I started seeing a girl a few years ago but broke up after a few months for no apparent reason just didnt have time for a relationship then. Since then we have become very close friends and I would love to go out with her properly. it it a good idea to give it a go and how should I go about doing this?
2007-03-13 03:02:15 · 20 answers · asked by Glendon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ya there is no wrong in tryin again....i mean if you tell her that you where not ready back then and that you are ready to give it another shot!!! tell her what you think!!!
Good Luck!!
2007-03-13 03:06:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel you have a close friendship that could grow into a good relationship then yeah, go for it! start dropping hints that your interested, flirt, etc. and make a joke about u 2 being a couple, use this as an oppotunity to say that she would be a great gf etc just as a passing compliment. see how she reacts to all this, if you feel confident she might be interested too, tell her how you feel. do it over a slightly more formal version of what you normaly do togetha, so she knows you want to talk about somethin serious, and she has thw opotunity to drop a hint shes not intrested. ie, if you always hav coffee, have lunch, if you always have lunch have dinner etc. prepare a few sweet things that you want to say, but mostly keep it natural and dont plan a speech.
good luck! i hope i works out!
2007-03-13 03:09:56 · answer #2 · answered by bojanglestothemax 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about how you feel and see if she feels the same way. She may be reluctant if you broke it off the first time but if you have become close then maybe she's been hanging on in there waiting for this moment.
2007-03-13 03:21:17 · answer #3 · answered by luz2loz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, why not. Explain to her your reasons for breaking off the relationship earlier and why you'd like to give a go and go out with her properly, now. I'm sure she'd love to hear it.
2007-03-17 02:15:26 · answer #4 · answered by Steph717 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to Tom Lykes (he whttp://www.blowmeuptom.com/) ill be on the internet or if you live in Los Angeles, CA he is 97.1 FM radio. My suggestion follow Tom advise. First there is not friendship between man and women that is an illusion. That she is interested in you means you liem her which is good. Have clear what you want to get out of the relationship. Still listen to Tom.
Have a good day!
2007-03-13 03:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by fliyer36 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't seem there is a problem there. You are very close friends you say, just carry on enjoying your friendship. If you are right for each other, nature has a knack to let you both know.
2007-03-17 02:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by MoiMoii 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If thats what you both want then go ahead give it a go but take it slowly and see what happens life to short to sit and wonder what if. Good Luck!!
2007-03-13 03:12:20 · answer #7 · answered by suzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is what you both want then let things progress naturally. Pay her compliments , small things mean big things to girls. I believe that if you two were meant to be then you will be. Good luck sweetheart!
2007-03-13 03:10:51 · answer #8 · answered by Mercia L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First give her something nice that she likes then maybe if it is good enough she will go out with you.
2007-03-13 03:08:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her up and ask her out, saying "I'd like to see more of you, on a personal level, if you are of a mind."
2007-03-13 03:20:19 · answer #10 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋