i m a gal,, one guy is following me from the past 6 months,,he proposed me 100 times,,i made him my fren one day,,but the guy dosn't want this, he wants to listen only those three words - i love u,, but i dont wana say him,, i like him but he luvs me toooooooo badly,,i told him dat my parents are against this but he dont listen, i hv treated him as if he is nothing to me,, i love my parents n dont want to hurt them by making an affair,, i want he to leave me,, but he dont want, main usse apna peecha kaise chudvayun,,, plz help n giv ur suggestions,, i really need them
2007-03-13 03:18:12 · 21 answers · asked by sweety 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are many ways you can get rid off your follower:
1. Change your route for sometime, if not possible then accompain anyone along with who can handle this situation smartly.
2. Very simple answer to your question is face this guy and say confidently you are in love with someone else. If he disagrees your statement , make a knot in your mind never stand infront of that guy for any sort of discussion or debate.
3. It seems due respect to your parents you do not want to say Yes to this guy. if you really wants peecha chudvayna then do not write about your parents and their feelings. Think more about your concerns. Let him follow you , never look into his eyes, ignore him.
2007-03-13 03:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are yaar simple si baat hai if you really don't like him keep ignoring him, if he tries to follow you or tries to have a word with you just tell him buzz off or else you would scream. Say anything which would scare him off ,don't just say it do it also if he doesn't after ur warnings. If you know he is following you go to public place so that he can't come near you and remember keep ignoring him. In a few weeks time he would understand ki tum uski nahi ho. Ek baat or pls hindi ko english mein mat likha karo coz ye world level ka area hai to agar koi tumhari help karna bhi chahega to wo samajh nahi paega ki tumne kya likha hai. Best of luck!Hope you follow this remedy and it helps you out too.
2007-03-13 06:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by Mystery Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go straight to your parents and talk to them about this. Who knows they might even consent to this relation. If not, they'll find some solution to your problem. Another suggestion is, you might want to walk in a small group home and not by yourself. So, if there is a problem, your friends are there to help you with the problem and you don't have to worry about it alone. Hope all turns out okay.
2007-03-13 06:08:45 · answer #3 · answered by riri4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that it ain't straightforward after 4 years of loving someone at the same time as it style of sounds like going the incorrect way. i'm afraid that he does no longer love you anymore, i'd be incorrect yet i'd not want to allow you to know a few thing in spite of the undeniable fact that the actuality. i know I actually have once acted like that a number of years in the past, and that's quiet infantile in case you question me, in spite of the undeniable fact that it truly replaced into because i did not experience in contact in her anymore. and that i replaced into too a lot of a coward to in undemanding words tell her. possibly that's some style of desire that you'll start up to hate him. besides you shouldn't enable everyone take care of you want that, you deserve more beneficial useful.
2016-12-01 22:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by sechler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him, tell him to stop following you, and nothing ever is going to happen between you. Threaten him with filing a no-contact order with the court if he persists.
2007-03-13 03:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be stiff. Just tell him that if he continues to bug you like that, you would stop talking to him. And just stop talking to him if he continues. Your problem is that you want him in your life but as a friend. His problem is that he wants you in his life but as a lover. It can not go on like that. You have to put a full stop over here.
All the best...
:-)
2007-03-13 11:16:45 · answer #6 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a similar problem and i told my family....he even gave me a gift on valentines day & i had to take it home......he was living far away from my house but followed my schoolbus and found the house.....as we r of same age i say: u may like that boy but still u hav to inform ur parents...'coz u never know wat may happen.......
in my case wat happend was he had to go 2 gulf/dubai 4 some job(he was big enough 4 dat) and he had to leave me....i got scoldings from my father but dats all right 'coz its 'coz my dad loves me and cares 'bout me a lot.....so,go ahead inform him and avoid him 'coz now we hav a lot 2 study....and its good 2 know dat u don't want 2 hurt ur parents.......our parents hav great hopes 'bout us which we hav 2 fulfill........always remember dat they're living 4 u.........all the best.....pray 2 god & inform ur parents with courage.....success is urs.....
2007-03-13 04:24:36 · answer #7 · answered by cool c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try ignoring him. Also tell him that if he doesnt stop then you shall tell your parents. If he doesnt listen then even tell your parents about this guy, I am sure that they would then take care of this guy. Maybe then they shall talk.
2007-03-13 03:24:04 · answer #8 · answered by Ankur M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are from india then take him to a crowded place and shout help! help! saying that he is trying to advantage of you, believe me after the public thrashing he gets he will never ever trouble you for centuries.
2007-03-13 06:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by jammy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur parents abt this.this is the only way out.u gotta talk this to ur parents and they can easily find a solution..no parents want their children in trble......after u luv them dearly....
2007-03-13 03:39:43 · answer #10 · answered by ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋