2007-03-13 00:51:18 · 6 answers · asked by bestkany 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well it is just the other way
its kids who mostly suffer due to the mistakes of adult
2007-03-13 01:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by Caring 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Parents want their children to have great lifes. They don't want them to go thur the pain they had gone thur in the everyday world. When a child divorces, it effects the parents because they loved the child and their spouse and had taken them into their lives. They see the grandchildren suffer. If your child is the one that caused the divorce, it is even more painful to see your child doing wrong. You thought you had taught them better you feel like you have failed. If you child is involved in drugs, alcohol or in trouble with the law , you feel that some how you are responsible for not teaching them right from wrong. Even when you know in your mind that it is their choice. We as parents think we can fix everything and we can't. But we suffer right along with the kids.
2007-03-13 07:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by springer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It pains us to see our kids making stupid mistakes that we advise them not to do, caus we are older and have lived through what you are experienceing, we have lost freinds in car accidents, we have seen others destroy their lives with drugs etc, we have had children and understand what the consequences of precnancy are.
We live in fear of you being murdered.
Have you ever been home alone and wondered why your parents arnte home yet, it just causes anxiety as we think the worst, and in todays society ecerything is more extreme, and predators have many more tools to access victims.
I have a freing whose 13/14 year old was receiving emails and sms from a much older guy so he stopped her from using them. now she said he molsted her so he is very hurt that somone he loved and protected is repaying him like that.
i HOPE THIS HELPS!
2007-03-13 08:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by Audio Visual master 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if the kid is stupid enough to get pregnant, have a baby and even worse keep the damn thing, often the parents get stuck with it. Sometimes parents suffer when they see their children simply doing stupid things like not going through with school or doing drugs. Sometimes children are so stupid they end up doing things like running into the road and getting themselves killed, maimed or mentally retarded. That upsets parents too!
2007-03-13 07:57:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't really understand what your asking could you be a little more clear or give some additional information? In what context?
2007-03-13 07:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by Proud to be APBT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right there but you know we did exactly the same to our parents if we are honest
2007-03-13 07:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋