2007-03-13 02:39:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell her! Don't argue, be mean or hurtful, just tell her. This will not go away, handle it and move on, or find a new girlfriend. No one likes to be or feel like a doormat.
2007-03-13 02:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by stormzsecret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you're gonna get rid of her if she does not stop jeopardizing your self-respect.
No seriously, if the relationship is not good for you then rather get out. Imagine spending the rest of your life being treated like a door mat.
2007-03-13 02:49:02 · answer #2 · answered by sexybabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only you allowing yourself to be treated this way mate! Dont let her walk all over you, stand up for yourself, be strong! There is no need to be nasty about it, just explain how you are feeling, why you are feeling this way and tell her she needs to start compromising!! She is not always right, nobody is, she just likes to think she is! I always tell my chap, "Dont argue with me, I'm Right" but he never listens!! Perhaps I m the door mat in my house eh!! ;o) Seriously, talk to her Leechy, you deserve that for yourself otherwise there is a no-win situation. GOOD LUCK HUN XX
2007-03-13 02:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by Jaksi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eih tell her that it's hurting you and you respect her intelligence but tell her that you also know something and show her that you can do something that she'll be proud of..you need to speak because maybe she thinks everything is okay since she never hear you say a word..show that you're more than what she thinks you are..
2007-03-13 02:52:54 · answer #4 · answered by queen_maan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let her know how you are feeling or she will keep doing it. It might cause a little friction, but perhaps she will feel bad and change her behaviour. You need to stand up for yourself.
2007-03-13 03:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time she tells you do do something, say "lets do it together" or "I found an easier way to do it."
You can always try, "Since you don't like the way I do things, you need to take over doing this".
Standing up for yourself doesn't have to be an arguement.
2007-03-13 02:45:06 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont tell her - you give her an ultimatium - either she cops on or you're outta there - and if after that she doesnt bother changing - you trade her in for a new model!
xx
2007-03-13 03:27:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest and tell her she does not listen to you. ask her to be more respectful of what you have to say because it doesn't seem as what you say is of importance to her.
2007-03-13 02:44:43 · answer #8 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that is not always right and that u hate it when she thinks she is right all the time.... talk to her about it
2007-03-13 02:44:01 · answer #9 · answered by Bobbie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damm I'm stuck?
2007-03-13 02:43:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋