Not a question, but I'm explaining why I ask the same question again?

Question

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/;_ylt=AlVBiGVPrYUMIhAuKZQJlSPD7BR.?link=ask&menu=396545604

You see, right now I'm trying to plan what to say to a girl that I've been missing because I've tried to let her go and I'm not really over her, but I ave a feeling that maybe if I try to talk to her for once instead of pretending shes not there, she'll listen. Besides that, I asked the same question here for people to tell me what parts of what I want to say I should change or remove. Not everybody sees everything that needs to be changed. Everytime I ask this question, one prson always says something different needs to be changed. I haven't came across anyone that said the same things needed to be change. I ask this question again because people spot different things they think should be changed.

Answer 1

Communication is key. You both have to be on the same page and want the same things inorder to make a difference. If things need to be changed, they need to be changed by you and her, and not by what people on yahoo tell you.
Talk to her and see what bothers her, what makes her happy, what makes her sad. It is then that you can work on a positive change.
Goodluck and Godbless.

Answer 2

Just say what you feel she'll responed to that