I have been dating this girl for 4 months and she has everything I can want very pretty, nice body, nice personality, and smart. She is pressuring me a little to sleep with her. In my mind I want to do it because I feel we are both mature to do it and she is really good looking. However on the other hand I want to wait longer. As a male should I do it or no and why?
2007-03-13 03:22:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is strictly in my opinion. If u're virginity is important to you.. and u really think u love her. You can wait till u get married. This will prove to you if she really loves you or u just have something she wants. Love i feel is not abt sex but each other.. but if u;re like a teen, even more i say NO! u;re still young.. when u do it with the one u get married to.. U'll feel a special thing that u wont ever regret.. gd luck.
2007-03-13 03:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First it is commendable that you have thought about the decision and that you aren't taking it lightly. My best advice for you is to make sure that you are both ready for it--when ever that is, you will know when it is right. And it is no different than when a girl is giving up her virginity, if she loves you she will wait, if she won't, then be thankful that you find out before hand. Good Luck!!
2007-03-13 10:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by Austins Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds ideal, but male or female, NO one should ever do something because of pressure. If you want her, go ahead, but PLEASE use condoms, and if you want to wait longer, and she gives a flip about you, then she'll wait too.
Also, don't refer to it as 'breaking' your virginity. You don't break or lose anything, you gain knowledge of what should be a wonderful part of life. You just need to be sure you're ready, or you will feel you've lost something.
2007-03-13 10:29:16 · answer #3 · answered by Year of the Monkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has to be right for you man. Don't do it just to do it. Take your time there is no real rush. Don't let anyone pressure you into this decision. I am glad you are a guy that at least thinks about this very important decision Your girl should consider herself lucky.
2007-03-13 10:27:28 · answer #4 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it until u r both ready, in this case u r not so its not a right time. You will know with the right person, then u wont hesitatae, shes not that person,however goodlooking she is, she doesnt rock ur boat!
2007-03-13 10:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by saltnsaffron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? and why are you waiting? for religious reasons? u shouldn't rationalize having sex. it's either you want to do it or not. if u have to think it out so much, maybe you shouldn't. most guys don't need permission to do it, they just want to do it. hormones take over. maybe u have some unresolved issues u need to work thru. most guys don't think this much about it. if you're holding back, there's probably a good reason. explore that...
2007-03-13 10:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by RedDevyl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you are comfortable with!!! Don't let anyone pressure you or take that away form you unless you are willing to give it!!! I definitely regret who I gave my virginity too. I know it sounds corny but make it special and do it on your own terms!! Good luck!!
2007-03-13 10:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by jesreekakorb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no trust me. wait till marriage. i know sounds stupid. but i had sex thinking i was ready i was in love getting ready to get married this summer and know we are not together and i made him wait four years to have sex with me. now i regret doing it we were so close to getting married i should of just made him wait a little longer. trust me you will regret it later if it don't last.
2007-03-13 10:42:06 · answer #8 · answered by jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a bit longer until u love her and if ur under 18 wait until ur 18
2007-03-13 10:27:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surprised yr gf is in a hurry to have sex with you juz knowing each other for 4months..scarely..put condom as safety measures..check if she is already pregrant with another guy.
Do it with cautious & street smart always.
2007-03-13 10:28:49 · answer #10 · answered by Goosters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋