I am 54 years old and my wife died when she was 51 years old. She loved me so much. I did not have any feelings for her. We have been together for at least 30+ years. I never had children with her but I did started having sex with her since I was 28 years old. She died from an accident. I didn't kill her. I told her "I love you" countless times. My feelings for her weren't that deep. If I left her, I wouldn't have anymore sex and she'd be heartbroken and I would start paying for child support if she did got pregnant. I never fell in love with her. If I did fell in love with her, I know I would be very sad right now, but good thing I didn't fell in love with her. I can imagine myself leaving her and not being sad. I don't feel bad at all for her death. I had to pretend to be crying on her funeral to let her family think that I was sad. To be honest, I am not sad. Before she died, she said, "I am very happy to have met you in my life." When she was alive, I treated her like a queen.
2007-03-13 02:58:51 · 2 answers · asked by Xian C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I did not have any feelings for her. I was only using her for sex. I treated her like a queen so she can have sex with me. not that I love her or anything. I got married with her so she can be happy, not me loving her. I don't even have any feelings for her nor like her. I am very loyal to her and didn't cheat on her once while she was alive. and no, i don't want to pay someone to have sex with me. I can keep my money this way. If she only outlive me, I can have sex with her until I died. and plus, if i did pay a hoe to have sex with me, she probably has stds, i rather not take that chance. During when she is alive, I have always been loyal to her and been faithful. I never saw another girl while I was with her. I'm sure she loves me very much
2007-03-13 02:59:12 · update #1
So what really is your question? Do you want an opinion if we think you should go and have sex? Or do you want an opinion of what we thought of your married life? Evidently it is bothering you, how little you felt for her, or you would not be blogging here. Do you feel guilty? It sound a little like you are. MY opinion is that you can't really live with someone for that long and have children and relations with them for 30+ years and not CARE and have AFFECTION for them. Maybe you don't know what love is??? I think you loved her, maybe you just have a different opinion of what love SHOULD BE.
Now for the sex part, go find someone. There are plenty of lonely & horney ladies your age that would not mind having a friend with benefits. You don't need a prostitue. Look on line or go to a bar or something......Not everyone in the world that is sexualy active has STD.
I am sorry for your loss. But since you did not have any deep feeling for her, you should be able to get on with you life. No body really needs to know how you felt. That was in the past. Move forward. Maybe you can still find someone and fall in Love and be happy and sexually fulfilled the rest of your life. And since you keep posting the same question over and over again, if this is not a joke, you really need to get some help.
2007-03-13 03:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by That 70's girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking this question over and over and over and over and over?
Do you not have a job?
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