My girlfriend and I just broke up after being together for 3 years, but lately I have been thinking about her and having dreams about her i mean is this normal after being in a long relationship. Do u think she is going throught the same things i am?
2007-03-13 00:36:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is very common for people to dream about ex-partners. Individuals that have been an important part of our lives continue to take up a part of our mind and heart. It is impossible to very dramatically shut the person out of thoughts and feelings. Just because the relationship ends does not mean that all is finished. You will continue to dream about your ex girlfriend until you "let go" of her on a very important level, or until you learned your lessons from that relationship. Either way, dreaming about your ex-romance does not predict future involvement. It may be wish-fulfillment, reliving memories, or working out old issues.
2007-03-13 04:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything you have ever done, anyone you have ever seen can appear in a dream. It's part of the marvel of the human brain. You don't say what is going on in the dreams...fighting, day to day stuff, etc. If you want to try to interpret them, visit your local library and check out a dream dictionary. Of course you will think about her, that is only natural and yes, she most definitely she is going through the same things. It doesn't mean you should get her back, it just means the brain has stored information and you can't wipe it out. The instances will fade in time and as you move on, but chances are something, somewhere will trigger a memory of the time you were together and you may think of her or have a dream of her. It's normal.
2007-03-13 00:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by itsjustme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been married 23 years, before my marrage i dated a girl for about 4 years, i still think and dream about her alot, dreams are nice as long as you stay safe with everything going on, its a good thing, i hope i never stop dreaming about the woman i didnt marry.and i love the woman i did marry
2007-03-13 00:42:03 · answer #3 · answered by bluelitttt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal. Together for 3 years you have alot of memories. Find someone new and thoughts of her will be less and less
2007-03-13 00:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by vitachick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a strong possibility!
my ex and i both thought and dreamed of wach other for a few months after we broke up too.
2007-03-13 00:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by John Redcorn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel pain when I read threads like this. Are you guys sure you had enough reasons to break-up?
She may or may not feels the same, depends on reasons behind the break-up. Did you hurt her?
2007-03-13 00:59:09 · answer #6 · answered by RareBird 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It happens. it just means subconsciously you still care for her. weather your willing to admit it or not. If its really bothering you and you both still communicate. talk to her about it. maybe shes just waiting for you to tell her. esp if she was the one who was dumped... or if it was mutual even better... go for it.. honestly you have nothing to lose.
2007-03-13 00:40:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it natural. It will go fade away.
2007-03-13 00:41:13 · answer #8 · answered by Margaret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.
2007-03-13 00:38:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋