like 2 seconds straight after it, wat do you expect the other person to do when you say yes/no? wat do you do when they say no/yes? im just wondering.
2007-03-13 00:59:56 · 7 answers · asked by Wilson J 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you ask a girl out for the first time, you should plan the evening. Don't leave it up to her. That is, instead of simply asking, "would you like to go out?" without a destination in mind; you should ask, "would you like to go to a movie, dancing, or whereever it is you plan to take her.
Although dinner isn't the best choice for the first date, If you're taking her out for dinner, you should have a restaurant in mind. You might ask her if she enjoys italian food (or whatever it is) and if she says she doesn't, take her somewhere else. When it comes to movies, ask her what she'd like to see. If she has no preference, take her to see a movie she might enjoy. Understand that when you take a girl out for the first time, you want her to know more about you (which is why you should plan the evening). If you go out a second time, then you might ask her, "where would you like to go tonight?" This gives you an opportunity to learn more about her. Again, if she has no preference, you should have something in mind. Never leave the evening up to chance.
Remember that first dates are only awkward when the person who initiated the date doesn't have a plan, so make sure you have one.
If you ask a person out and they say no, don't get upset. Simply smile and say, "maybe some other time." Wait a while before asking that person again. If they say no again, don't ask them again. That is, don't set yourself up for another let-down.
2007-03-13 02:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully she said yes (though I have heard that women ask men out now, which is perfectly fine.) Then smile and ask when and where it would be great for them. Use your nonverbal skills.....
If the answer was a no, then still, use those skills and smile. Maybe next time or there was something going on that nite or something, just don't let it go with a no,.....maybe ask why not and investigate more into that person. The reason might be she has a boyfriend, or she might like to take her grandpa out to eat that nite, who knows, but you never will unless you ask for feedback.....
You would look like a jerk if you got all upset if she couldn't go out because she takes her grandpa out that nite, so don't let your response ruin your future chances.....
2007-03-13 08:08:50 · answer #2 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important is you plan a romantic date and you pick her up in her house and do not say a single lie during the date. after the date , you should bring her to somewhere like mabey in the beach, than you let her talk about herself so you know her better ... pray before the date!
2007-03-15 06:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by Donna06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person says yes:
You don’t have their telephone number then you might try reaching for a pen and paper…
Say, “sweet, have you seen {latest movie here}?”
If person says no:
Say, “Well, it was worth a shot.” And change the topic…
Say, “See ya later..”
2007-03-13 08:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by Renoirs_Dream 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they say no, leave it alone.
If they say yes, make plans to do something together, exchange phone numbers and call them later to confirm the plans.
Hope this helps.
2007-03-13 08:07:56 · answer #5 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go all Shy and silly and try and work in that first awkward kiss............ Then 3 years later you wonder what youre doin with the Fat lazy Trisha/Oprah watchin mess.......
2007-03-13 08:04:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you set the date time, and if it's a girl, you GOTTA tell her what you're going to do so she knows what to wear. They're particular about that stuff. Then tell her she better put out. LOL
2007-03-13 08:04:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋