In high school I was teased by some girls because I was fat, nerdy, and had glasses. However while attending college away I lifted weights, joined boxing, and now dress with the best urban gear. I now am able to get any woman I want and when I came back home I rejected and insulted those girls who teased me in high school that now want me and they was upset and felt bad that I did that to them. Is this great revenge?
2007-03-13 02:40:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No and I'll tell you why. I know what it feels like (too) to be made fun of and even though I've been out of high school for ten years, I can still feel that pain as though it was yesterday. It's normal to want to make them feel that same pain, but what did it accomplish? Do you feel better? Did it undo what was done while you were a kid? No. Chances are you now feel guilty and all those people have thier feelings hurt. You changed your appearance, but it's hard to change who you are on the inside. Just because you're no longer that "nerd" you were in highschool - don't forget how you felt when people treated you badly and strive to be different. That's the best revenge!
2007-03-13 02:51:30 · answer #1 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To err is human; to forgive is divine. What difference will be left between you and them if you follow the same thing what they did. I don't think there is any difference. To go up in life and be great there are two ways : 1. By pulling down the person above you 2. By surpassing the one above you. Take the second route not the first one.
2007-03-13 09:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by Bacti 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's immature and ridiculous. If you're hurt by what they did, either tell them how you felt or just ignore them. To keep hate and anger in your heart isn't going to solve anything, it'll just make you a miserable person to be around.
2007-03-13 09:44:45 · answer #3 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have feelings too, back to college those girls were not mature it's now that they realize what you felt, i don't blame you for doin that to them... tell me you are feelin better now be friends with them if you like and talk to them about what they did but don't fall in love
2007-03-13 09:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by yurrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get pass this childish matter and behave like an adult and move on
2007-03-13 09:44:33 · answer #5 · answered by Sexy Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes around, comes around.
2007-03-13 09:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is sweet!
2007-03-13 09:43:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
didnt u post this a few days ago
2007-03-13 09:42:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋