After being together 14 years, my wife and I were in a kind of lull in our sex life. Neither had any complaints as far as the quality, maybe the quantity was a problem at times, but all in all we had a really good sex life. BUT...it WAS a little boring at times and of course it's only natural to find other people attractive. We both have a wandering eye and will actually get the others attention if an attractive person of the opposite sex walks by.. Anyways, some mutual friends of ours are swingers. After many hints and innuendos we've decided to check out the "lifestyle" by going on a cruise with them in a couple weeks. Maybe nothing will happen but maybe it will. We worry our marriage may suffer in the end. I've had fantasies about this for years, as she has, and have no qualms, at THIS point, with her enjoying someone else...but will she feel the same seeing me with someone else..especially if this other woman REALLY enjoys it? Anyways, anybody out there have experience in this
2007-03-13
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Marriage & Divorce