone? I called him the next day..."I was just about to call you" he says. then, after maybe a five minute conversation he lets me go. I dont want to be the one to call him again. guess what Im asking is....1 night stand or typical guy?

2007-03-13 03:18:27 · 18 answers · asked by randella_24 2 in Singles & Dating

My colors are blue and yellow. It is going to be at Fiance's parents house outside and I am needing something to make it original.

2007-03-13 03:18:27 · 10 answers · asked by radawna_23 1 in Weddings

Ok I met him online we started talking on the phone and we're friends on myspace as well. We've been talking 4 a couple of months and I never met him in person becuz he's overseas at the moment. Two of his friends (girls) who I don't know sent me friend request. I didn't accept them becuz I thought it was kind of weird his friends asking to be friends when I don't even know him that well. Anyway one of them sent me a message asking if I wanted 2 come 2 sum party they were having for him when he gets home. I didn't respond and he told me that she asked him why wouldn't I accept her as a friend or return her email. He told her becuz I didn't know her that well. Anyway I want to know why out of the blue she wants to be friends with me? Do you think he might have mentioned me to her? Do u think she thinks something is going on btween me and him and she wants to get in the middle of it to find out? Or am I just jumping to conclusions?

2007-03-13 03:18:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i m a gal,, one guy is following me from the past 6 months,,he proposed me 100 times,,i made him my fren one day,,but the guy dosn't want this, he wants to listen only those three words - i love u,, but i dont wana say him,, i like him but he luvs me toooooooo badly,,i told him dat my parents are against this but he dont listen, i hv treated him as if he is nothing to me,, i love my parents n dont want to hurt them by making an affair,, i want he to leave me,, but he dont want, main usse apna peecha kaise chudvayun,,, plz help n giv ur suggestions,, i really need them

2007-03-13 03:18:12 · 21 answers · asked by sweety 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so there`s this guy at work and i think that he fancies me and he is teh head chef there. anyway on sunday he was talking to everyone at work and he was saying that on tuesday [today] he is going to cook a really special dish. now i only work there on the weekends and he has been flirting with me of late. so he was on an obvious high talking about this dish he is going to make and then he looks at me and saw that i was looking down, and he goes....would you like to eat it too??? and i say "no" just to be polite....but i think he was so majjor embarssed it was so weird and i came home and played it over in my head and it just doesn`t make sense....any comments???

oh by the way think i like him too.

2007-03-13 03:17:49 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dated this man a few months after his divorce was final. I should have KNOWN that he wasn't healed yet, but either way, we dated anyway and I admit to being the rebound. We dated for 5 months, then broke up because he said that he wasn't falling in love with me yet, and he thought he should be. I am older, and have been single for a while. I truly believe that he is the one for me, but I don't want to be foolish and think that he will come around. We are still very good friends, and have not stopped hanging out together. We share the same beliefs on family, marriage, faith, and I spend most of my time with him laughing. Even my pastor has given me encouragement that maybe he just wasn't ready to date anyone, and that he might come around.

So, can it ever work if I am patient?

More details: His ex cheated, and just got engaged to the man she cheated with. We broke up less than a month later.

2007-03-13 03:17:16 · 7 answers · asked by loves2sing 2 in Singles & Dating

I have always dreamed of being able to protect someone I love - and now I can do the same thing for this girl I love. However, I have told her my feeling last year but she said she just wanna be friends. I do not know how is her feeling as we are speaking though.. But, there are rumours that she like another boy who is also after her.. But, I never saw him protecting her whenever his friend bullied her.

This morning, a class bully disturbed her but I did not have the gut to warn him. I am afraid of what others' opinions will be. I am afraid of gossips. I am afraid of everything. Then, I saw one boy from another class was like hitting her bag (on her back) up and down and she did not seem bothered but her expression was miserable. I did not have the gut to tell him off, and instead her friend, a girl scolded him. I was afraid that if I walk up to him and tell him off, he would immediately jeered and started gossip

I am ashamed of myself.. So ashamed.. A coward.. I am 15 by the wa

2007-03-13 03:16:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a girl say u were cute and the gril firend look at the girl then look at you what does it mean?

2007-03-13 03:16:19 · 7 answers · asked by zaheer a 2 in Singles & Dating

I am currently in a relationship where the guy is totally controling. He says that he loves me but wants to keep me away from my family and wants to tell me everything to do. We are married and he says that we are not equal. I work two jobs, just graduated from college and 7 months pregnant and pay all the house hold bills. Everytime that we get into an argument he tells me that I am talking back and giving him lip. He wishes that I could go out on a date with another guy and so that I can see how fast they would leave me. He feels that I bring nothing to the table. As far as the grenacy he tells me that I am lazy and all I want to do is sleep. He gets upset when I don't want to be touched or don't want to have sex with him. He say that he is tired of me and he hate the fact that I am pregnant. I told him that I will leave and he says that he don't want me and his child out in the streets. He says that I don't have anywhere to go. I have family here that wants me to come home and I mak

2007-03-13 03:16:03 · 17 answers · asked by Nikki 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys,,, wat turns you on

2007-03-13 03:15:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have broken up with my gf like seriously 5 times since January and we are in this awful cycle of getting back togther and breaking up. We are done as of right now, but I am wondering if she is going to call in a few weeks once she realizes I don't care anymore! In the past, I have always made the move to call. Once she realizes that I am no longer there, what do you think she will do? It has always been me that breaks down and calls here...do you think tthis could trun around if I cut her off?

2007-03-13 03:15:05 · 6 answers · asked by fuji 1 in Singles & Dating

instead of havin' a caring man that truely knows how to please

2007-03-13 03:15:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 03:13:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok there is this girl at chruch she say i was cute befor and then she keep on stareing at me alot. one time i was shakeing her hand and she got touge tie. and when its time to shake everyone hands she stares at me i use to do noting and just stares back. one time at chruch she was siting near me and she keep looking back at me when its time to geel she comes close to me does she want my attention?

2007-03-13 03:13:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl who not a lot of people like has been corupting my ex besty friend. She is turning her into a little her. She is changing everything about her. Her hair, personality, and clothes are changing. My other friend told my ex best friend what she was doing to her and she said she didnt care. What should Ido about my ex best friend. Jackie and I are really worried about her,

2007-03-13 03:12:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-13 03:12:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

theres this girl at school that i really like but how do i pop a question

2007-03-13 03:12:07 · 4 answers · asked by Jesse M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 03:11:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My mom's bday is coming up, she will be 41 and I am 23. I have no idea what to get her. Its like I've already got her everything in the book! There is nothing that she needs....she has so much stuff! So I'm kind of in a rut....I have no idea what to get for her and her bday is in a couple weeks, so I have to think fast. I was hoping everyone could give me some cute ideas for something......please...

2007-03-13 03:10:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-13 03:10:39 · 12 answers · asked by ekbensah 2 in Singles & Dating

What shape diamond? What metal? What design? How many stones? Etc.......

2007-03-13 03:10:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

im in love with a girl since 5 years and now she rejects me. we dint have any conflicts between us and i tried a lot 2 know the reason she rejected me. Now i want 2 forget her, but im unable 2 control my feelings 2wards her. plzzzzzzz suggest me a good remedy. plz reply me something.

2007-03-13 03:09:19 · 8 answers · asked by bublu 2 in Singles & Dating

I won't say i cheated on my bf, but i've once went out for movies with a man 14 yrs my senior without telling him. in the end he found out and we nearly broke up but somehow we managed to patched up. however, he would often get angry over trivial matters and bring up that old issue of how he's now thinking about me going to the movies alone with that man and etc and threatened to break once again. and trivial matters are playing a small joke on him by picture messaging him saying that i'm out with a cute guy when in fact that guy is my COUSIN! I'm really at my wits end. what should i do to resolve this problem between us? there really isnt anything between me and that older guy!

2007-03-13 03:09:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I been talking to this girl for about 8 months now,she says she feels happy when shes with me and I feel the same way .We kisse in the mouth and have spent a few nights together,we hold hands everywhere we go .To me it seems like we are dating but when people asked her she says we are only friends and nothing but friends. does this means she is trying to keep her options open or what?

2007-03-13 03:08:08 · 12 answers · asked by s374rc 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl i really like and want to ask her out and she likes me as a friend, what i want to do is just hang out with her more and then ask her i just dont know what to do with her because i dont want it to b a date just yet. plz help

2007-03-13 03:07:17 · 6 answers · asked by baseball freak 2 in Singles & Dating