i'm out of town on business and while in the hotel bar late last night i met a young lady who was also on business. we had a few drinks and went up to my room. when we got to the room she started to undress and i asked her to stop for just a second so that i could turn off the lights (she was pretty big and i didn't want to see all that cellulite) when we got in bed i pretty much insisted on doing it doggy so i didn't really have to look at her (the hockey game was on too). when i finished i tossed her her clothes and asked her to leave. she was pretty upset that i asked her to leave as soon as i finished. why would she be so mad? i mean really, it's not like she doesn't know she's kinda fat and not real hot. i'd think by now she'd be used to stuff like that. was i really wrong for asking her to leave?
2007-03-13 03:30:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you know it is her fault
2007-03-13 03:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by zenadonia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She felt, I'm sure, that you found her attractive (after all, you spent time with her and invited her to your room) and could have been fantasizing that this encounter might lead to a relationship. She probably had a different ending to the evening in mind, and you abruptly jerked her back to reality when you asked her to leave. Females feel they give a part of themselves during sex, while men can far more easily just view the whole thing as a "release." Next time, save your self the trouble and state clearly what you think and what you want. You might never get laid again, but if you do, there will be no hard feelings.
2007-03-13 10:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by tandkalexander 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you were very wrong...
Well did you toss her a hundred dollar when you tossed her clothing to her. Geez dude you treated her like a whore.
Maybe she was looking for a bit more than a wham bam thank you mame and was hoping to stay the night. Some gals even like to be cuddled after sex.
2007-03-13 10:43:03 · answer #3 · answered by bill45310252 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't believe this is a serious question. yes. you're a disgusting person for doing that. just b/c a person isn't attrative to u doesn't mean u can use them like a tissue and throw them away. don't u think she deserves just as much respect as a 'beautiful' woman does? wow...you're a really shallow person. did u really think she wouldn't be upset? how were u raised to treat women this way? you're a sick human being!
2007-03-13 10:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by RedDevyl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow..yes you are an idiot..but if you were not feeling her like that and she knew exactly what you wanted then she shouldnt be mad..your were only after one thing..but also it shows what kind of person some guys are..it shows that you are willing to put your d ic k in any hole..even if she is ugly or has some kind of a disease..digusting..what if now she gave you crabs or chalmaidia..or whatever..it shows that you dont think about the consequences
2007-03-13 10:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you are a jerk.
You obviously had sex with her. You must have no standards, huh?
Dude, when you are old, bald, and fat and looking for a chick, someone who is hot might think the same as you. But that person will be your wife.
2007-03-13 10:38:52 · answer #6 · answered by javarick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, some guys can really be this insensitive??? That sucks. Yes it was wrong.
2007-03-13 10:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by xfallendaysx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What an idiot..yes
2007-03-13 10:33:38 · answer #8 · answered by IC4NDY_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you're wrong you idiot!
that girl is not being too sensitive.
you are being insensitive.
2007-03-13 10:40:14 · answer #9 · answered by Ori-Hime 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow,,,,,,,,,,,,you are quite popular,,,,,,,huh?
2007-03-13 14:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋