Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

my boyfriend seems to always have his hands down his pants while hes on the couch watching tv. im pretty sure hes not pleasuring himself. hes just holding it i guess. what does that mean and why does he do it. he doesn't do it in public, but when hes lounging around the house. i've never had a boyfriend do it as frequently as this guy. is he just that comfortable around me and all guys do it or is that just wierd.

2007-03-13 03:30:56 · 20 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm out of town on business and while in the hotel bar late last night i met a young lady who was also on business. we had a few drinks and went up to my room. when we got to the room she started to undress and i asked her to stop for just a second so that i could turn off the lights (she was pretty big and i didn't want to see all that cellulite) when we got in bed i pretty much insisted on doing it doggy so i didn't really have to look at her (the hockey game was on too). when i finished i tossed her her clothes and asked her to leave. she was pretty upset that i asked her to leave as soon as i finished. why would she be so mad? i mean really, it's not like she doesn't know she's kinda fat and not real hot. i'd think by now she'd be used to stuff like that. was i really wrong for asking her to leave?

2007-03-13 03:30:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am supposed to get married in August to a man that lives 3 hours away. We have been together for over a year. He owns his own business and do not have health insurance and I was young when I had my kids and gave custody to my parents. Well I have been with them for 5 years now but I have been unable to work due to taking care of 4 kids and my grandma who is now in a nursing home. My parents are against us getting married cause of the fact of no insurance and feel like he needs to get a full time job with benifits but he can't do that and own his own company. I want nothing more that my parents to support me on this. I am 30 now and take good care of my kids. My parents say there is no way we can get married in August. They know I am not gonna leave my boys here so if they do not give custody then I can't do it. I need to move down there and get a job but I don't want to leave me kids. How can I get them to see that I love him and want to be with him and that we all will do just fine

2007-03-13 03:30:09 · 15 answers · asked by Sarah G 3 in Weddings

I have a problem that has caused me to have the unhappiest pregnancy I could have imagined. I am due to have my first child in four weeks. The father is gorgeous by any womans standards, and he knows this. However, he is very gentle with me, caring and sensual. Most of the time. About twice a month we have an over scale blow out. I scream, he screams ( and says nastier things to me than any one ever has in my life) and twice now he has shoved me. Once was about two weeks ago. I have hit him in this face a handful of times, he isnt completely to blame. My mother hates him, they both say horrible things about eachother to me. My mom blames me for his actions and he punishes me for who my mother is. I almost hate them both anymore. I work for my mother so I cannot get away from her. I love him more than anything in this world, but I am having trouble forgiving a lot that has happened. I almost feel like my life would be better without both of them. Should I leave?

2007-03-13 03:29:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

...I got to bed her by saying I was. I feel a bit bad now. She gave me her number. Shall I text her and tell her the truth?

2007-03-13 03:28:11 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 03:28:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

everytime we make love she crys. I know i am a fantastic lover so whats her problem.

2007-03-13 03:27:52 · 17 answers · asked by bossman 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a man now for almost 5 months and were planning on moving into together, but everytime something goes good in my life my son's father calls me crying and I mean CRYING his eyes telling how much he loves me and misses me and wants to be this family together and his so sorry about the past....We've been together for 3 years off and on...either of our family wants to see us together. He calls last night telling me that hea has a girl and he slept with 7 girls since our last break up about a year or so ago. I've asked like every few months if his sleeping with people he tells me no so I stay loyal to him he is my son's father. He said his not sure if we can work on us cuz he can't stop sleeping with all these girls and kills him to know that i'm crying at night and broken heart. I guess the question is who to I go with my son's father who is my heart and I love to death or my current boyfriend who I love just not as much and I know he won't ever do me wrong like my son's father did?

2007-03-13 03:27:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the secret to having a good Marriage. Im not married and im sure everyone has different opinions. But what are some keys to making it work. And how did you know the person you married was really the one? Did you have doubts?

2007-03-13 03:27:21 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband was married for 2-1/2 years to his first wife has been divorced for 15 years. We've been married for 13 years. His ex-wife and mother have maintained a good relationship during this time. (My mother-in-law has always told anyone who will listen that she likes the 'first wife' better.) The ex is having a surprise 70th birthday party for my mother-in-law. My husbands entire family is invited and several family members are coming from out of town. I REALLY don't want to go to this party. My mother-in-law has made no secret of her dislike for me through the years. The fact that this party is at the ex's house is inappropriate and will be incredibly uncomfortable. I don't want to be immature, but I have no desire to spend an afternoon there. I'm also hurt that no one in our family recognized how akward this will be. Would it be wrong if I don't go? Any thoughts on how I should handle this?

2007-03-13 03:27:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 03:26:58 · 9 answers · asked by tawasperson 1 in Friends

i just got rejected by a guy. He said he likes someone else. i regretted not knowing him more n move abruptly into confessing. i just could not control myself of not telling him how i feel.Will i have a 2nd chance? what should i do to make him love me? and also did i do the correct thing of following my heart?

2007-03-13 03:26:57 · 6 answers · asked by Valerie 1 in Singles & Dating

ive got a friend and weve been friends for 7 months we used to have a laugh but now we just argue all the time what shall i do

2007-03-13 03:26:29 · 7 answers · asked by kira r 1 in Friends

2007-03-13 03:25:38 · 11 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Friends

2007-03-13 03:25:24 · 9 answers · asked by SOJLO 3 in Family

2007-03-13 03:25:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I just broke up last week after 4 1/2 years. We are in mutual agreement that our relationship was not working. The only thing is, I would still like to try to work through our problems... and he doesn't. I have made a huge emotional investment in him and I am so heartbroken. I am having such a hard time dealing. To make things even harder.. we live together. It is going to be at least another month before he can move out. During this time, is there any thing I can do to feel better? It is so hard to focus ongetting my life back together when I am still seeing him every day and I know he is just an arms length away. I can't sleep and I don't get hungry, no matter what I do I find myself thinking about him and almost cry. He sees how much I am hurt and he holds me, tells me he is sorry and that I will be OK but this just makes things worse for me. What can I do to feel better?

2007-03-13 03:24:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My neighbor has 2 daughters, 14 & 11. The 14 year old hasn’t talked to the 11 yr old for 6 mnths because her parents don’t allow her date, go to the movies or friends house, & are very strict. She told the 11 yr old to tell her parents to give her the freedom & not worry about her because when she was 11, she wasn’t allowed to do many things the 11 yr old can now because the second child always has more freedom than the first. The 11 yr old refuse to tell her parents to give her the freedom. She feels it is unfair because her younger sister has freedom because of her & she can’t get freedom because of her sister. She say her little sister use her for freedom & is selfish & will not talk to her sister until she do what she says. The parents know the 14 yr old hasn’t talked to her sister, but don’t know why. They are worried & want to help but can’t. Sometimes I want to tell them, but don’t because I was bought up “Don’t put mind someone’s family business unless it is life threatening.”

2007-03-13 03:24:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am a 34 year old women, my bf is 37. I have all my life been dealing with a controlling and unhappy father. My boyfriend of a year has bowed down in a sense to my dad to get his validation etc. last night after my father knocking every statment made by my boyfriend, my boyfriend went back at him and it lead to very, very heated argument. i am currently in therapy to finally deal with my fathers always being so unaccepting of me all my life. i have been venting quite a bit about my dad latley to my BF and so has my brother since he works with my BF. so after my dad starting with him last night, with all this in mind, he went off..... and u know what i wasnt mad, i was like yeah, tell him. i felt like it was everyting ive wanted to say for over 30 years. my bf tried to apologize and my father keep feeding the fire with comments.
Has anyone had a situation like this?? how can we make it work, i dont want to choose between them.

2007-03-13 03:24:29 · 6 answers · asked by coco 2 in Family

Ok so I don't want to go threw the whole story on how we ended up hooking up the fact is we were a secret for a while and he kept telling me how much he really liked me and he could see us together and all the typical stuff a guys says when he starts to really like a girl. Well the secret got out that we were seeing each other and he distance himself from me stopped calling and we stopped seeing each other. Out of the blue he called and said how much he missed hanging out. which really made me feel good because i really like him and I missed him too so i went to see him. Now we are back to not seeing each other again and he called out of the blue once again (understand why im frustrated) he wanted me to come see him at 1am on a work night because he wanted his cuddle buddy. I didnt go I didnt want to give in easy like I always do b/c Im tired of the games. He was upset that I couldn't come and asked me if we could hang out more again. He told his dad he wants me to go on the fam trip.

2007-03-13 03:24:17 · 13 answers · asked by anonomous 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 03:24:15 · 4 answers · asked by FlyerGuy 2 in Singles & Dating

She is my best friend and she is going crazy over this mutual friend of ours. Sometimes he acts like he likes her and other times i am just not seeing anything there. Please help me cause i am running low on time and ideas.

2007-03-13 03:23:47 · 2 answers · asked by Brittney 1 in Singles & Dating

I meen without useing any drugs

2007-03-13 03:22:53 · 3 answers · asked by Kennedy W 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this girl for 4 months and she has everything I can want very pretty, nice body, nice personality, and smart. She is pressuring me a little to sleep with her. In my mind I want to do it because I feel we are both mature to do it and she is really good looking. However on the other hand I want to wait longer. As a male should I do it or no and why?

2007-03-13 03:22:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with this girl for 2 years and i found out a month ago she cheated on me and when i confronted her she was a wreck and had been sence she had sex with this man. She has started to go to church more and asking for god to forgive her and asking me to. She says it was the worst mistake of her life and she truly loves me and dosent want to lose me. I didnt know if i could trust her and she has commited to me and wants to be with me. I dont think i could ever trust her but should i give it a chance and see if we could work this out?

2007-03-13 03:22:23 · 13 answers · asked by hl2cjm 2 in Singles & Dating

I was in love wid a guy... but luck didnt favour me and he only hated me and i guess he hates me now too...He's done everything possible to hurt me !!

Some of our conversation.......
Me : Can we be frends ??? ( I told this to him by writing a letter...I even wrote that i loved him a lot and wud wait for him even though he hated me....but at the moment..i needed him as a friend !!)

He : I'll be frends and nothing else..dats final !!
(Ok this doesnt sound rude to any1 here but for me..it was like a death sentence !!)

Me : OK fine...if u wanna be rude...forget that i was ever frends wid u...I wont come back in ur life !!

He : I told u i will be frends ..now its up to u.....
(This is definately rude...he didnt even try to console me)

So my question is ......Had u been in my place..wud u forgive him and be frends or walk away from his life ? I really need to knw this b/c i have to make the desicion... (& i'm also trying to get a makeover for myself....wud goin away frm him help me ?)

2007-03-13 03:21:45 · 6 answers · asked by ღ♥~Samantha~♥ღ 2 in Singles & Dating

I was going thru some things in the bedroom closet last night and I came across a video tape that didn't look familiar. It turns out it was a tape of my wife and my girlfriend having some fun. It was to watch until the part where they started mocking my small package. I was pretty upset with this....so I kept the tape. I think it was pretty insesitive of them to be talking of me like that. Why would they do this to me?

2007-03-13 03:21:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In school, there is this girl the seems to not like me that much, but i like her.?

what would be a good way to tell her that i love her? this is something that she said in her profile


I want someone who wont care that I hate wearing shoes,
That I'm incapable of sitting still,
that I cant grasp the concept of cleaning,
& I refuse to be ladylike.
Someone who realizes that half the decisions I make are usually ones that I regret,
& I have the right to overreact at any given moment.
I want someone who knows I'm completely insane,
But wouldn't want me any other way.
<3

thanks guys~blaise

2007-03-13 03:21:36 · 5 answers · asked by MUHAMMED 2 in Singles & Dating

Y is it always that the one u love the most... the one without whom u can even think of a second... leave us alone in this cruel world to fight alone? If they have to leave us... then y do they come into ur lives n make us addicted to them? Y is it that? Y?
N then after that people say that there's nothing called true love or something... when it's there they dont realize it... n then later y do they blame others? :'( :'( :'(

2007-03-13 03:21:29 · 2 answers · asked by Demolisher 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im 21(in case that helps).I love asian culture (specially from korea, japan, china and india) and would love to start a friendship (and relationship later on!) with an asian girl. Im latin (costa rican) and seem to have a lot of success when approaching caucasian girls, but i seem to scare asian girls off... can you give me any tips on how to approach an asian girl?

2007-03-13 03:20:59 · 6 answers · asked by Javier B 2 in Singles & Dating