I have been waiting for the right marraige partner to someday come in to my life and am not closed minded as to how it will happen, however there are some men who seem to think that if I am not interested in them, that I am not being a very compassionate and loving Christian. There have been a few who get hurt and offended because I am not interested and then accuse me of being too picky. I have two kids to think of and this makes me very cautious. I don't think people should make you feel bad for having a list of things you want in a partner. If I am nice to them as a Christian should be, they always take it to mean something more than it is. If I avoid them , they think I am mean. The men I would be interested in want someone who is nice and I try to be nice to the ones I am not interested in and then I am "playing games" so they stop being interested. What can I do to stop this it seem like self sabbotage.
2007-03-13 02:56:26 · 2 answers · asked by java348 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
continue to pray that the right partner will come along one who will respect your morals that you display for your children. at the same time God may be sending people by that you are avoiding. the ones you are not interested in just tell them up front that you would like to be their friend but you are not attracted to them.
2007-03-13 03:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow ui think u are making a problem out of nothing. honestly . im a christian and im nice to people and im mean to jerks and it works for me i've never had anybody complain about how im and if they do i dont care. im the way im and that's it. and that's what u should do also. just be urself and who likes great and who doesnt well good for them.
2007-03-13 10:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋