I am 54 years old and my wife died when she was 51 years old. She loved me so much. I did not have any feelings for her. We have been together for at least 30+ years. I never had children with her but I did started having sex with her since I was 28 years old. She died from an accident. I didn't kill her. I told her "I love you" countless times. My feelings for her weren't that deep. If I left her, I wouldn't have anymore sex and she'd be heartbroken and I would start paying for child support if she did got pregnant. I never fell in love with her. If I did fell in love with her, I know I would be very sad right now, but good thing I didn't fell in love with her. I can imagine myself leaving her and not being sad. I don't feel bad at all for her death. I had to pretend to be crying on her funeral to let her family think that I was sad. To be honest, I am not sad. Before she died, she said, "I am very happy to have met you in my life." When she was alive, I treated her like a queen.
2007-03-13 02:59:49 · 3 answers · asked by Xian C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I did not have any feelings for her. I was only using her for sex. I treated her like a queen so she can have sex with me. not that I love her or anything. I got married with her so she can be happy, not me loving her. I don't even have any feelings for her nor like her. I am very loyal to her and didn't cheat on her once while she was alive. and no, i don't want to pay someone to have sex with me. I can keep my money this way. If she only outlive me, I can have sex with her until I died. and plus, if i did pay a hoe to have sex with me, she probably has stds, i rather not take that chance. During when she is alive, I have always been loyal to her and been faithful. I never saw another girl while I was with her. I'm sure she loves me very much. the main point is that she died happilly thinking that I loved her and she is the one for me. What's wrong with that? I treated her with love but I didn't fall in love with her.
2007-03-13 03:00:39 · update #1
dude why do you say that you don't love her and you freakin married her!!!!!! thats just not right to use a woman like that!!! if you don't feel anything your dumb!!!!
2007-03-13 03:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was there a question in that. Personally I can't believe you are saying it. Why stay with someone for sex. I could understand it if you stayed for the kids but you said you didn't have any. She would have been better off with someone that loved her whole hearted not just in a game. I feel you had to love her more than you are letting on. If you want to move on then do it there is someone out there that will have sex with you if that is what you are looking for. Personally I think I am more grown up at thirty four then you are at fifty one..
2007-03-13 10:10:50 · answer #2 · answered by winter wonderland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are terrible and bigoted.
2007-03-13 10:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by comradechris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋