I have develop a strange feelings to girl who is older than me and I wish she is my girl lover but I don't know how to approach her.So what should I do to satisfy my feelings.
2007-03-13 01:07:04 · 22 answers · asked by ISAAC A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it don't
2007-03-13 01:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on your age. My impression is that you are not yet really an adult. But if you are, then I don't think age should really be an issue unless it undermines important desires like children, eg if you are desperate to have children at some time in your life but your partner is going to be too old or doesn't want any more children then could you handle it?
Of course there isn't much difference with not having children related to age instead of medical reasons. Basically when push comes to shove can the two people be happy with what they can contribute and receive from the relationship.
There is only slightly higher chance of a relationship ending due to age which I think in large has to do more with societies expectations than anything. And you will never know what can be unless you take a deep breath and take a major chance!
Good luck!
2007-03-13 01:15:24 · answer #2 · answered by desertangel75 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when it come to Love.. age doesn't usually matter unless you are underage and she is over aged. It all depends on the individual. You didn't tell us the age difference. If you are under 18 and she is older than 21 then it does make a difference according to the law. You can get her into big trouble if you are so stay away. If you are of age then just let her know. If she is not interested then she will tell you and you can get on with your life. If she is interested then she will tell you and you can get on with your life together. Either way you will know and your life can keep on going. Good Luck
2007-03-13 01:13:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if all your after is satisfying your feelings, you wont get anywhere! You have to get to know someone first and Im very fortunate that I met someone just by answering a question on this site. I am older than him and no it doesnt bother him. So age is just a number and I feel that Im very lucky to have met him.
2007-03-13 02:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by runningbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever happens - dont do what my ex did - lied about his age - he is five years my junior - he lied to me for 6 months - i have just found out. Half of me hates him, half of me is glad it happened - even though if i knew his real age, things would have never have developed past friends, i still fell in love. Its certainly opened my eyes with regards to an "age gap" - as Alliyah said - age aint nothin but a number.
2007-03-13 01:16:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ms.Trouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age does not matter. There may be complication such as having children, going clubbing, etc but if you love each other then you can work around them. Do not approach her and be pushy if it is gonna happen then it will happen on its own.
2007-03-13 03:13:55 · answer #6 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion on this is that when you are younger age does not matter but as you age it becomes more of an issue as age will stop you wanting/being able to do certain things!!
2007-03-13 02:28:11 · answer #7 · answered by lisa s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't really think that age matters when your deeply in love so i would say that you should try to talk to her or find someone whose her friend and ask them the favor to introduce you to her or do something you think she might like.
I hope you get what you want. Best of Luck!!!!!
2007-03-13 01:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by mary d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her , this kind of relationships never works out , just find a girl ur own age , after 20 yrs u don't wanna live ur life with an old lady do u?
2007-03-13 01:11:41 · answer #9 · answered by mayablush 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No age doesn't matter. My bf is 10 yrs older than me. Go for it babes x x x
2007-03-13 01:15:01 · answer #10 · answered by Dolly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think age should matter.. i've been in your situation before. Maybe you should tell her how you feel, but if youre too shy or whatever just wait to see if she likes you too then ask her out sometime.
2007-03-13 01:12:07 · answer #11 · answered by xsdgfx564 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋