Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

2007-03-13 01:11:25 · 9 answers · asked by durfs 2007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i was seeing this girl for about a month and a half. we had a great time together but we never had sex, even though i told her i did. i just assumed she was just waiting to make sure she liked me enough. we were really close, she cuddled with me a lot and sometimes we slept in the same bed. then we went to this party one night and she hooked up with one of my friends, who is kind of a screw-up. he cant hold down a job and never finished high school. then a month later she started banging another of my friends who is cooler than that guy but still cant hold down a decent job and doesnt even have a ged. everytime i see her or even her name comes up i get a real sick feeling in my stomach, not because of her, but because i feel theres something wrong with me to make her go with these other dudes. they're decent people but cant take care of themselves. i dont think it has anything to do with looks, so what is my problem? serious answers only

2007-03-13 01:11:22 · 3 answers · asked by Phil Magroin 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 01:10:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My whole life, I have only ever been interested in Asian women, and find Aussie girls boring and mostly ugly. I ended up marrying a Filipino. Does anyone have an answer to why ALL ASIANS have beautiful bodies?

2007-03-13 01:08:20 · 20 answers · asked by CompleteIdoit 1 in Singles & Dating

I have develop a strange feelings to girl who is older than me and I wish she is my girl lover but I don't know how to approach her.So what should I do to satisfy my feelings.

2007-03-13 01:07:04 · 22 answers · asked by ISAAC A 1 in Singles & Dating

I am married to a Filipino women, and my whole life, I have only ever been interested in Asian women, and find Aussie girls boring and mostly ugly. Does anyone have an answer to why ALL ASIANS have beautiful bodies?

2007-03-13 01:07:01 · 3 answers · asked by CompleteIdoit 1 in Singles & Dating

...I farted every time I took a step?

2007-03-13 01:06:13 · 14 answers · asked by christina rose 4 in Friends

where to start?
Want a quick and easy divorce

2007-03-13 01:06:13 · 11 answers · asked by \ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I can't lie.

Women do look beautiful.

But they must be the worlds fastest money draining or something or other. No lie!!!! I have actually seen a woman posting what she wanted guys to buy for her in gucci lines of clothing, or boots, or necklace or earrings (not their boyfriend either!) for ANY ummm, body to buy for her.

Things that retail for over 5,000 georges, some of them.

I know, I know, some women are "thrifty" with money, but I just haven't seen a guy yet promoting all kinds of women HEY, buy me this car, or pay my lights, etc, get me this or that.

Have I analyzed this incorrectly? Do you think women use more money than men on average?

I need your advice pls!

P.S. I keep trying to save, but seems every time I do, some women tries to get what I got.

Is there a reason behind this? Do all women use men like this?

Or have I just somehow been stuck with wacko weirdos who spend, spend, spend?

2007-03-13 01:05:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so i realise how stupid this sounds but I'd appreciate some empathtic answers.
My boyfriend and I are deeply in love. I am quite a jealous person by nauture and my boyf is not. Though I realise this is a good thing as I know he trusts me, I find this difficult to deal with. I feel like he doesn't really care but he says it's just because he doesn't show it. I am still close with two of my ex-boyfs and enjoy some close male relationships so I appreciate my independence yet I would still feel better if he were at least a little protective. It's a stupid situation as I realise I have the problems but it makes me feel stupid to care. My jealousy is hardly out of control but I do admit it to him in some cases.
Please be nice with your advice -much appreciated. xxx

2007-03-13 01:05:19 · 16 answers · asked by kawaii0fairy 2 in Singles & Dating

after they just have broken up for a month
and he tells you that he never loved your friend and just dated her because he wanted to be near you.

2007-03-13 01:02:26 · 14 answers · asked by mary d 1 in Friends

2007-03-13 01:02:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey! Just wanted to know if an arranged marriage works better in the long run, as you will need to spend more time discovering each other. But on the flip side you'r marrying a total stranger! how weird is that. Waiting to hear what you guys have to say on this matter- I'm keeping an open mind.

2007-03-13 01:01:28 · 21 answers · asked by filmyguy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a girl at a friends wedding about a month ago - she seemed really positive and fun and we talked a bit (mostly about her) and i notice she kept sitting next to me, coming outside when I was..etc

She crossed my mind since so I got her number from my friends new wife. When I called I could hear she was driving so I told her I'd call back in 15. I did. she did not answer. I text her to say i dont understand the ignorance but i would take it as she is having a bad day. she text me back that night saying she had a hard day and she would be free next day should i wish to call. I called her at the end of the week because I was busy. No answer. I text her the last time to say I like you so far it would be good if she could call me when she is free. 5 days later she text me apologising for not returning my call as she was busy with work and what have you. told me hey maybe give me a call during the day. looking at current trends i am no fool - she will not answer.

What the hell went on?

2007-03-13 00:59:58 · 13 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Singles & Dating

like 2 seconds straight after it, wat do you expect the other person to do when you say yes/no? wat do you do when they say no/yes? im just wondering.

2007-03-13 00:59:56 · 7 answers · asked by Wilson J 4 in Singles & Dating

I think that my boyfriend is getting cold feet after moving in w/me. He doesn't go out much but the last 4 times he has:
1) Xmas party at mates w/strippers: Continuously rejected my calls then answered and called me a b**lbuster.
2) He "forgot" his mobile (out with boys)
3) His phone "went flat". Excuse = I couldn't charge my mobile cos yours was on the powerpoint (-there's more than one powerpoint in a house)
4) Wedding - Calls n says 'I'm leaving wedding shortly at 11.30pm then comes home at 4.45am! Went 2 pub w/boys after wedding.
He has a bucks nite coming up & when I told him u better not come home at some ridiculous hour like 5am he told me just laughed :-( I honestly do not think that he cheats on me but I feel very disrespected, sort of like he will do what he wants to do when he wants regardless of how his actions makes me feel. I don't want to be treated like a doormat but whether I try to talk to him, get upset or yell it doesnt make a difference -what do I do?

2007-03-13 00:59:38 · 13 answers · asked by sagittarius_82 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My freinds reckon he likes me and they keep urging me to ask him out but i really dont wanna like scare him off so i dont no wot to do! It took guts to ask him to go to norwich with me and some other mates! Would reallly apreciate the help people! Im not very good at this sort of thing! Just maybe help at what i should do and say to maybe giv sum himts that i like him...?

2007-03-13 00:59:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you know if a guy has a crush on you?

2007-03-13 00:59:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mem all the sudden?
Are a very frustration subject all the sudden. I'm very comfortable around guys and never had a problem talking to or flirting with the ones I'm interested in. Until now I met a guy through another guy friend I have only met him a few times but I'm really attracted to him. Every time I'm around him it seems I open mouth and insert foot. I'm not sure what to say. I get kind quiet and shy and thats very unlike me. We have some of the same interests. Well I don't know help I supose?

2007-03-13 00:59:01 · 3 answers · asked by shan shan 1 in Singles & Dating

I think that my boyfriend is getting cold feet after moving in w/me. He doesn't go out much but the last 4 times he has:
1) Xmas party at mates w/strippers: Continuously rejected my calls then answered and called me a b**lbuster.
2) He "forgot" his mobile (out with boys)
3) His phone "went flat". Excuse = I couldn't charge my mobile cos yours was on the powerpoint (-there's more than one powerpoint in a house)
4) Wedding - Calls n says 'I'm leaving wedding shortly at 11.30pm then comes home at 4.45am! Went 2 pub w/boys after wedding.
He has a bucks nite coming up & when I told him u better not come home at some ridiculous hour like 5am he told me just laughed :-( I honestly do not think that he cheats on me but I feel very disrespected, sort of like he will do what he wants to do when he wants regardless of how his actions makes me feel. I don't want to be treated like a doormat but whether I try to talk to him, get upset or yell it doesnt make a difference -what do I do?

2007-03-13 00:57:58 · 7 answers · asked by sagittarius_82 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 00:57:52 · 6 answers · asked by waled almaz 1 in Friends

This past saturday I went into my backyard shed to get my lawnmower and I found a homeless guy sleeping on a pile of old rags, I woke him up and told him to get out and he pulled a knife on me and told me to 'back off or I'll knife ya', he said a friend of his was coming over, and that he had a gun.

I went inside and called the police, but they did nothing. That night his friend turned up, another homeless guy. I can hear them arguing and singing late at night, I think they were drinking, the smell is disgusting.

I called the police again but they told me to stop wasting their time. I spoke to my lawyer and he told me that they are squatters and they have rights etc etc.. I didnt think it would be this hard, I just want them out.

What are some non violent methods I could use to get these guys out?

I dont want them coming after me for revenge, I want them to leave of their own will if possible.

2007-03-13 00:56:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We had a bad weekend and I want to be nice. He is cooking dinner so what can I do for him? (Non sexual answers please)

2007-03-13 00:56:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 00:56:10 · 3 answers · asked by Adam F 1 in Singles & Dating

Do they think about a new life after or do they like the settled wife or g/f ? Do they plan ahead for the change of kids leaving the nest?

2007-03-13 00:55:45 · 4 answers · asked by zwhisy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My life parner and I have been together for over seven years now, and are very much in love. He is the most gentle, caring, honest man I have ever known. I knew going into this that his ex-wife was extremely hateful, cruel, vindictive verbally and physically abusive. How do you deal with someone who cannot act like an adult, and continuely calls me, hangs up and calls me racial slurs??? (There are also his children involved in this) and the phone calls are being made to my parnter's and I business so we cannot block her phone number.... Help please!!!!!

2007-03-13 00:55:29 · 12 answers · asked by westernstargal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 00:55:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well i am about to go to the US next month. I don't know many people there and its my first trip there. I don't want to spend my years alone. What to do? how to form a good stable relation and above all how to find one? What to look for in a person and what are the other does and don't for a new commer?
I am totally ignorant in this regard.

2007-03-13 00:54:32 · 4 answers · asked by chessman259 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 00:52:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-13 00:51:26 · 13 answers · asked by Ricardo 1 in Singles & Dating