Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

During my year long relationship with Scott I cheated on him with my ex, Pete, who I never stoped talking to. I really loved Scott and am truely sorry for what I did. We broke up about 10 months ago and during those months Scott would call me after going out drinking and tell me that he loves me and misses me, but the next day tells me that he doesn't want to be back with me "right now".
It's been this constant rollercoaster for the last 10 months, telling me he wants to see me than during the week asks if I have a new boyfriend. He lives with his grandmother who told him that if he ever got back with me she would kick him out of the house and he told me that if he lived on his own things would probably be different.
I recently told Scott that i can't be freinds with him anymore. I still love him and want to be with him and it's just to hard to just be "friends".
Did I do the right thing or did I just ruin our chances more of getting back together?

2007-03-13 03:06:25 · 14 answers · asked by krissib143 1 in Singles & Dating

love hurts

2007-03-13 03:05:13 · 6 answers · asked by U1SM1C 1 in Singles & Dating

signs that you have fall in love

2007-03-13 03:05:06 · 7 answers · asked by jepun91 1 in Singles & Dating

I have broken up with my gf like seriously 5 times since January and we are in this awful cycle of getting back togther and breaking up. We are done as of right now, but I am wondering if she is going to call in a few weeks once she realizes I don't care anymore! In the past, I have always made the move to call. Once she realizes that I am no longer there, what do you think she will do?

2007-03-13 03:04:40 · 8 answers · asked by fuji 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 03:04:28 · 18 answers · asked by Memo HG 3 in Singles & Dating

well i like this guy named Jordon since 6th grade and we have had sex to but then i find out that he only thinks im cute and he dont like my personality and he likes another girl named sutton and i see them together in the halls at school all the time and i get jelous but he still tells me that me and him can still have sex as long as he isnt going out with sutton yet. and i really dont want them to start dating soon. what do i do.

2007-03-13 03:04:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so no reply to a text message i sent to him..and no reply to an email i sent him...do you guess i,ve been dumped by him?

2007-03-13 03:03:57 · 32 answers · asked by hawthorn330 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 13 and like this guy in Alabama and we only get to see each other around a couple times a year, is it worth having a relationship? Also how do you make the relationship work out?

2007-03-13 03:03:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 03:02:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I mean if their husbands for example are in their 60s or 70s, can a woman in her 50s enjoy having sex with her 70 yrs old husband?.

2007-03-13 03:02:17 · 12 answers · asked by victoria o 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I started seeing a girl a few years ago but broke up after a few months for no apparent reason just didnt have time for a relationship then. Since then we have become very close friends and I would love to go out with her properly. it it a good idea to give it a go and how should I go about doing this?

2007-03-13 03:02:15 · 20 answers · asked by Glendon 1 in Singles & Dating

He tells me every day he loves me. I live in TN and he lives in MO. I go see him every weekend. He seems so happy when I am there. It breaks my heart to think he is lying to me.

I brought the fact up that his cell phone bill was sent to my house and I opened thinking it was an advertisement (I had been getting alot - I had ordered his phone for him)...well the at first glance it appeared to be $100 and I freaked thinking he was going to have a heartattack. After reviewing, I see where there is LOTS of late night calls to people in Knoxville and in KS and other areas too...an hour to two hours sometimes longer. I got so upset because I know he told me that he talked to other women who says are his friends...but for that long? Am i being paranoid...i am scared to death that he is cheating on me....verbally if you know what I mean....someone please help....

2007-03-13 03:02:06 · 13 answers · asked by Crazy4him 1 in Singles & Dating

My husbands friend recently told him about a guy I'm seeing...keep in mind my husbands friend is the world's biggest w#$#e and is always looking at my behind etc..should he have done this to me when he can't even marry his high school love who he has been with for ever...drags her by a sting and he has too many girlfriends....etc...i'm suspicious about him, he gets pedicures and manicures? He makes me sick...

2007-03-13 03:00:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am 54 years old and my wife died when she was 51 years old. She loved me so much. I did not have any feelings for her. We have been together for at least 30+ years. I never had children with her but I did started having sex with her since I was 28 years old. She died from an accident. I didn't kill her. I told her "I love you" countless times. My feelings for her weren't that deep. If I left her, I wouldn't have anymore sex and she'd be heartbroken and I would start paying for child support if she did got pregnant. I never fell in love with her. If I did fell in love with her, I know I would be very sad right now, but good thing I didn't fell in love with her. I can imagine myself leaving her and not being sad. I don't feel bad at all for her death. I had to pretend to be crying on her funeral to let her family think that I was sad. To be honest, I am not sad. Before she died, she said, "I am very happy to have met you in my life." When she was alive, I treated her like a queen.

2007-03-13 02:59:49 · 3 answers · asked by Xian C 1 in Singles & Dating

What are your simple pleasures in life? Those ordinary things that give you a comforting, warm and overall good feeling.

I love feeling cosy in bed.
Listening to the rain patter on the window at night.
Soft grass or sand between my toes.
Fresh sheets on a bed
Getting my hair washed at the hair dressers
The rustle of leaves
The sound of waves and the smell of the sea
To name a few.. tell me yours

2007-03-13 02:59:40 · 13 answers · asked by RD 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-13 02:59:39 · 24 answers · asked by Sayan 1 in Friends

he lives hours away from me, and i was thinking of getting him a plant for his apartment. if you are in love with your sweetie, what would you give him when you havent seen him in 2 weeks?

2007-03-13 02:59:05 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do u check out other women when ur with ur bird? 4 those hu do would u do it on the 1st date/ days of te relationship? and y??
seriouse answers plz

2007-03-13 02:58:57 · 6 answers · asked by blossom 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 54 years old and my wife died when she was 51 years old. She loved me so much. I did not have any feelings for her. We have been together for at least 30+ years. I never had children with her but I did started having sex with her since I was 28 years old. She died from an accident. I didn't kill her. I told her "I love you" countless times. My feelings for her weren't that deep. If I left her, I wouldn't have anymore sex and she'd be heartbroken and I would start paying for child support if she did got pregnant. I never fell in love with her. If I did fell in love with her, I know I would be very sad right now, but good thing I didn't fell in love with her. I can imagine myself leaving her and not being sad. I don't feel bad at all for her death. I had to pretend to be crying on her funeral to let her family think that I was sad. To be honest, I am not sad. Before she died, she said, "I am very happy to have met you in my life." When she was alive, I treated her like a queen.

2007-03-13 02:58:51 · 2 answers · asked by Xian C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 54 years old and my wife died when she was 51 years old. She loved me so much. I did not have any feelings for her. We have been together for at least 30+ years. I never had children with her but I did started having sex with her since I was 28 years old. She died from an accident. I didn't kill her. I told her "I love you" countless times. My feelings for her weren't that deep. If I left her, I wouldn't have anymore sex and she'd be heartbroken and I would start paying for child support if she did got pregnant. I never fell in love with her. If I did fell in love with her, I know I would be very sad right now, but good thing I didn't fell in love with her. I can imagine myself leaving her and not being sad. I don't feel bad at all for her death. I had to pretend to be crying on her funeral to let her family think that I was sad. To be honest, I am not sad. Before she died, she said, "I am very happy to have met you in my life." When she was alive, I treated her like a queen.

2007-03-13 02:57:12 · 20 answers · asked by Xian C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Sorry to ask this question. I want to know what ladies and gentlemen have in mind about this issue. In other words does love survive even after separation which is never going to be resolved? Is it analogous to the fact that emotional bond tends to decrease when two persons in love are separated by a long distance say due to job assignments?

2007-03-13 02:56:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 02:56:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been waiting for the right marraige partner to someday come in to my life and am not closed minded as to how it will happen, however there are some men who seem to think that if I am not interested in them, that I am not being a very compassionate and loving Christian. There have been a few who get hurt and offended because I am not interested and then accuse me of being too picky. I have two kids to think of and this makes me very cautious. I don't think people should make you feel bad for having a list of things you want in a partner. If I am nice to them as a Christian should be, they always take it to mean something more than it is. If I avoid them , they think I am mean. The men I would be interested in want someone who is nice and I try to be nice to the ones I am not interested in and then I am "playing games" so they stop being interested. What can I do to stop this it seem like self sabbotage.

2007-03-13 02:56:26 · 2 answers · asked by java348 2 in Singles & Dating

umm... if so, what about..


working full time..
apartment searching/ finding..
dropping out of school or what?

Reminder: this is for a teenage whom just turned 17, i really need help. This advice is going to effect another persons' life.

Also, leave the source of which you got your answers from.

2007-03-13 02:56:04 · 14 answers · asked by kajames3790 2 in Family

Mornin' y'all,

Hope it's a good for for ya.

I have a co-worker who I just made love to this weekend for the first time. We can't keep our hands off of each other. We are in the "honeymoon" phase right now.

He had an idea of joining the "mile high club".

Is there any sugggestions for getting a cheap ticket. I don't want to spend too much, especially with my boyfriends baby on the way.

I'm 2 months pregnant, and I want to have as much fun as I can before my belly swells. Also, I don't have to use condoms right now, since I'm already pregnant, nothing can happen.

A day time flight is better, cuz we can just take the day off from work, and both my hubby and my other boyfriend will think I'm at work. Is there a better airline? Any ideas would be great! Thanks y'all.

2007-03-13 02:55:26 · 22 answers · asked by Lökásennäaa 1 in Singles & Dating

to hurt her feelings?
This guy and I are friends and I told him I like him and only him he is a nice guy so i gave him a PSP and other things..because he is in the army and doesn't have much money (not US Army ) He always tells me he could never be angry at me..before the PSP things...even though I gave him a little drama..but everyday I give him text msgs that I miss him and only him..if he doesn't like shouldn't he tell me or do you think he doesn't want to hurt my feelings what do you think a guy will do in this situation?

2007-03-13 02:55:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You capture my heart
When I just hear you laugh
And though we are young
You're my missing half
When you're playing with children
And showing them love
You make my heart beat
Like your sent from above
You capture my heart
With your captivating beauty
And inspire me to make
Caring for you my duty
When you're walking, you move
With such style and grace
And I could study all day
Every line of your face
I'll search high and low
Until each other we find
But now for today
You exist in my mind
When we are apart
It's you I will miss
And long once again
To taste your sweet kiss
I'll embrace you so close
Each night and each day
But for now I will search
Till I find you .................Someday

I would like to chat on yahoo IM with any girl who likes my poem (or add me to your buddy list)

2007-03-13 02:55:13 · 10 answers · asked by dwsum41@yahoo.com 2 in Singles & Dating

We are only mucking around and unfortunatley do not live together so have very little time on our own!In our 30s!!Cant even hug in private or anything without 'looks'.Or being accused of being 'SAD'.

2007-03-13 02:54:58 · 8 answers · asked by Australia 1 in Family

ok here it goes...i don't like talkin' about this very much but who cares. my boyfriend and me went to the movies for a date, along with my sister and her boyfriend. well during the whole movie my sis and her boyfriend had sex(don't ask me how they did that!) well after the movie i thought every thing was great until my boyfriend jarid started acting mad at me. i think he wanted me to go farther with him but i don't do that until i get to know guys really well becuz i got molested when i was little.please help!!!!but i know he loves me cuz i can tell when he lies. now he broke up with and is dating another girl. and he won't even tell me what he's mad at me for, he didn't even tell me we were over. i had to find that out by myself after a couple days later. plus now he's ignoring me.

2007-03-13 02:53:48 · 13 answers · asked by *devil eyes* 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 02:53:37 · 19 answers · asked by missa 1 in Weddings